Why I get along better with men than with woman?

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Maybe its my impression but i notice that in my life i had more male and good friends than good woman friends. When i was a teenager i passed the all time with my best friend ( girl) and 3 guys of our class. They pas the entire class telling jokes In my perpective male friends can be more honest and fun to talk than a woman. I had some bad experiences with female friends , i had friends that were fake behind my back , others that just came to me when they need something and others have jealous of me in many ways , specially when i get a boyfriend. I dont know why but male can be more relaxed and fun , you can talk about silly things and do crazy stuff. 
With woman sometimes is different , they pass all the time comparing themselves with others , some of them are fake , they pretend be your friend and then talk shit behind your back. Some of them dont know you and just start to hate you and threat you bad without logical reasons. Men at least are not fake , if he dont like you they just go away or dont pay you attention.

pnl86 · Accepted Answer

Regardleas whether you're attractive or not, with men, there are no competing interests. A guy doesn't give a shit about feeling like he is prettier than you, more attractive than you, gets more male attention that you do, has men fall in love with him more easily that you, has better relationships and boyfriends than you, has a better lifestyle than you, etc. Absolutey zero fucks are given. It's not a competition. There is no motive to sabotage you emotionally for their own emotional gain.

Now, depending how attractive you are, and how shy and loserish the guys you hang out with are, the desire to want to fuck you can supply the motive for some men to "bite their tongue" (so to speak). What that means is, if there is ever a "conflict" in the "friendship" relationship, the man is more "willing" and motivated to "compromise" and let things go your way or cater to your emotional needs. This results in you getting some benefit if what you want out of this "friendship."

That's always nice. Sort of like telling jokes to your employees, as their boss. If they laugh at your jokes and make you feel like they like you, you may just like them, and maybe give them a little extra something come bonus time. But that's not much of a relationship, is it?

I'm always weary of girls who gravitate away from relationships with other women. More often than not, it's an indication that they're emotionally selfish, and the only people they prefer or like having a friendship with are men, but only men who will tolerate or put up with her.

There is nothing inherently so wrong with women that a woman cannot prefer or enjoy maintaining a friendship relationship with another woman, and prefer and enjoy it MORE than a friendship with a man (especially one where you have reason to suspect he may be interested in having sex with you; i. e., not a real friendship).

FatherJack · Accepted Answer

Unusual , but nothing wrong with that. Girls / women tend to stick together & have the ultra close friendships that boys / men never do. Opposite genders CAN be good friends , without wanting more !! I have some great female friends , that I'm not attracted to.

existing_not_living · Accepted Answer

"i had friends that were fake behind my back , others that just came to me when they need something and others have jealous of me in many ways , specially when i get a boyfriend."

Basically the reason why I have very little girl friends. It's easier being friends with guys. I also feel like I can be more myself. I feel like girls judge me more. Girls just don't like me. I don't know why. I mean, I know I have my faults, but I'm a good friend and I try my hardest to try and fix things when I see that there is something wrong. I make mistakes, but don't we all? I fear making girl friends. I have more girl friends than guys right now, but I am closer to the guys than the girls.

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

"With woman sometimes is different , they pass all the time comparing themselves with others , some of them are fake , they pretend be your friend and then talk shit behind your back. Some of them dont know you and just start to hate you and threat you bad without logical reasons"
You haven't met many laid-back women.

"Men at least are not fake , if he dont like you they just go away or dont pay you attention."
aaaand you haven't met many shitty men.

I usually can't stand it when females claim that males make better friends. I mean, what does that say about themselves?

Smmyskittles · Accepted Answer

Honestly? Guys are laid back and chill. [[ Unless they want sex]].

I get where you're coming from. Hang out, play ball, watch a game, go out to eat (and talk about sports, cars, working out).

- They're also GREAT for advice if you have guy problems/questions. Because they know what the guy is thinking and can point out stuff you may not have noticed/realized.

* I have more guy friends than females at this point. Nothing wrong with that!

BuchitaBuchys · Accepted Answer

Maybe it's because you already have all these notions in your head that women are terrible and that's why you find any reason why you can't stay friends.

I have about equal amount of male and female friends. Always have. I can have deep meaningful conversations with women and talk about my dreams and goals. And I can laugh and joke with my male friends.
But I'm not a misandrist or misogynist.

RainbowFanGirl · Answer

I feel the same way as you. Sometimes girls can be me pre judgmental and they get upset over petty things.

Omgjosh · Answer

Most men are just honest, and simple. That's why some girls call us boring. We don't create drama or gossip. We just hang out, drink beer, and talk about stupid funny things. And maybe do some stupid fun stuff. Lmao

ManOnFire · Answer

It's actually not uncommon for you to feel that way. A lot of females prefer male friends over women because of the stuff you detailed. Keep going with who makes you feel best.

Mustachekitteh · Answer

I have no idea but I do have the same issue as you when it comes to making female friends. :(

LadyTerror · Answer

I'm actually the same way. I never had any bad experiences with women though. I just seem to get along better with men

helloitsmethere · Answer

Same... I seem to be getting on with guys a lot better than girls. It's because guys are more laid back and blunt.

Zendrya · Answer

women be bitches... end of story... but to be honest I think you already knew why so this was a pointless question.

SnatchFinderGeneral · Answer

There's only one reason why you get along better with men than with women. You have a vagina, and they think being nice will earn them it.

datgirl · Answer

I'm actually tired of guy friends. I want more gal pals

bradlazer · Answer

Because guys are more laid back? Well that's what a female friend told me

Anonymous · Answer

Are you intimidated by other woman because you don't think you're as good as they are

bblik · Answer

That's because a lot of women want attention and guys don't give a damn about it.

Mesonfielde · Answer

I think it's just luck.

Jeeevan · Answer

Loads of girls feel the same way as you.

Anonymous · Answer

I do too.

bcromartie · Answer

TL;DR you just do.

sexyguynumber1 · Answer

girls are gays, thats why

Anonymous · Answer

Because mena re better

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