Why do so many races of men hate the thought of dating a black woman?

[Anonymous]

[hahahmm]

Maybe not hate but... aren't rushing into it.

Let me preface this by saying I'm talking about the majority of black women in the U. S. Not all.

One reason is if you look at stats, black women are having the most babies out of wedlock and have the most single moms. When someone is a single mom -- speaking in general - it indicates that she is unable to convince a man to take her seriously OR that she isn't interested in being taken seriously. In either case she has lower value as a partner. So the PR message that most of these black women send out to the world is, "we are low value".

The same guy who sees her as low value would also see a woman of another race in the same circumstances as low value. And as I always say to women... if you want a guy to take you seriously, you have to take yourself seriously.

Now the counter argument one could make is, "lots of other races have high rates of single moms". Okay, but it's like the Olympics. One group gets the gold medal for being the best at something, not every group.

Another reason is that black women tend to be more masculine in behavior. She thinks it's okay to talk down to her man all the time/often. This is a social thing... not really genetic. So 100% of black women won't be this way. Anyhow, a lot of guys aren't into being talked down to and abused all the time.

[MystiKaL]

I have never thought of black women as un-dateable. Beauty comes in all colours, it's all down to personal preference. There are millions of non black males that would love the opportunity to date a black woman. If she has the right personality, she will find instant appeal.

[Changiis07]

I don't believe that is true. I think all men love different kinds of women

[Avicenna]

They don’t. Either they are open to it or not, but there isn’t dread of it.

[ShadezMcgee]

It isn't the race factor. It tends to be the stereotypes and reaffirmation of them when men see it for themselves.

Biggest ones you will see mentioned about black women: very masculine, loud, obnoxious, obese, combative or fall into the ghetto/hood rat lifestyle.

[MCheetah]

RE: "Is society more accepting of black males than black females?" ↗

[bamesjond0069]

I don't. I actually love black women. The issue is in general they are mostly undateable. They must be thin, feminine, conservative, not into hood stuff like rap ghetto lifestyle, not BLM, etc. So by the time you find one black girl that meets those requirements you already found 20 white girls and 10 Hispanics and 10 Asians. So it's not likely.

[Apraxia]

Is this really a thing? I always thought black women were the most attractive, bummer I can’t get with any tho!

[Berethor]

You really want to hear the answer? well @MCheetah is already give a good link for that.

[MrTaboo]

It's not that you're black. That has nothing to do with it.

It's the fact that most black women have a ghetto attitude and a huge sense of entittlement

[Ironic_Method]

I don't think people hate the thought because of skin color, I think it's more about perceived attitude.

[Anonymous]

maybe it's not all black women. maybe it's just you. i've had plenty. they're just like other women. they're women.

[Asker]

I've only dated one guy and i'm mixed. I'm basing this off of how a lot of men on here and on the internet tend to not prefer them or find them ugly. just wanted to understand why.

[Opinion Owner]

i'm sorry that's your experience. they're just as beautiful or ugly, in appearance and behavior as any other woman. but that's just been my experience

[Zolly99999]

I don't... I don't even consider race or ethnicity when it comes to dating. I don't care where she is from if I'm into her.

[Noodle_fan]

never date black wome before and would love to date one

[BJP21]

Because ignorant society placed an unfair stigma on them.

[EaterPeter]

Upfront drama face? Resting b face? Just trying to answer a question.

[BLP11520]

I don't know why I never had the opportunity. Married at 26 still married

[QuietQuyInTheCorner]

Cultural difference, and possibly just not liking the physical features.

[Anonymous]

So many? Where do you get your stats from? Please share

[Summeroflove]

Depends on the man. Not all guys. Preferences.

[FilmGuy93]

They don't.