Why guys do this?

[Anonymous]

so a lot of guys say that i’m very pretty but like they don’t want me to mess around you know? I don't know if i scare them it’s kinda weird

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+1 y

i think i’m ugly sometimes :(

[MementoMori777]

No one ever gets anything worth it from hookups and maybe he's trying to avoid it, if that dude was looking for something serious, this is a red flag to him, it's understandable, it shouldn't be too hard to find someone to hookups with tho tbh, I don't know why you struggling so hard.

[Asker]

maybe they are scared of me? I don't know bc i always do the first movie

[MementoMori777]

That shouldn't scare anyone, maybe you are coming off to strong and look desperate? I've seen you around and you've never cracked a smile, maybe that's it, if you look pissed all the time maybe it can effect shit

[Asker]

oh explained now, people say i always look “mean” i promise it’s not my intention I don't know but im gonna change that

[MementoMori777]

Yea it's called a resting bitch face

[Asker]

i’m gonna post pictures smiling now

[MementoMori777]

👍👍👍

[FilmGuy93]

A lot of guys have been conditioned to avoid casual entanglements with women like the plague.

[Asker]

wdym?

[FilmGuy93]

Men constantly hear women complain about being treated poorly other men, and a lot of guys are real jerks when they find out you've mistreated a woman's feelings, so most of us avoid hookups with women because it's just not worth the effort.

[FunkyMonkee]

What do you mean by, "they don't want me to mess around"? You mean, they're jealous of you seeing other guys?

I used to know a girl your age that thought she was fat and ugly. In the meantime, she looked like a cross between Marilyn Monroe, Debby Harry (they could be twins!) and a young Kim Cattrall (again, they could be twins!), and nearly every guy on campus wanted to fuck her and have her for their girlfriend!! She was GORGEOUS and sexy!! I even asked her to marry me, once!

[OfMiceandMen]

Maybe you should smile a little more and be more inviting. You can't be shy as guys may avoid you, if you make it really difficult.

Best to work on your confidence too. Guys like a girl with some confidence.

[invalid1]

You're attractive, not ugly.
they're just intemidated, I would be intemidated by your prettiness if I meet you and have low confidence.

[mark000h]

Because real quality men want more than just hookups with women. Women should value themselves more.

[Asker]

i want hookups lmao

[Jamie05rhs]

@cecilia200512 That's probably not a good idea.

[Summeroflove]

Probably because not everything is sexual. It’s a complement. My gosh

[gorydetails]

You're saying they don't want to stay with you? Or they're intimidated to hook up with you in the first place?

[Asker]

second option

[Asker]

sometimes i think i’m the problem…

[Asker]

i try they give its like that

[gorydetails]

I don't know. Maybe go after a better caliber of men.

[Iron_Man]

Well, who wants women mess around with other guys?

[Iron_Man]

Get married

[Asker]

i’m single tf? but when i try with some guy they kinda give up

[Iron_Man]

Don’t do that don’t try

[Luckycharms12]

Hook ups can be fun. But most time there not worth it wait find right guy. And don't let people get you down

[In_Trance]

Must be something you're doing or something else you're saying.

[Asker]

this happens when i try first or nah doesn’t matter

[In_Trance]

That might be part of the issue; coming on too strong

[Asker]

gotcha thanks

[Bklynbadboy12]

What do you mean they don't want to mess around with me

[es20490446e]

They are just pretending ;)

[Asker]

wdym

[es20490446e]

They are pretending they are not interested.

[Asker]

why they would do that

[es20490446e]

To make you more interested, or just for self assurance.

[Jamie05rhs]

Mess around how?

[Asker]

kisses

[Jamie05rhs]

Lol.

[Jamie05rhs]

Just worry about kissing just yet, babe. There is a time and a place for that. :)

[Jamie05rhs]

"Don't worry"