Do you think women will ever understand why bitter men become bitter because of them?

[SolitarySolace]

[whiskeyontherocks]

Maybe not the answer you’re looking for


I’ve been in a relationship with a lot of resentment due to inappropriate conduct.
It took me a while to move forward and think I deserve better than this disrespect.
I put my foot down and thing have been improving.
Hardest part about it is not doing as she did to me it just shows a poor attitude.

[KlinkyCoder]

I see where you are going with this, but I think it is a little retarded to take your bitterness out on someone because they happen to have an XX chromosome. I am just bitter at the elite 1% who are driving the events.

If we replaced the current elite with a different one then maybe women will learn how to understand this bitterness.

[RolandCuthbert]

Dude. . . I am a dude. And I don't understand it.

I love women. All kinds of women, short, tall, blonde, brunette, dark skinned, light skinned. . . I just got to have me a woman.

Why you guys get so bitter and weird is beyond me. I just think you guys just need some puddingtang and you would be okay.

Nuthin' but a woman, Robert Cray.

https://www.youtube.com/embed/qNz_t-wE5VQ

[SolitarySolace]

Guess you haven’t had shit hit the fan yet.

[RolandCuthbert]

You are a little young to be talking about shit hitting the fan. Why you young dudes think your life is over in your teens and twenties is beyond me. I am 50 years old man. Maybe I have seen more shit than you can imagine. It is just that when I was your age, I took some advice from a very wise person.

My future self.

[SolitarySolace]

You’re in your 50s yet I doubt you’ve been falsely accused. 🤷🏻‍♂️ If that’s true than maybe I have dealt with more than a 50 year old. Probably because girls my age are manipulative little shits while women your age weren’t/aren’t

[RolandCuthbert]

Dude, even if you were falsely accused, why would you then blame all women?

I am just trying to appeal to the "man" that supposedly exists within you. That isn't even an attempt at being rational. And don't try to blame this on some generational gap. You have anger issues. And a problem with owning your own shit.

Fix yourself, before you hurt yourself or someone else. Because this world does not do pity.

[SolitarySolace]

As if I didn’t already know that. Only women receive pitty. Everyone is on the women’s side. The men are always vilified. Regardless of whether it’s something he did or not. I’m sick of it. If accepting my loathing for women exposes anything until the day I die, I’ll die greatful

[RolandCuthbert]

@SolitarySolace You mean like Amber Heard? Hillary Clinton? All the women trump harassed? All the women Bill Cosby raped? All the women Harvey Weinstein groped? Every "Black" woman who has children out of wedlock?

You want a pity party. When the table is literally tilted in your favor.

What would happen if the table was actually tilted in the other direction. How would you even survive?

I mean, this is just incredible. Why can't you be blamed for all the men who grope, rape, fondle, grab, harass women on a daily basis? Especially since all women need to carry the burden of your grievances?

Again, I am just trying to point to that thing called logic. You know, the discipline us "men" are supposed to trust so much.

Explain to me how your thinking approaches rational objective thought.

And dude, when you die, you will die bitter, alone, seeking pity.

And you will have chosen that all by yourself. It is pitiful, it is sad. . .

But also. . . hilarious.

[SolitarySolace]

What’s the alternative? Live a life knowing you’re going to be constantly seen as a monster just because you were born male? Just because you were born male in a world where there happens to have been men who did bad things and disgraced the entire gender? Even though I and many other men didn’t do any of that shit? We’re supposed to hope for a woman’s forgiveness even though women ain’t any better?

[KlinkyCoder]

"And don't try to blame this on some generational gap."
I'm sorry but everything changes in a generation, attitudes, taste, you know.

If currently inflation is a very high level, who do you think I should blame for that? Me or bad national politics?

[RolandCuthbert]

Alternative? It is like you think you are forced to make the choices you have. What is the purpose behind deluding yourself? Is it to cover up the fact that you lack the courage and the will power to change your fate? I am a man. And sorry dude. . . no one makes me feel like a monster. I walked the dark path like you are doing now. And the nightmare was one of my choosing. Just like you have chosen this.

You still have no answered the question. You blame all women. Why do you think all women can't blame you? I mean, isn't that fair?

I don't have an issue with women. I mean, I went through a time when I screwed over a lot of women. But, I learned how to stop being an asshole. It was a choice. You can make a different choice also. You just don't want to.

[RolandCuthbert]

@KlinkyCoder Wait, so you actually believe, you can blame your issues with getting a date and finding happiness on your generation?

Is that what we are doing?

I call it the coward's way out. It isn't you. Its them. I meet women all the time who complain about men and how men have screwed them over.

There is only one constant in their stories and in the stories of the men who think like them.

So I am just saying. . . maybe the issue isn't everyone else.

[MCheetah]

Nope! Literally NOTHING is ever a woman's fault, according to women. However, that is not to say that a bitter man becoming bitter isn't largely his fault, too. I'd say 60-40; it's mostly the guy's fault, and I said this as a jaded heterosexual man.

[CloudMassacre]

Probably depends on the reasons

[SolitarySolace]

What reasons do you think they would understand?

[CloudMassacre]

I don’t know, I think different women would understand different reasons based on their own life experience

[SolitarySolace]

They don’t share the same experiences as men do because they’re not men. They don’t chase the men they’re interested in. They don’t have to experience being thrown an ex parte personal protection order up their ass when they didn’t do anything wrong other than notice interest.

[FunkyMonkee]

Nope!! They just don't get it!!

[exitseven]

If they do they sure don't care.

[Alcoholic_Wannabe]

You're butthurt as fuck.

[SolitarySolace]

Must be a reason for that… wonder what the reason is

[Alcoholic_Wannabe]

You're entitled and you care too much about what people think of you.

Fix it.

[Anonymous]

I don’t think they care.