Girls, Why should men want to marry women today? ?

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This is not to make any women mad though i'm sure some won't read the description and get hostile. This is a legitimate question. I read a lot of "he said she said" here. It's always been my opinion that it's women that tend to want marriage ( not that guys are opposed). But on a site where there are frequently angry people and hyperbole reigns. I hear a lot of guys say that women aren't worth forming a lifelong bond. While i don't agree. I think there are good and bad apples as with anything and as always people with a lot of baggage. But i personally have no desire to get married. Twas not always so. But virtually no woman i talk to views it as a LIFETIME commitment anymore. I'm not singling women out. But understand i'm a guy.
I guess i'm asking am i right? And if not restore my faith in women.
Keep in mind if you just post sometjing combative like "why should we" i'm just going to remove it. Try to be positive or be gone. This question is just for women so you don't have to worry about some guy assassinating your comments. I'll allow anon pinks but use it responsibly please

KingdomForAKiss · Accepted Answer

Unfortunately there is such a business side to it all.
In old age, when you're SO dies, you want to be able to fulfill their last wishes. Without certain legal bindings, you may not have any control over that. I'd be heartbroken to have spent a lifetime with someone and not be able to fulfill their final arrangments.
Also, if my job offered a better health care plan, I'd not be able to cover my SO if we were not married and vice versa.
Certain things of that legal nature. Maybe there are loopholes but of those I'm not aware.

Why should men marry women today? There is no answer that broad.

I would love to get married someday. I'd love to take his last name and make it my own. I want to spend my days with one man, sharing our time together, experiencing the highs and lows of life together. I want to stand with him in front of our family and friends and tell the world how much I love him. I want him to still punch my bum when I'm 90 years old.

My parents were married 30 years, separated only by the death of my mother. They lived for one another, built their whole lives around the family. For me, family is the most fulfilling thing in my life-- the thing I will continue with put my heart and soul into, even when it's not easy.

MzAsh · Accepted Answer

If you want a loyal woman, you should marry. If you want children, you should marry.
If you want a partner who supports you in times of need, you should marry.
If you want regular sex, you should marry.
If you want a fun companion for life, you should marry.
You shouldn’t expect any of these out of a woman if you refuse to marry.

Anonymous · Answer

The culture from the West have lost the real meaning of marriage.
Marriage is an old fashion term to unit 2 love ones together for many purposes.
Main purpose is for reproduction. Very few women/men care for this. Hints lost of tradition.
In order for men/women to want those again, the society has to bring back that value.
I don't see it from the West thinking. Family/traditions have been slowly deteriating and continue to decline.
Some men goes to the East to look for women who still hold these traditions.
If people from the West want to continue their name/bloodline, then get marry.
If not, it will be the end of the Western society very soon.
It's not about men/women here. Its about power.

In reality, we don't NEED to be married or want... it was created to keep family together.

'When I was in my 20's, I didn't care. Once married, I had a duty for my husband's family. He is the last male in his family. I give him a son and a daughter.
I am teaching my son the importance to carry on his last name and the blood line. And to build him up as a strong, confident man. To succeed and to form bigger families when he grows up.
The weaker, will end. The stronger will continue.

I met my boyfriend., he was trained terribeily by his mom... no value/tradition. Very selfish of her to end her husband's blood line by telling her own children she deosen't want grandkids. They all failed in marriages and relationships.

After dating me for 4 years now, he saw how I raised my two kids. He finally cried today... not ever in his adult life... not even after his parents died
He cried today... because he was living in a lied to not get married or have kids.
He is finally regretting. But it's too late. I did try to have a kid with him. But I think it's too late. He is the youngest and only hope.
To answer your question, in a humbly woman's view. So that I can continue your blood line
To answer your question in an arrogant way... because I am a high value woman. I have good family value. I am successful. I don't need men. I know what I want. I am fun. I am adventurous. I am smart. I will be there for you. I am loyal. I am caring. I am good with money. I can build you up. I can make our lives better... etc...
With my ex. husband. When I met him, he had 2K in his bank account. When we parted after 10 years. He became a millionaire.
With my boyfriend... soon to be husband..
When I met him, he was being used by women. One car, one house.
Now... no other women would come near him to take adventage of him.
Now, we both own 6 properties. At one point, we had 7 cars. We have 3 now.
I am not your typical woman.
Good luck to you with your dreams. I hope you meet that special love one to complete you.

CubsterShura · Answer

Because life is short and a woman can make it wonderful. Remember that you aren't marrying all women in the world, just one. So why not?

Also if you want children and you care about their good stable upbringing you definitely need a wife for that!

OliviaOfTheScots · Answer

Removing emotions marriage seems just pointless in general in my opinion

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