Why do women treat men like shit?

Question

I think I’m really attractive and made a good profile. Good pics, well written - saying I’m looking to meet new people

I then randomly switched the profile to men. So many matches in minutes. Some of them even looked like models.
Most started the convo. Many didn’t even appear to be gay.

Whereas with girls it’s always quiet. Very few matches.

Should I go gay now?

Finchie40 · Accepted Answer

Because of today’s world and social media , most girl’s are brainwashed by their phones and assume every guy is a cheater and every guy is a player that only thinks with his dick. The same goes for guys with girls that think every girl is a whore and every girl just wants a guy for his money , and sadly of majority of this is true , Why most guys don’t get into relationships or marriages anymore because it’s hard for them to fully trust a girl these days. I blame social media for a lot of this to be honest , if people actually put their phones down and looked at the world around them they would realize that social media os a bunch of garbage , Yes there are asshole guys and yes there are asshole girls but not everyone of them is a whore or a slut or a player or a gold digger , but social media brainwashed a lot of people to believe so. It’s a sad world we live in today , Everyone wants to be loved and valued but they only think of themselves they don’t think what their partner is feeling , when things get bad in a relationship instead of fixing it they run to someone else , Trust in this world has gone to shit , Nobody trust anybody anymore , without trust in a relationship there is no relationship period. Value yourself worth and realize you deserve someone that will fight to be by your side someone that removes selfishness for you like you do them , if they cheat on you then that’s their problem and something they have to live with knowing they are a piece of shit , we can’t force someone to love us all we can do is give them the same we want in return.

Intothevoid666 · Accepted Answer

Women are delusional about how this game works if u want to know the truth. They are blinded by privilege. They have no understanding of how biased dating is against men and most of them think they are much more attractive than they r. Women just expect a perfect partner to magically fall in their lap and they don’t expect to put much effort into making that happen.

WonderBell99 · Accepted Answer

If you are hoping to find a meaningful relationship, dating apps are not the way to go about. Most people on there are looking only for casual, short term relationships/flings. It would be an utter waste of your time. Many of them tend to be catfishes, bots or scammers anyway and you would be surprised to find out that an overwhelming amount of men receive only a few matches per month.

Women on dating apps have a lot of options to choose from - they receive tons of messages, and most are boring ones like “hey, how are you doing?”. Why would she reply to that when she has got tons of other same bland messages? You need to be more creative if you want more matches.

Add better pictures, be more imaginative with your bio. Express your interests and state what you’re looking for clearly. Using pictures of your pets (if you have any) helps too.

Personally, I would advice against you going on dates with men pretending to be gay since you would only be wasting their time. Pretending or lying about your sexual orientation is not okay. You cannot change your sexual orientation. If you want to find a girl, you would have much better chances IRL than online. Join various activity groups, clubs etc.

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

So women not matching with you or starting conversations = them treating you like shit? Right…

Anyway. It’s no secret or new information that men are generally more desperate than women are. And when you switched to men you got a glimpse of what it’s like to be a woman on those sites. Most women also get that many (well, more probably) messages and matches from (desperate) men. So why would they pick you when they have 100s of men messaging them, including the ones with model looks? You say you look attractive and made a good profile (these are your own opinions, lots of women may not agree but anyway…) so do 15 other guys who messaged her the last week. And a lot of women on those sites aren’t there to actually meet anybody. It’s just to pass time or they once were interested in finding someone but met so many liars, manipulators, sex maniacs, cheaters and so on (many of which seemed like great guys to begin with, and no their looks or personality are irrelevant - even unattractive and shy and nerdy guys do this) that she lost interest in dating and now just keeps her profile out of habit but aren’t interested in meeting up or even talking to anybody anymore.

Rania05 · Answer

It's weird? It depends on luck, not how attractive one's personality or looks are.

Don't insult women over it, you'll find yourself judgmental and blindfolded views when in search of or having a girlfriend.

RobT312 · Answer

That’s an interesting experiment. maybe men just naturally make the first move? Maybe you should be reaching out to women and not waiting for them to respond to your profile

Anonymous · Answer

This is why I'll tell any guy will listen. Post the pics on your dating profile and that's it! Don't say anything. Make them work for it if they like what they see. Dating app responses increased 5 fold when I did this. You're always going to have flaky women on dating sites. But the good women will make an effort. Never put more effort into a woman than she's willing to put into you. This is dating 101.

Glittermay · Answer

I am a female. I myself know females are very picky and weary on dating apps. I know from personal experience my friend who is such a live guy deserves a wonderful female didn't get any matches on bumble. Sometimes it's not you. The right person will come along:).

kmg9150 · Answer

Choice and chance bro. Guy goes out looking meet a woman to take home, regardless of how the guy looks, there's a chance he might find one. For woman, no matter the looks, it will be choice.

Iron_Man · Answer

You’re probably not dating serious girls you are probably dating teenagers or in their early 20s you have to find series mature ones. Stay away from party girls

Philyouup · Answer

becuase they meet misogynistic incels. Any guy that puts all women in that category has to be a woman hating gay or an InCell and definitely a Misogynist.

SupremeWarlord · Answer

Women expect the men to go after them because a lot of them don't want to be seen as easy sluts, you should look at this from the woman perspective too, not just yours.

Anonymous · Answer

For the same reason men treat women like shit. Men and women both treat each other badly these days. They kind of hate each other, and that hate is festering and growing and the viscous cycle just spins faster every day.

AsaKyo · Answer

It's been the opposite for me  Men have always treated me like shit lmao

FilmGuy93 · Answer

A lot of women don't go on the apps very often.

msc545 · Answer

Women want tall, RICH, good-looking men. If you aren't all of these things, welcome to the friend zone.

Anonymous · Answer

It also depends upon your personality if a woman becomes mean to you. If you act like a creep yes they'll be mean to you to get rid of you. Do not stalk them cuz it scares the crap out of them.

clampfan101 · Answer

Don’t generalize them. :/

LazerBean · Answer

Sure.

Anonymous · Answer

It could be many reasons.

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