At this point we've all been hurt by someone but why perpetuate it?
Side note: Before any men say what about the stuff women do, yes we do it too & it doesn't make it right, but we just do it better ;) (just kidding!!)
It could by the "type" of guy you are seeing. The adventurous party animal. type guy will. have women lined up, whereas the quiet, guy will likely have few women interested and they will be more loyal. Look inwards and see what really matters in the end and choose wisely.
So your saying that we are the blame for the fuck shit that happens to us. Not everyone looks for or want the the bad boys! People lie about who they're and even the quiet nice guys pretend to be good and really don't. I mean we all know that whenever we get with someone they show their representative (attributes that seem perfect) but really are shitty in the end.
I think a way to get a guy is to build a slow build up and rebuff their attempts and maybe date diamonds in the rough, or people with good qualities but are harder to immediately see - they have less drive to chase girls and might be more loyal.
You choose it for yourselves. There are plenty of good single guys out there who cannot get a date because deep down women like dating trash. You bring it upon yourselves. ducunt volentem fata, nolentem trahunt
U need to date me, Im different from the other 95% 😂
What makes you different? I'm curious
I think your side note answers your question.
Well I hate to put it on you like someone else did but it may be the type of men you’re interested in. I know we don’t seek out abusive people or things like that, but some how we seem to find them. I don’t know what your parents relationship was like but that could be a part of why you meet those types of men. My cousin is always meeting men who treat her like sh*t. I know she doesn’t look for those types of men but she finds them or maybe they find her because of a certain unspoken connection. For me after years I finally realized I would always meet the “damsel in distress,” then when they were good they’d screw me over by cheating. I’ve been w someone for 12 years now, but she’s completely opposite of the type of women I used to be w.
I don’t look for guys to fuck me over they just do. Since when do we starting blaming people for dating someone that’s fucked if they never gave signs of being fucked up to begin with?
Yes I mentioned that we don’t go looking for people who are abusive, it just tends to turn out that way. Like I never intentionally looked for women who were in distress but that’s what managed to find somehow which screwed me over in the end. I’m not saying your looking for someone like that intentionally, I’m sure others who have said the same thing I have aren’t saying you are either.