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It is often discussed on this site and even in real life usually amongst friends that certain girls should be avoided and never taken as wives for a variety of reasons.

and of course these girls hate that they are talked about like that and some other guys/girls also try to protect them and claim its all stereotyping and is false.

Things such as , having tattooes, cheating before, being loud and obnixous, having an attitude, sleeping around/with lots of guys, wearing skimpy outfits and showing lots of skin with no considerations, having a lifestyle that demands much more money than the average person, being super flity with other guys, comes from a bad background, and girls who refuse to do anything a traditional woman does and would rather starve than cook.

Stastistics dont exist about the majority of these qualities but based on my what i observe girls around me doing, single, married and divorced ones, the girls with the qualities listed above are usually the ones getting a divorce, cheating, fighting often with their husbands and in short makes the guy wish he never got married in the first place ( that is if he doesn't go broke before that) .

As i said these are my own observations, and i find girls with these qualities to certainly be much more riskier as gfs/wives, so what about you? what do you think?

Some see marriage as a sacred bond but what if marriage is only an insurance?
That people are only entering into a lifetime commitment because they are afraid of the future?
Does getting married means your partner will love you forever?
Or is it just an attempt to keep him or her from finding someone better... better than you will ever be?
Is it a sacred bond or is it just an illusion of security?

Discuss s'il vous plaît

For most (not all) people, this could be marriage and a career, and for a good amount of people this could also mean homeownership and/or having children. Some people don't have or want any of these but have different objectives. I've tended to notice that people who "have their life together" (whatever that means to them) by that age generally don't mind the approach of their 30s, nor do they think it's "old". On the other hand, some people notice that they haven't achieved something they dearly want but their peers have and they panic when their 30s approach and start to think they're "getting old to be doing <insert marriage, career, whatever here>". What do you guys think about this/what have you noticed? Please discuss.