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I deleted the question bc l:

#. I think it can easily be misconstrued as something it was not intended to be. At the time I thought it comical and potentially disturbing. It was not meant to titillate , but I get it. That’s on me. Those pics were too much.

#2. As I mentioned yesterday, the driver is always very friendly -appropriately - and helpful. I y bad maligning him with no proof, even just by asking the question, tho I know he didn’t know didn’t feel right.
ot is very frustrating to answer a post turn hsce it disappear. I’m sorry about that. It’s just I used up my updates and every time I see a new answer, I feel compelled to re explain 🥵 how:

I don’t think he intentionally did anything after all, and prob was a returned item not very well re packaged & how the reason I was suspicious initially was on account of the outer box being 💯 in tact whilst the Inner package was clearly handled e/ belt pulled out package never opened properly... anyhow, that’s that.

Since I’ve been gone a while, in case anyone said anything unrelated to the post that you wanted me to know, just want you to know, I’m not ignoring you I didn’t see it. Hope you are all well 🌞 💜

I’ve been seeing a med student for ~a month and a half. I completely understand that their schedule is busy- I’m also in school but not as intense as them. I asked a couple of weeks ago what they thought about us, just to get an idea of where he is.

He said that he hadn’t reflected on it much because he’s been busy with school. To clarify, I asked if he wanted to stop things or see where we end up, and he chose the latter. Essentially, I gave him an out but he didn’t take it.

He drunk texted me and brought up s*x for the first time a few days ago (he went to visit his friends in another state and they got hammered). I went along with it because honestly, I thought about it and kinda wanted it too.

Right after that, it’s like he fell off the face of the earth. The next day after (I guess drunkenly asking for booty call), we chatted as usual throughout the day. I then asked him to call me (nothing serious, he’s never called me before and I just like talking rather than texting). He said he would as soon as he finished up in the hospital. I didn’t hear back from him for a couple of days. (Side note, this isn’t the first time he’s kinda disappeared or slowed down communication for a day or two, I’ve brought this up before).

So I finally texted him to see what was going on. He got back to me quickly and he apologized and said that things were getting kinda crazy with school. I didn’t say anything because I didn’t know what to say. He texted the next day to see how my day was going. I’ve been going back and forth with whether or not to respond or even what to say.

Does it sound like he’s legitimately busy and sorry? Or doing damage control just to waste my time? If I should respond, what should I say?

I appreciate all the help, I’m super new to dating.

Also, in my old question, it seemed like most guys agreed he was busy and most girls said he’s wasting time which is interesting.