I saw a black guy walking down the street with his white girlfriend the other day and a black woman said to the black guy "You talking black, but you walking white". If I were a black man and women from my own background treated me that way, I'd want to get the hell out of there and date white women too. Men from all races are attracted to soft-spoken femininity. They always tell something like "It's because those kinds of black hate themselves", but I don't think that's 100% true. Maybe a few, but definitely not the majority. And of course I expect black women to come out and tell me how wrong I am and black women are great and have never disrespected their men, but if that was true then why do a lot of them use the phrase "Black man ain't shit" and if a black hates his own race just because he wants to date out side of his race, at he's not pretending to be just for doing it. I don't even hear black men complaining about black women who date outside their race, but when black men do it for some reason they get shitted on for no reason.
Maybe what the reason why they say "black men ain't" is because the black men without an education or job out there will think to themselves "You know what I better stay with the ladies from my own background that treat me with disrespect because if I don't then I hate myself" ironically this creates the unintended consequence where the black men that black women don't want sticking around, sticking around to stick it in them. While the men that they actually do want the intelligent ones continue to pursue those white women they're doing the white women a favor by filtering out the weak willed men that no one really wants. but then again maybe the black women just want some added friend zone attention who knows? It's possible that white women know that if they make black men feel guilt for dating them it'll actually filter out the weak and just leave the strong guys that have self-confidence.
Maybe what the reason why they say "black men ain't" is because the black men without an education or job out there will think to themselves "You know what I better stay with the ladies from my own background that treat me with disrespect because if I don't then I hate myself" ironically this creates the unintended consequence where the black men that black women don't want sticking around, sticking around to stick it in them. While the men that they actually do want the intelligent ones continue to pursue those white women they're doing the white women a favor by filtering out the weak willed men that no one really wants. but then again maybe the black women just want some added friend zone attention who knows? It's possible that white women know that if they make black men feel guilt for dating them it'll actually filter out the weak and just leave the strong guys that have self-confidence.
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Damn, I feel so bad for the good black women that have deal with the embarrassment of the the disrespectful ones that dishonor their men constantly and look for some reason to justify their behavior.
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