Search Results: best way to break up

What's the best way to get through the depressed stage of grief?

I got very suddenly broken up with and it hurts and everything came out of nowhere and I'm devastated. I e been working a lot, but I've been burning myself out. When I'm with my friends, I want to be alone. When...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Is there anything I can do to help my ex boyfriend without hurting myself?

Even though we had a complicated story that led to the downfall of the relationship, I feel like only I can understand our relationship because of him having signs of some kind of mental illness. He was high functioning,...

Anonymous

(25-29)

“not ready for a relationship”?

Last night my guy came over to talk and tells me how he’s got so many problems, he’s so stressed out and wishes he could disappear at times.. and he does. we stood there hugging and talking- me being positive, patient and...

txgirl432

Xper 4 Age: 39

Given an opportunity should you tell your ex that hey hurt you or try to Have them explain themselves?

I’ve been angry at my ex boyfriend for a long time. I admit that I initially wanted to rid myself of the anger by trying to force myself to forgive him for everything that happened and by taking accountability where I...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Changing your Partners habits and quirks?

There are many reasons why there are so many clichés about the inability to change an Adult, especially your Significant Other. And I'm saying Adult because ever heard of the saying "You can't teach an old Dog new...

natured

Editor Age: 37

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Am I a terrible person?

When I was in high school, I was with an emotionally abusive boyfriend for four years along with. This really messed me up and made mental decisions hard. I ended up going out with a guy I wasn't even sure about a few...

Anonymous

(18-24)

I need help I don’t know what to do?

So me and my boyfriend have been dating for 2 years and he’s the best but there’s a couple of things pushing me away all through out our relationship I’m not allowed any guy friends (ik a lot of guys don’t like girls...

Anonymous

(45 Plus)

Breaking the cycle of unworthiness

Have you ever wondered why do you keep attracting people who treat you poorly? Why are you always the friend who gives the most without receiving? Why you are always the one who cares? Why is it so hard for you to set...

Anonymous

(30-35)

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Girl's Behavior

Girls, Could you still be comfortable around a male “Bestie” after having a relationship?

So, my best friend of 11-12 years (Since 9th Grade) was recently in a relationship with me that she initiated (Background information: I’ve liked her since I’ve met her but after several years of being rejected (Though...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Girl's Behavior

Honestly How would feel if you saw your ex and doing he's way better?

Okay I saw my ex accidentally while we were together I had family problems and I was dealing with other things and I had slight injury so wasn't in gym so I wasn't at my best back then it's been 4 months since then and...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Should I not go back and move on?

So i have been in a relationship with this guy for abouth 7 or 8 months and it was an on snd ofc relationship. In the beginning it was so good he loved me so much and was everything that i wanted in a boyfriend he treated...

Anonymous

(25-29)

My best friend is giving me an ultimatum?

I have a boyfriend/ now ex as of yesterday, who i had really strong feelings for. We’ve been through a lot of problems but we were so close. We would do everything together and we would be so happy. I really see a life...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Other

The road not taken: Dealing with the choices in life we regret!

My apologies ahead of time for those who had a mini panic attack thinking they had been whisked back to high school English courses and needing to write essays on Robert Frost. I assure you that while there will be an...

Ez-Bri-Z

Editor Age: 46

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Is he really my best friend?

I’ve had a guy best friend since high school (I am now 21). We’ve been neighbours always hanging out, he would come by my house to just chill because we were close. Before I reached the age 18 he lost his virginity with...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Why are women considered bitter/angry just because they won't put up with fucked up men?

95% of my dating experience with men has been horrible. From the lying, cheating and lack of responsibility, in my eyes a man couldn't possibly get the best part of me. I will say I went through a guys suck faze but after...

Anonymous

(25-29)

I want to break up with my current boyfriend but I don't know how?

So let me start by saying I didn't want to be with him in the first place but I'm now realizing he gaslighted me into this relationship. I as you can see am 15 and he is 18 going on 19, you can already see the problem.....

izzyk

Xper 4 Age: 20

Girls, Why would my ex send me a blank email?

So what in the heck... my ex who blindside broke up with me in early 2019. Really hurt me badly. It took time but I worked through it, got my strength, and went on with life. Fast forward to when the pandemic started last...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Girls, Why would my toxic ex do this?

Anonymous

(36-45)