Why do some men hate women without reason?

Question

Like it’s kind of scary that you still have a moderate proportion of men even nowadays who either dislike or absolutely hate women for no logical reason.

Like why? Where does this internal distain come from? Why are we so repulsive to them simply for existing?

I couldn’t imagine hating men simply for being men. That’s just stupid and sexist to be Frank. Hating anyone simply because of their sex is just absurd in my opinion.

DoctorSex · Accepted Answer

I think I'm the best one to answer this question, not because I hate women, because I don't at all. I'm the best one to answer this because I train young men to be confident and assertive. To be physically strong as well as mentally Disciplined.

Most guys come to me as soft simpish males with stories of heartbreak and sadness. Going tbr extra mile for a young lady and being strung along. Then they meet me, and I teach them that modern women only need 2 things to get what you want from them. A strong physical body and directness.

The bar is literally that low... They usually don't believe me until I literally show the right Infront of their eyes. The result being they adopt a pseudo, less polished version of my directness with instant results.

Here's where the anger comes in, these young men slowly come to the realisation that the Disney fantasy of females is a facade. They are just as basic as men, if not worse. Young men feel like they've been lied to. That they wasted so much time trying to treat them like a good person only to be taken for a fool every single time.

It takes a while to move out of that phase but eventually you do. You accept females for what they are, they aren't perfect. nor are men.

Below you will find a recent message from one of my students 😑 this was the point where he began "hating" females.

Kind regards,

DoctorSex

Why do some men hate women without reason?

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

Trust me it isn’t for no reason. A lot of men are getting tired of getting the shit end of things. I grew up w a loving mother, told me all the things I was supposed to do. Treat women respectfully, take care of them, love them, don’t hurt their feelings on purpose, protect them, etc. But over time being screwed over numerous times, taken to court to try to make you pay child support for a child that isn’t yours, cheated on, etc, etc, you just say fuck this let them fend for theirselves. Especially nowadays women telling men we have toxic masculinity, I don’t need a man attitude, wanting equality until it doesn’t favor them, all that has pushed men away from women. Not all but it’s widened that gap more. A lot of men don’t want to do things for women like open doors cause you don’t know if she will thank you or have an attitude because you’re undermining her ability to do things for herself. So yes when that narrative it pushed a lot, women shouldn’t be surprised when men say fuck it I’ll take care of myself. In todays society lately everything about being a man is wrong according to a lot of women.

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

To me hating anyone is a complete waste of energy. I don’t understand it. But for those men that hate women i feel like it stems from preconceptions about women and how they’ll treat that select person. If your every interaction with someone of the opposite sex is negative I can see how a resentment builds up and a general disinterest in seeing if this Is different than all the rest.

Then they find forums where there are other guys experiencing the same shit as them so they form this little incel group (involuntarily celibate) that just devolves into a like minded toxic community.

I actually feel bad for them because it’s a society flaw for both men and women. There are women that teat men like shit and tear them down. But there are also men that do the same to women.

mandyfire98 · Accepted Answer

From what I've personally run into it's because some of them just didn't get what they wanted. It's akin to a child throwing a tantrum. They either didn't get a date or didn't get sex or just something they wanted and felt entitled to. So they then turn around and say "you know what all women are trash and sluts and whores and won't date me so that means they only date models."

I do think the that the men who are just like hardcore attacking women and just spewing vitriol like that were already unhappy about other things in life or have mental issues already and the straight up hatred of women is only an extension of that.

FilmGuy93 · Answer

The men are resentful because of the way so many women treat them. Unfortunately, that resentment sometimes gets taken out on women who don't deserve it.

Lionman95 · Answer

I think it´s generally because many guys don´t understand women or don´t feel understood by women. A growing number of guys in my experience feel like they are hated or at least not appreciated and acknowledged but instead are just seen as society´s problem as women are the solution. Especially guys that have generally not been confident or have been or feel rejected by women build up theories why that happens.
Besides that one problem could be that guys generally be the "anti-social" gender hence many guys have few social contacts they meet offline or not infront of a screen.
That way spending all day in front of a screen guys have it easier to enter forum like this and spend their life with conspirancy theories about society that argue women are just interested in the top 10% of guys.
That all together builds a toxic distrust towards women.

MrOracle · Answer

There is always a reason. You might not know what the reason is, and sometimes the reason isn't fair or logical, but there is always a reason. That's true for the women who hate men as well - there is always a reason.

Some people get hurt by one person and blame everyone in whatever group or groups of people they decide they belong to. Whether it is race or gender or political party or sports team affiliation or whatever, some people take things way too far. Often that's because they themselves have some responsibility for their own pain, and they don't want to take responsibility for that, so they exaggerate the harm caused by the other person and even push out that responsibility to the whole group or groups that person can be associated with. It's wrong, but that's how they manage their feelings. Sad but true.

ohsheeT · Answer

I know a lot of guys I know a lot of bad boys and what I see coming from them and the way they hate women it's because of their mother I think they grew up single parent usually their mother their mother was usually bossing me and rude to them without giving them any praise they would have different men and the kid the man the boy would just end up hating her for it and he is carried that all the way into manhood he has watched Men abuse his mother so he thinks that's what you do remember we are people of our own parents everything that we know we watched and learn from them even though when we were 18 we should have put a stop on all that and changed who we wanted to be because that's our choice we get to choose who we want to be by the things we say and do but some guys are stuck in that hate mode and they just will never get out of it watch the way a guy treats his mother and you will see a guy that will either be good for you or bad for you

DannyUk2017 · Answer

Is not WITHOUT REASON! Mostly happens to the men that HAVE BEEN in a Relationship before.
And to be fair i'm the same, soon as u meet someone and throws me signals like wants to be with me and stuff, i start to become "questionable" of everything, from..: why she doesn't text me, to... why she doesn't let me out with the boys. All the "reasons/happening, arguments, fights" in the previous relationship/s we are questioning them in the next, and that happens all the time, because the "toxic" previous relation/s. So soon as the next woman "does stuff" like the previous, and kinda SEE that we will END UP in the KINDA SAME situation/relationship, we tend to debunk the REASONS, behind it! So if we go in the same previous way, then we don't want same type of treatment... Rather single than live with the DRAMA! I'm happily single for the past 15years, and trust me, don't want to bring down "that wall" just yet. 🤷‍♂️

cth96190 · Answer

I suggest that you watch Elliot Roger’s videos.
His reaction was rare and extreme, but he explains himself fairly well.
Women, as a collective, are such bitches to most men who approach them that they make it easy for men to dislike women.
To find the answer to your question, observe the way that women react to men who approach them.
There is also the hateful way that Feminism has indoctrinated women to see and react to men, outside of the sexual/romantic context.
Watch a few street interview videos with party princesses, who have enough alcohol on board for them to give honest answers.
It does not help that women are so unstable (by design) that a quarter of the adult female population are on prescription psychiatric drugs.

Anonymous · Answer

How do you know it's for "no reason?"

There is always a reason for something, even if it's a stupid reason.
Hell, it may even be "logical" but misguided — a logical fallacy.

I don't think there is such a thing as a group of people hating another group "simply for existing." They either have to come up with some screwed up political narrative, or it's because they suffered some kind of traumatic incident, however serious or mundane... maybe it could be both.

And, you know, for a long time, it was thought that **women hated men** (3rd wave feminism), so there's obviously some kind of disconnect here, causing us to retreat to our echo chambers.

I do not believe most men or women hate each other, but we tend to focus more on the bad than the good around us.

Legion696969 · Answer

I'm a Tibetan Buddhist and Buddha taught that all girl, s and women are to be worshipped as Goddesses as they are special and create magickal mystical life like no other Sentient Being can.

I'm the East they are taught to always respect girls and women.

You know like India, the home of all civilization and all Buddhist Lineage, s were born here. I love women and girls and have the greatest respect for them.

This kind of Buddhist teachings should be taught to every boy and man in the Western Hemisphere.

I love women so please don't be too paranoid Sister okay, love to you, from Paul ❤️ XXX ❤️

Mia-Wallace · Answer

Same "reason" some women hate men without a reason.

In my personal experience the hatred towards men is more widespread and often even accepted.

The root is probably childhood neglect and problems with emotional regulation.

MystiKaL · Answer

I believe it's deep rooted. No guy is born to hate women, usually men are brought up to love women due to their upbringing. However, when men get treated really badly by women time and time again, that's when the misogynistic mindset kicks in.

I personally love women, I'm a feminist. But I can lay deep into mindsets and hurt guys feel and can understand why some guys are like this, even if it's wrong.

cheeky_starfish · Answer

I think this applies both ways - that’s why they call them misandrists and ‘man-haters’, but the reason for anyone to inherently dislike the opposite gender I just don’t know 🤷🏻‍♂️ some will have their reasons I guess and others are just unpleasant people.

The_Shadow_Dweller · Answer

Some kind of reason is always there for hating any person. Maybe a bit of personal reason is there or a mental reason is there.

Also, complaining is not the same as hate, but most of the time, these two actions may get intertwined. Their meaning may get mixed. Both must be kept separate as they really are separate.

Sixgunsound · Answer

I couldn’t imagine hating an entire sex for existing. The amount of energy and emotional requirements to properly hate are immense, and I just don’t have that kind of time or motivation. If an individual earns that distinction, even then I wouldn’t really see a justification to put the effort in based on the lack of return on investment.

humanearth · Answer

My buddy hates females with a passion.

Many years ago his girlfriend fucked him over so bad. That he sworn to never be with another woman again.

He went and jumped on the dick wagon. He said he rather be gay, then deal with women again.

Nik1hil · Answer

Yesterday..

I travelled 40 kms standing in bus, paid 40 INR for the ride,

A women in exact same position as me, got a seat on the Bus and paid 30 INR for the Exact same ride..

I was standing while my crotch was buried in another men's crotch!.. Felt very Gay!.. And offensive!..

If i were a women, I would have to pay less and get a seat without any trouble, i think this unfairness of the world towards men makes men Dislike and Hate Women for Without a reason!..

bolverk · Answer

There is always a reason you just have to dig to find it, going by the adverts in Australian press and TV that my cousin (whose female) has sent me from time to time, I can understand why the Australian male is getting a bit narked at the way they are being portrayed and vilified, take a good look at them yourself and then flip the gender and see if you'd appreciate being seen and insulted like that.

whiskeyontherocks · Answer

We could ask the same of women that hate men. Regardless it’s due to some form of baggage that they can’t let go of.
In my experience this thought that more men hate women is exasperated by women that feel if someone is not praising a woman there hating a woman. Not identifing the difference from hate and indifference has become a real problem in society.
Just to reiterate I think men hating women is equivalent to the number of women hating men.

Anonymous · Answer

I think misogyny is getting worse, but a lot of women give men a lot of reasons to hate women. There is a lot of gender based hatred these days and it's not just men doing it.

motownplayer2000 · Answer

Lol. Trust, those men have a reason… women are sometimes the most vindictive, manipulative humans in earth. They can use a man and leave him in a worse situation. Not saying it doesn’t happen both ways, but women do it in a way that really and truly hurts. And yes, I’ve encountered women that hate men for just being men… called feminist. They absolutely hate men. It may not be because of nothing, but they do hate a man. It’s sad that either side has to go through that.

GrapeApe98 · Answer

Probably the same reason a lot of women hate men, bad experiences. They probably witnessed or experienced sexism from some, or had something traumatic happened tp them from some and now hate the whole gender for it. They need someone to talk to, and hopefully better them.

Anonymous · Answer

"I couldn’t imagine hating men simply for being men"

Well, that's great but there are indeed a lot of women who do just that. They are called feminists and they are the primary reason why so many men hate women today, and the number is growing fast.

Men don't hate women simply for being women. They hate women because of what women do and say, and what modern women have become. Today's women give men a lot of reasons to hate them.

Anonymous · Answer

Still have? It's actually getting worse, not better. Why? Because women have been spreading hate for men non-stop for years, and more and more men are hating on women in response.

Women hate men for being men. Men hate women for hating men. See a pattern here? It's no mystery how this problem can be fixed, and the ball is in women's court, not men's.

melanieeeB · Answer

I think cause it's easier to blame all women in the world instead of taking a look inside, being honest to themselves and well working on things and making a real effort

Adam1978 · Answer

There is always a reason you might not agree to it or even understand it but there is a reason. And it's not a single reason, that you can apply to all of them.

boggboss · Answer

How would u know a man hates a women for no reason and this is not me saying there is a good reason bunt unless u asked I doubt you would know if he has a reason or not

Sparkie460 · Answer

I do not feel that way towards women. I have great respect for women. I think the guys that have negative feelings towards women had a bad experience at one point in their lives so they think all women are the same.

Stoner710 · Answer

Men don’t hate women. We hate some women but not all women I hate Kamala Harris love Candice Owens for example. I hate my biological mother but love my adopted mom

diego_md · Answer

not all men are the same , there's a reason why some men hate woman, maybe it depends on how those guys have been treated by females or there something wrong with their mentality

AsaKyo · Answer

They either got rejected a lot by women in the past, had abusive gfs/wives, or their moms dipped out on them

I'm just guessing though, since there typically is always a reason for this kind of behavior

LadiesFavoriteToy · Answer

Femenism? I hate women because the represent everything wrong in society. From all this leftist woke shit thats in our schools. Women want all equal and all rights for everyone but that is very dangerous.

AddylynnNightingale · Answer

Because there is a reason that you don't know yet. But we get told off before actually finding out what that reason is.

Shiface92 · Answer

Probably weren’t loved by their mothers or had fathers who taught them that they are superior than women

dustybiker · Answer

Easy. They refuse to adapt. They expect others to adapt to them though. Doesn’t work like that.

RolandCuthbert · Answer

They don't hate women. I am sure those males just hate the women who refuse to have sex with them.

NewsReader · Answer

"For no logical reason" = False There is a logical reason. And that reason is different for each person.

Pinay_ako · Answer

I know men who don’t like me just because. 🤣 and usually it’s caused or influenced by a woman who hates me too 😂

weysally · Answer

I will answer with a question, why do women hate men so much. answer that and you have your answer

Andridaca · Answer

Either they are incels (due to the following examples or generally enviromental and personal issues) or women have treated them poorly in the past, including mother and son relationships.

LordOfThePines · Answer

They hate women because of their own shortcomings. Women don't like them for things from height to their toxic attitude. Instead of correcting their own issues, they blame women and harm them. It makes no sense why they do this.

bamesjond0069 · Answer

Not sure I ever met a man like this. Now hating feminists or something like that sure. I agree they are terrible people but my girlfriend is anti feminist and I like her just fine. So certainly not all women.

Raphaëlle · Answer

It could be bad experiences, how you were brought up to think, culture differences or something else.

Chazmatazz269 · Answer

There’s always a reason. It’s usually a series of bad experiences.

misogynistic_pig · Answer

I've been sexist since I was at least four years old.

Agape93 · Answer

They either can't get laid or didn't have a good experience in a prior relationship

genericname85 · Answer

i don't think there's ever "no reason". hate is usually result of negative experience.

TroyDT2 · Answer

Collectivist mentality. One or two or ten bad experiences, so all four billion of you are the same in their eyes.

Pudsmucker · Answer

There are women do constantly hate men. Most of them are feminist.

Anonymous · Answer

I think is mainly unattractive men who get rejected or don’t have much luck with women so they resent them

SiberFox · Answer

I can assure you its not without reason. It very well can be excessive, but not without reason

Heolurt · Answer

I don't hate women, I only have a trust issue when it comes to females, I've never had good experiences with females face to face.

Philyouup · Answer

i don’t believe that. i do think there are some guys that do, but not a good hunk, i just think that is so abhorrent, that just looks like a lot.

Ad_Quid_Orator · Answer

Not sure but I think what we can all see what happens when you give like that too much power in Iran O_O

Godsvengeance · Answer

I love women but let's be serious here. The number of women who hate men for no reason is orders of magnitude larger than the converse

loveslongnails · Answer

Men only "hate" the women they want but don't want them.

Jamie05rhs · Answer

Same reason why some women "hate" men. Because they have been hurt by them.

Twalli · Answer

They do hate women for a reason. They can't get girlfriends. They blame women for this, when usually they're more to blame.

LimitedBenefits101 · Answer

Nobody hates anything without a reason Woman moment right here.

VoyagerXCI · Answer

I don't have women in general, all i hate is drama queens, attention whores and compulsive liars and arrogant/entitled piece of shit and dictatorial and controlling women.

Aiko_E_Lara · Answer

Same reason why some women hate men without reason.

BJP21 · Answer

Misogynist. The same way some feminists man hate. It's taught to them. Its a form of hate.

Why do some men hate women without reason?

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