Guys, would you mind if your girlfriend had a flirty personality?

[Anonymous]

I have a flirty personality and I do flirt unintentionally with strangers I meet everyday. There is nothing behind it and I don't know why I do it, it just happens. My boyfriend seems to have a problem with it, even though I told him like a hundred times that it doesn't mean anything.
He is a big flirt himself and I don't mind it at all, in fact I kind of like to see that other girls like him and it gives me the pleasure of knowing that he is mine.
Do you guys think it's possible that he will get used to it or will I have to stop doing it order for him to be happy?

[Anonymous]

I would never flirt with another guy when i. am in a relationship. This has nothing to do with trust or insecurities on the guys behalf, i just think it's very direspectful to him.

If both of you are flirts and neither of you care a out the other one flirting , then i guess that's fine.

A friend of mine is very flirty with guys, and one guy commented that he felt sorry for her husband. He gloated at the fact she flirted with him as he believed she wanted him. He even stated he thought it was degrading towards her husband. Even though this guy loved her flirting with him and flirted back. He said he loved the idea that hecould shag her if he wanted too. So although your flirting is harmless in your view, it does tend to make you and your boyfriend appear to be direspectful towards each other

[CantReallyBeCreative]

You should probably learn not to flirt because that would just make your boyfriend think you are not happy with him and you are looking for another guy. Maybe even with your boyfriend it would have started with a normal flirt and then you two had feeling and he might be afraid something like that could happen with someone else too.

[Esplorare]

You sound like a narcissist.
There are many men who would find your behavior to be egotistically disrespectful and inappropriate. That's the type of habit that can make a significant other and eliminate their confidence in you to handle situations behind their back appropriately with tact.

[Asker]

Well but what if he does the same thing? He flirts with other girls too but then he tells me he doesn't like when I talk to someone.. Then it's a big problem I guess.

[Esplorare]

Then he's a hypocrite and you both are disrespecting the relationship.

[SavageNick87]

He sounds like a little boy to be honest & I dont mean that in a mean spirited way he just sounds insecure. I figured out at a very early age that an insecure guy will drive a girl crazy. No girl wants that. Confidence, confidence, confidence. It depends really tho I mean if its harmless then no big deal. But if ur like touching guys arms and laughing and grazzing their chest & shit like that then I would probably knock a mf out lmaooo

[aficionado]

Yes i would. I wouldn't be comfortable at all if my girlfriend flirted with random guys, even if it was her nature.

I highly doubt if my relationship with such a girl would last too long.

[guntherbrown11]

I don't like it when my crush flirts with other guys. Simply because that is how we started liking each other, by flirting. It all starts there, and then the feelings change and then someone gets hurt.

[DodgersGM]

Not gonna lie, I wouldn't love it. I'm not a casually flirty person though, so I feel like I'm justified in feeling that way.

[Flame1]

Since most of the guys that say they dont mind have never been in that situation. Let me tell u NO i wouldn't want no girl like that. Thats gonna be them standing there looking crazy when she flirting with some guy in the store.

[hypno-trip]

I don't think I'd mind if she treats it playfully. She's just having a little fun.

[Anonymous]

I wouldn't care, since she'll be leaving with me.

[gobsmacked3]

No, it would make her fun

[Iron_Man]

For me only not for other guys

[Anonymous]

A little jealousy is OK, just not a lot of it

[Succcesssfulll]

I wouldn't like it.

[shanky321]

I like threesome