RE: "Is society more accepting of black males than black females?"

[MCheetah]

I gave a serious, long response to a question regarding the negative views many have of Black American women. Anon sperged out on it and said nothing of value. She'll likely erase my comment, so I might as well make it a MyTake. No anon-posting though, so if she wants to respond to it, she'll have to step out into the open to do so.

Keep in mind, you don't have to agree with me. But I'm just giving my honest opinion, here. I don't see myself as "black." I don't even see myself as "human." I've never fit in, with anyone, my entire life. So that tribal group-think BS doesn't fly with me. I'm an individual. A LONELY individual, but an individual, nonetheless. I'm not "black guy" or "American dude" or whatever. Sorry to burst the bubble of those who want me to join their tribalistic circlej erk.

Anyway, the question was:

"Are People More Accepting of Black Males Versus Black Women?"

My response:

Yeah, probably. *American* black women are often seen to have negative attitudes, entitled, have poor fitness and health, and provide very little positives that a man would be into, besides the physical, if even that. And this isn't me "hating on Black women." It's just f*ckin' reality; what can I say?

Although I don't think this is due to race or "black women being bad" or anything, but mainly due to socioeconomic status. Which is why I said *American* black women. (Canadian and European black women are a whole different animal!)

The majority of Black Americans are lower class, or lower middle class. Hell, I grew up the former, in fact. Lower class and lower middle class people tend to be less desirable and have less manners, in general.

I'm not trying to sound like an Uncle Tom or any of that BS, but honestly, how rarely do you ever even see classy, dignified black women in the media even? For every Oprah Winfrey or Halle Berry, there's a dozen Cardi B's and Megan Thee Stallions. And the few educated black women you get, like Candace Owens (not a fan, by the way; she's a con artist and fake), get called "race traitors" and other stupid sh*t by the same low IQ, low education negros I just brought up.

Yeah, these nasty talentless skanks rapping about their vag inas aren't what black girls should be aspiring to be.

Even among the most "celebrated" black women, you still get overrated trash in the list like Beyoncé and Rihanna. Like, really?

I'm not going to get into the whole conspiracy of "keeping black Americans down" or anything, but why is it that destructive idiotic crap like Black Lives Matter and "We was Kangs" get pushed so hard by the Liberal left, but men like Kevin Samuels and Thomas Sowell get called "Race Traitors, Uncle Toms, House N*ggers," and what not? Not only by the racist-as-sh*t White Liberal cucks and snowflakes, but mainly, by other black people. BLACK WOMEN, mostly.

I *could* say, certain powers have spent decades keeping black Americans held down in the ignorance and debauchery of hip hop, thug/prison culture, and being intellectual slaves to White Liberal America under the guise of victimhood and self pity. But who am I to talk? I'm just called a 'House N*gger' by ghetto black women, after all. Because they offer so much to the world that their opinion shatters my soul into a million tiny little pieces, am I right?

But yeah, Black Women are often seen amongst many as the least popular/desirable demographic of Americans, whether that's fair or not. Although honestly, Arabs probably had it worse in the 2000s. Not so much now, maybe. I think black women should stop putting trashy c um dumpsters like Cardi B, Rihanna, or even Beyoncé, up on a pedestal, and maybe start looking more towards women like Mae Jemison as heroes.

Mae Jemison, the first black woman in space

As for Tyra Banks, Vanessa Williams, Halle Berry, or especially Michelle Obama, eh... I guess your mileage may vary, but at least they aren't f*cking Megan Thee Stallion or Beyoncé.

Black men have Michael Jordan, Barack Obama (arguably), Morgan Freeman, Tupac Shakur, Muhammad Ali, and Neil deGrasse Tyson. But really, there's not that many inspirational black men out there, either! I feel utter shame for any black boys who are going to grow up thinking George f*ckin' Floyd, a career felon and overall scumbag who overdosed on Fentanyl and had a heart attack on camera, was a "black hero" just because some morons erected a statue of him as part of a bigger plan to push Trump out of office.

But yeah, smart little black girls don't have a lot of female role models of the same color to look up to, nowadays. But, I can't say that humanity as a whole, doesn't have the same issue, when several young white men out there look up to guys like Joe Biden or Donald Trump as "role models," as well. Society as a whole has a shortage of people to aspire to be like, right now. But black women have it the worst.

Her brilliant and intelligent response:

"You are a loser, everything you just said was bashing and this is the sole reason that other races of people think it's ok to bash us. Everything I listed about black men In my first comment can be backed up by facts and stats. Black girls didn't like you because they deemed you valueless, they were smart and extremely right."

My final sentiments:

'K. 🤷‍♂️
All I can do is feel sorry for you.

...

Anyway, you can discuss it, all you want. Or start a fight in the comments. It's whatever.

[Brokenheartedx]

I've noticed on Facebook a lot of videos where American black women are screaming and fighting in shops etc that isn't helping the cause, and to be fair in my area in Scotland we have low life scutter bugs that scream and shout and fight in shops and they are white women. But videos specifically on Facebook where its showing this makes for uncomfortable viewing, i know not all black women act like that, it's feral scumbags that act like thay and again we have them in scotland too but they are white.

I think people are more accepting of each other if they quit the stereotypes. I worked with lovely black women and I've also worked with pure horror black women... But their personality is nothing to do with their skin colour because its the same with white women, some are nice others are horrors

I tend to get along with everyone tho, all races all religions and I'll tell you why, I'm of a red skin colour everyone always comments on my skin tone a bit like when someone says to a black person's skin and say you're black, i get it 4, 5 times a day it drives me nuts.. So with that I think people of different races come to me because I as a white woman knows what it likes people pointing out skin tone non fucking stop.. And I take them under my wing and become friends more so with women than men

[MCheetah]

Yes. That's why I say it has more to do with class and environment than to do with race. Most black people in America are not middle class ($65K a year households) or rich. So the most "representation" you'll get from them, are from the lower classes. More black men have "made it" and are successful, but mainly thought sports or music or other forms of show business. So they are seen slightly more positively when you have men like Denzel Washington or Morgan Freeman, versus Oprah being one of the few famous black women who breaks the "loud and ill-mannered" stereotype.

[Brokenheartedx]

My 2 favourite women singers, one has died was aaliyah and the other is and ill argue with anyone who says differently, is kelly rowland, she's beautiful, kind, and the sort of role model all women should aspire to. You never hear her say a bad word at anyone. I prefer her over beyonce the sell out

[MCheetah]

but mainly *through

[MCheetah]

Yeah, Aaliyah and Kelly Rowland were decent role models. That's probably why they aren't that famous anymore.

[Brokenheartedx]

It must be an American thing, we don't go around calling people uncle Tom's here? Don't even want to kno what that is or have interest looking it up to be honest but sounds like a shyte name to call someone

[Lost_in_the_Woods]

I was shocked when I saw that black girls get the least hits on dating sites, compared to other females of course.

For guys, I think the least was Indian.

I was like that's crazy, where are all these beautiful classy black ladies who can't get a date, I'm game.

But then I went on the sites and... yeah. It's not so much a race thing. The beautiful classy black ladies are rare on there. Probably because they don't need to be.

Most of the black girls on tinder are obese, trashy and their bio says "I'm just looking for a sugar daddy with a big dick"

And I'm like, regardless of what I have to offer, I'm not looking for someone who doesn't bring anything to the table.

Point is, in the dating world at least, black men do far better than black women overall. But that's because the men at least take care of their bodies. Tinder is really a beauty contest.

Sudanese women are gorgeous, but they aren't on tinder.

It really comes down to what society we are talking about. Honest truth, even with all the racialization, I think how you present yourself has a much greater effect on how accepted you are than what color your skin is.

Society is more accepting of beautiful people with money. Black white male or female.

[Brokenheartedx]

I know a beautiful woman from Nigeria, classy and a dainty wee thing so she is, she's married to her Nigerian husband who has a very good job, but after they have been brought up on Nigeria they haven't been influenced in the shyte america pumps out. As for cardi B, I looked up that wap song, first impressions 2 fat burds gyrating their fishy fanny's about Chattin about men with large cocks...

[MCheetah]

@Brokenheartedx
It's a black person (usually a guy) that supposedly is a traitor to their race and kisses the asses of, and has blind obedience and subservience towards, white people. Mainly used during the late slavery and post-slavery days. It's quite an insult, yes.

@Lost_in_the_Woods
The least sought after demographics in dating in America are black women and Asian men (usually unattractive, out-of-shape Asian men; mainly Chinese descent, rarely ever Korean).

Most of the black women profiles I've ever say something "Don't waste my f*cking time" and they're usually single mothers and/or a 3 or less in looks. Not that white women or other races are a whole lot better on dating apps; they're all terrible. But the black women were over-the-top negative and off-putting. They didn't even have looks to offer a guy. They were just demanding, negative, nasty, and offered literally no value to a man. I'm thinking they either have zero self awareness or common sense, or they're intentionally hurting their chances to find someone in order to "prove themselves unloveable" or something psychological like that. Cause no one can be stupid enough to be that off-putting without realizing it.

[ZenJen444]

Neither have the upper hand. Here's why:

1. Black men have the highest rates of suffering police brutality.

2. Black males are the least educated. Why? Because there is a high incarceration rate. Why? Because most Black men lack father figures? Why Because a large number of Black men are the lowest earners in america.

3. Black males are least trusted because of majority of their affiliation to gang violence, drugs, abandonment of their children, overall violence, and least educated.

4. Shallow, have the most to say but the least to offer

These are statistics so don't come for me.

Black women are least accepted aswell and here's why:

1. They're least accepted because they're the least accepting.

2. They're not approachable

3. Negative

4. Bitter

5. Envious

6. Gossip too much

7. shallow

8 . Blackstabbers

9. Very cruel towards their own race

10. Low standards
11. Insecure


* again , lol don't come for me. I'm a black women speaking from experience and from what other black women have mentioned of other black women.

[ZenJen444]

12. Most black women don't value nor respect themselves. They display themselves to the world as objects

[ZenJen444]

I'm a nice black woman. a lot of black women don't like me because I "don't act black". You know acting black to them is considered being loud, obnoxious, low iq , multiple baby daddies and fighting in streets, wearing Jordan's, long ass cardi b nails

[ZenJen444]

Black men are more approachable than black women

[tzdc21]

You know it's funny. Black people treat each other like crap most of the time, and then they wonder why there's less black couples now than ever before (And I'm also black).

[hahahmm]

Black women have the highest rates of being single moms and out of wedlock pregnancies. Other groups will eventually match them but they led the way. These women are either the worse at picking good men or the least desirable to good men (black or white). It's just one of those facts you can see in the statistics. Research has shown that if a girl grows up in a home where her sister or mother are single moms it's 5x more likely she too will become that so you can see how it spreads.

Now I'm definitely not saying that how a person behaves is inherent to their skin color or even genes. But social ideas, role models... and such make a difference. If you come from a family where a woman acting like a total whore or totally self-centered s accepted then you may turn into that too. Or if you come from a home where there's no dad and/or all of the 20 boyfriends your mom had suck then you will believe it's impossible to find a good man and you'll think you need to take on the responsibilities of being a man as much as possible... and so on.

The black men & women who are good role models or mostly have the right stuff going on tend not to associate much with the bad ones. So the black community is split. The good ones are usually taken and in relationships/marriage with others like themselves (either same race or outside of their race).

[hahahmm]

I suspect that black men get more respect because men in general have less ability to be lazy leeches. We have to work hard and compete. We can't just put on some sexy clothes and get a sucker to give us free stuff based on that. I know, women will say, "but not all women are like that". Okay, but almost all women will accept free stuff based on their looks, regardless of how feminist/pro equality they claim to be so it doesn't matter. Your tits get you benefits. Period. Easy to see if you look at the movie industry where there's legions of talentless women getting paid millions to do films but to make that much as a guy you need to have done much more challenging acting work and been successful at it. Nobody is going to hire you just because you look good.

[hahahmm]

Also interesting, if you look at the music industry, today's black female performers look like strippers and have so/so talent. Back in the day they were mostly covered up but had top level talent. Almost as if the more a woman shows her stuff, the less talent she has to have.

[RealMarek]

The statistics on the high rate of black women who end up single long-term (80) bear this out when it comes to relationships. They were the prime recipients of the welfare system and many have been inculcated with a sense of entitlement via the government and media that is off-putting in relationships. However, when it comes to other things, I believe black men have it much harder. The education system is highly feminized and black women check two affirmative action boxes (minority + woman) while black men check one. This affords black women an advantage in admissions to education and work. I saw this, and anxiety a lot of the professional women had around black men, at work in the corporate setting. Also, the elites push cultural product that glorifies criminal behavior to young black men, and no surprise, most cannot afford a quality legal defense and our system mass incarcerates them via plea bargains and corporate prisons. If they get out of jail, the criminal record makes it close to impossible to have a lucrative career.

[JDavid25]

I also hardly think of myself as "Black".. Maybe American sometimes, but mostly just "un hombre".. I ultimately think that "Black" women are more accepted seeing as well their women, and BLM and all. the Liberals seem to focus on "Black" women the most.. But I do think that people have a slightly better view of "Black" men despite not really being much better than "Black" American women.. I agree with just about everything you said here.. I used to profusely defend "Black" women til I realized, that a lot of them bash "Black" men just as bad as feminist bash men period.

[hahahmm]

Typical black woman wants to dominate & control black men and acts very masculine towards them but when she's with a white man she plays the sweet/feminine game. Lot of guys have noticed this and opted out. I'm not saying ALL black women are the same but the good ones tend to be on lock down and unavailable. Of course.

[JDavid25]

@hahahmm Yeah that's true... I still "love" "Black" women just as any other group, but I've become a bit jaded..

[BlueScorpio]

@hahahmm that's because of you guys treat black women. You treat them masculine and different compared to other races. You abandon them with babies and broken homes and treat them differently based on skintone.

[hahahmm]

@BlueScorpio Lol, no. Keeping in mind the fact, I said not all black women are the same... Whorish black women need to take responsibility for their own actions. Also I'm pretty sure black women get impregnated out of wedlock by all races. Not just black dudes. But yes, we know that women in general want to blame all of their decisions on men.

[BlueScorpio]

@hahahmm majority of the time black women have out of Wedlock children with black men. The single mother rate wouldn't be so high if the men in the community stepped it up and married these women. It takes two to make child, but most of the time the women are left to raise the child alone. It's not just black women either, there tons of black men leaving all races of women in the single mother category.

[hahahmm]

@BlueScorpio Oh, you mean that man's sperm magically got into your vagina without you being involved at all. Without you accepting it. Without your consent? Better report all those dudes for rape then. Oh and before you wrote, "You abandon them with babies and broken homes and treat them differently based on skintone." -- Nah, that is just your attempt to remove black female's responsibility for their choices. And it's a scientific fact that if a female grows up in a home where the mother or a sister is a single mom she is 5 times more likely to become a single mom too. Regardless of race. So if your mom is whoring or your sister is whoring, there's a good chance you will be too. Look in the mirror if you want to know who has the most control over your vagina.

[hahahmm]

@BlueScorpio maybe "you" are just too dumb to use birth control. Or too dumb to pick a guy who thinks you're worth being in a relationship with. Or too dumb to make yourself attractive enough (in character, not just looks) to get a quality dude to marry you. Lots of possibilities. In general the quality level of women of all races has gone downhill a lot in the last 30 years... but it started before that too.

[BlueScorpio]

@hahahmm lol you're acting like I'm a single black mom that's been left been left behind by a black man. I never been with a black man and I'm not single mother. I'm married. I also stated that it takes two to make a child so obviously the woman Is responsible as well, but it seems too often the men in our community don't want to take any part in their role when it comes to responsibility.

[hahahmm]

@BlueScorpio I put "you" in quotes because I don't know you.

[MCheetah]

@BlueScorpio
I hate to butt into this argument, but this:
"but it seems too often the men in our community don't want to take any part in their role when it comes to responsibility"
is complete bullsh*t when the courts favor women almost 100% of the time, and women initiate the majority of divorces. It's almost like treating a man like trash, never being appreciative of him, getting tired of him not worshipping you and giving you more and more money, then filing for divorce, and separating him from his children, ISN'T entirely the man's fault, is it! But no; that'd be silly!

Speaking as a black male, I knew LOTS of adult black men growing up who wanted to be with their kids, but the black woman wouldn't let them. Hell, even my own mother was somewhat like that; with the one difference being my father didn't actually care that much, but at least made some kind of half-assed effort.

@hahahmm is right in that women will do all kinds of insane mental gymnastics to get out of even the smallest bit of responsibility and accountability for themselves. And the problem is, most men let women get away with that sh*t. I'm not one of those men, though. I call BS and lies when I see it.

[BlueScorpio]

First of all divorce? Most black women aren't divorcing you guys, how can they when you don't marry them? Why do think the single mother rate is so high in the first place? Secondly. You guys have got stop using court and divorces as your go to argument to get out your responsibility as men. What are guys doing to help younger black men stay off the streets? Stop getting involved in gangs, to stop killing one another, stop going to jail, stop blaming everyone else for your short comings as men? If it ain't white Supracy that's holiday you back from leading your communities in the right direction. It's somehow black women. When I reality it's black women who cone to rescue your ass 9/10. It's black women who March for you when you killed, it's black women who feed you, clothe you etc. When your fathers to decide to dip out and after all the bullshit black women go through just to get your love and maybe some respect, you puss it all away. But yeah it's nonexistent divorces (look at the marriage rates in the black community, you guys aren't marrying anyone so you can stop the lie) and child support that's holding you back. Stop sticking your dicks n vaginas, going raw and you won't have to deal being stuck with women you don't want be tied to for the rest of your life. Ain't nobody got gun forcing any of you to squirt up these women, you do it to yourselves. Even my own brother did it. Now I say the exact same thing to women so dint act like I don't cause you can go through my answered questions and see I say the exact same thing.

[JDavid25]

@BlueScorpio "Black" women are part of the reason "Black" men don't marry them or aren't around them.. They parade around shaking their ass, trying to get all the dick in the world, and not taking sex seriously and then get upset when the jailbird or playa only wanted to get inside them and not put a ring on it or even consummate a relationship.. Not to mention the whole reason "Black" Single motherhood rose is because "Black" women were quick to get handouts from the government in exchange for the man not being in the home.. Therefore either relieving the man of his responsibility or making him feel inadequate..

[MCheetah]

@BlueScorpio
We can go all day around between "who is shirking responsibility" and who isn't, but at the end of the day, the previous points made in this still apply: Who is going around sleeping with bad men who are unfit to be father/marriage material? Who gatekeeps sex in general? Who gatekeeps love/romance in general? Who is the one mainly raising black children, if you say the fathers aren't around? It ALL comes back to women. No matter what you try to claim, say, or do, there is no one else left to blame. If you don't like how black men are right now, then who exactly raised them to be like that? BET? But like I said, the mental gymnastics women will do is crazy.

As for me, I am every single thing that wasn't said about "black men" except for the fact I grew up dirt poor in West Philly. I didn't go around raw-dogging any women. I didn't do drugs or sell any. I didn't commit crimes or steal anything. I knew gang members, but was never involved in any. I didn't touch a gun until my mid twenties, when I bought one myself after a long process of background checks and psych evals. I got my Masters in English in 2019. I'm not a self-loathing liberal, so I don't blame "whitey" or "Trump" for any of my issues in life. I don't even blame other people for any of the problems in my life, although I could very easily blame my abusive mother for most of my f*cked up brain and insecurity issues. My mother didn't do sh*t for me and I legitimately have no love or emotions towards her whatsoever. In fact, when I was young, I wished every night she wouldn't come home and that she'd end up dead. And even with all that, I'm not an incel or hate all women, even though it'd make perfect sense if I did end up that kind of misogynist, given what I've been through.

[MCheetah]

@BlueScorpio
Like I said before, I don't see myself as "black." One, because I've never really bonded with anyone on a deeper level my entire life, other than my late redheaded Irish/German descent ex fiancée who passed away ten years ago. And two, because I was never accepted by the "black" community, to begin with. So all of your gripes about black men, don't apply to me. However, I do see plenty of black men who also get educations and then leave the so-called "black" community, for the same reasons.

Why TF would anyone stay behind to help a "community" that never helped them to begin with? So good black men ARE out there, just like good black women. But you're assuming cause they aren't sticking with hood rats who treat them like sh*t and don't care about race, that "there are no black men around." When in reality, the good black men and women, don't stay in the ghetto. Why TF would they?

[BlueScorpio]

You mean the same ass that black men talk about in their mudic and put in their music videos? If I recall, wasn't one of the most popular songs about a black woman's ass written by sir mix a lot? A blavk man? Baby got back? Yeah let not act like black men don't capitalize and fetish asses cause you do.

[BlueScorpio]

Where are the good black men you guys keep bringing up? Why aren't they helping with building generational wealth, helping young black men Stay off the streets, teaching them how to be leaders and men. Why aren't they vocal enough about what's going in our community. Since men seem to only listen to men, you guys should be making a huge difference. Also I would like to know what's the invisible force that's keeping you guys out the homes now since most black women are well educated and making enough money to support themselves and their children without government aid?

[hahahmm]

@BlueScorpio You wrote"First of all divorce? Most black women aren't divorcing you guys, how can they when you don't marry them?" Ya, know, I decided to fact check you and the first search page result that came up says: "Black women were the only group that had a higher divorce rate than marriage rate, with nearly 31 divorces per 1,000 married women aged 15 and older and only 17.3 marriages per 1,000 unmarried women". -- www.bgsu.edu/.../...o-demo-variation-fp-19-27.html

It's incredible & not in a good way. You may want to shush before you embarrass yourself more.

[JDavid25]

@BlueScorpio No doubt a lot do (I'm guilty I can't lie).. But men don't usually create the standard around women, women do and men respond.. Obviously Sir Mix-a-Lot was responding to what he was seeing probably all the time.. Big booty "Black" women flaunting ass.. He just made it more mainstream.. I mean I've literally seen "Black" mothers twerking right in front of their kids.. You'll never see "Black" fathers do something similar in front of their baby or toddler daughters and get away with it.. 😂.. Rightfully so.. Women have a lot of power over men.. Men respond to what women allow many times..

[hahahmm]

@BlueScorpio "Where are the good black men you guys keep bringing up? Why aren't they helping with building generational wealth, helping young black men Stay off the streets, teaching them how to be leaders and men. "

Of course successful black men help by being good role models. If someone doesn't follow the lead of a good role model that's on the individual. And by successful I don't mean that always has to be money. I mean in character, lifestyle, masculine approaches to solving problems and so on. Lots of people want to sit around and play the victim instead of following the good role model because it's HARD to follow him. It's easy to be a whiny loser. It's easy to claim that your life is bad because somebody else didn't do ALL the work for you.

Generational wealth: If you want your kid to have "generational wealth" that came from a man it'd be smart on your part not to sleep with dudes who don't think it's important to be financially successful. It'd be smart of you to not rack up high body count numbers which will turn off high quality guys, not just because of the count but because of all the associated baggage. But hey... what do I know. It'd be smart on your part to be the kind of woman who inspires a man to value you and give you a ring... and to be loyal to you forever. But hey, a lot of women want to act like whores and then get expected to be treated like Queens. That's not reality. Not if the guy has half a brain & apparently most guys with less than half a brain aren't building anything of value.

I could go on but I'm getting bored here.

[MCheetah]

@BlueScorpio
Because they aren't their parents and men like me don't owe "little black kids" anything. I don't owe a single negro jack sh*t. I have my own life to worry about. And like I said, when has "the community" ever helped me with anything? I don't have any kind of "allegiance" to random people based on melanin level. That's what parents are for. Which ONCE AGAIN, I'm going back to black women choosing better men to open their legs to, and using protection when with them.

You're also DELUSIONAL if you think "most black women are well educated and making enough money to support themselves and their children without government aid."

[MCheetah]

@BlueScorpio
It also doesn't help that black women tend to HATE successful black men more than anything... Unless they're rappers or NBA stars. Look how many women dogged Kevin Samuels. He was trying to help black women and do exactly what you said, and how many black women appreciated it?

[hahahmm]

@mcheetah Preach. And I was just about to mention Kevin Samuels too. So many (mostly black) women went on his show claiming to have their sh*t together and were proven to be liars. It's comedy gold.

[BlueScorpio]

@hahahmm so then stop calling women golddiggers who try to look for quality men with financially stability. You guys keep talking outside your neck on this situation all the time. If we want men who are financial well off you punish us by calling us goldiggers. If we become dependent and have jobs, we're too independent bitches that makes a hit on your egos. Also if your tired of high body counted women, then you're going to have stop expecting sex outside of marriage which something a lot of men aren't willing to do these day. It's weird, you guys can't understand that most people these days have a relationship long before you come into the picture. You guys really need to get grip and realize you're not going to be the first man a woman has been eeverytime you meet a new woman. The same way we have to expect and accept that we're not going to be the first woman you've ever been involved with either. Stop demanding virgins if you're not going to be one yourself. And I already told you I was married and never slept around.

[BlueScorpio]

Nigga please the black community has helped your black ass a lot. If wasn't for the marches and the riots, do you think you'll still be able to walk down the street without getting lynched to this day? Wake up. You are most protected group of men within the black community, when shot goes down outrage happens and the women usually start marching for you. We've been doing it since the damn 50s, George floyd is proud of that. But thank you for admitting you simply just don't give a shit anout your people, your children or communities.. finally you guys are honest.

[hahahmm]

@BlueScorpio " so then stop calling women golddiggers who try to look for quality men with financially stability" -- Guys don't call a woman a gold digger simply for looking for a quality dude with stability. They call her that for being a disloyal whore who uses lies to get what she wants. And guess what? The less you bounce from penis to penis, the less likely anybody will call you a gold digger, regardless of how much gold your man has.

[hahahmm]

@BlueScorpio "we're too independent bitches that makes a hit on your egos."

That's one way of looking at it. The other way that you feminists hate to listen to is a man wants to be a provider & not a leech or useless so if his woman makes way more money than he does he's in a situation where he's not a provider or he can't even keep her in the lifestyle she's used to. He can't afford to take her on $100k vacations every 3 months if she's used to that. Most guys are smart enough to see that would be bad for the relationship. Maybe a lot of women are just too dumb to realize how the choices they make can negatively impact their life goals tho. It's not men's fault if you feminists decided it was important to get good paying jobs without regard for how it would affect relationships with men. We're not responsible for your dumb decisions. I'm sure you'd get it if a man got a boob job to look like he had huge tits and then expected you to date/marry him. Men don't need/want women who act like dudes and a lot of women today do that to some degree.

Smart men know there's nothing good for him in a relationship with a feminist. She wants him to be traditional where it benefits her but she gets to be totally non-traditional in every area of life. Crazy.

[hahahmm]

@BlueScorpio "Also if your tired of high body counted women, then you're going to have stop expecting sex outside of marriage which something a lot of men aren't willing to do these day."

Your comment makes no sense. Guys have been getting laid since the dawn of time and women NEVER cared about a guy's body count but guys have always noticed a woman's count. So again, you women decided to ignore men's preferences. Sounds like your problem to me. Guys don't actually have to pick because there have always been some whorish women & there always will be even if in the past guys had to go to the whore house or a different town to get 'fun'. Now he can just toss a cell phone into a crowd & he will find one of those women. The guys who complain about not getting laid mean, they don't like the quality of the women they can find. Not that they couldn't get sex delivered by uber in 10 minutes if they wanted that.

Point is: men & women aren't the same and you feminists are starting to believe your own bs rhetoric to the contrary. It's sad.

[hahahmm]

@BlueScorpio " It's weird, you guys can't understand that most people these days have a relationship long before you come into the picture."

Ah, it's cute how you try to make it sound like all these women just had 1-2 boyfriends over 15-20 years. Reminds me of the chick with 4 kids who told me she almost NEVER had sex. You women must have a nun's habit hanging in your closet and a dresser full of bibles. How dumb do you think men are? Ha ha ha ha ha ha ha HOOOOO HA HA HA HA HA HA HA HA HA HA HA HA HA HA HA HA HA HA HA HA HA HA HA HA HA HA HA HA HA HA HA HA HA HA HA HA HA HA HA HA HA HA HA HA HA HA HA HA HA HA HA HA HA HA HA HA HA HA HA HA HA HA HA HA HA HA HA HA HA HA HA HA HA HA HA HA HA HA HA HA HA HA HA HA HA HA HA HA HA HA HA HA HA HA HA HA HA HA HA HA HA.
I mean, sure there's some women with very low counts. We call them higher value. And it's not really simply about the number. It's about the baggage. Guys don't get mentally messed up by bodycount like women do. Again... men & women aren't the same.

"You guys really need to get grip and realize you're not going to be the first man a woman has been eeverytime you meet a new woman. The same way we have to expect and accept that we're not going to be the first woman you've ever been involved with either. Stop demanding virgins if you're not going to be one yourself. And I already told you I was married and never slept around."

Ahhhhh... a man doesn't need a girlfriend or a wife tho. Having these are luxuries. Probably why a quality dude is not going to give you a ring if all you have to offer is vagina. And he doesn't need/want your money. This means if you want a good dude, you need to have a good character. He may overlook that you're not a virgin BUT he's not going to overlook it if you have a habit of being a lying/cheating whore, being disloyal, being disrespectful, acting masculine and all those other 'little' details that you trained yourself to be with a long line of bad relationships/high body count.

[JDavid25]

@BlueScorpio I highly doubt most of the Marches actually did anything as Lynching stopped well before Marching started, and all the riots did was destroy "Black" neighborhoods.. What would have helped would be a shift in culture.. Building skills and Placing more importance on shifting the culture.. All "Black" women did was push "Black" men out.. BLMs aim was LGBTQ people, women and children.. They don't give a damn about "Black" men unless they can make a statement from our deaths when it's by the hand of a "White" police officer.. If it's by another nigga shoo, we might as well not exist at that point.. We're just dead..

[hahahmm]

@JDavid25. You are exactly right about BLM. On day 1 I thought it was insane how some dudes thought a group founded & run by hardcore man hating lesbians gave a sh*t about black men.

[MCheetah]

@BlueScorpio
We've already disproven the "gold digger" BS. A woman is a gold-digger when she only wants men who earn vastly more than she does. Because women NEVER want men on their equal level, whatsoever. Either way, money doesn't always equate to quality men, but it's funny how you seem to think it does.

Also funny how you keep saying "Black men ain't sh*t." But when I tell you how so many men are, you come running with your hands out like "WHERE'S MINE?" I don't owe niggas a damn thing. And you lost all credibility when you mentioned that piece of sh*t criminal George Floyd. That f*cker can rot in Hell, for all I care. You try to bring up good black men, and then mention a career felon who got famous for OD'ing on fentanyl while being arrested. Are you f*cking kidding me? THAT is your idea of a black hero? And then you wonder why I wouldn't want to have anything to do with ghetto trash.

I escaped the hood all on my own. What makes you think I'm going to go back there to help out the ghetto bitches and chicken-heads who said I was "too white" for going to college and spent their ENTIRE life talking about "black men ain't sh*t, but can I get a handout"? Y'all can f*ck off with that nonsense. All you're doing is proving SOME black women lack independence and is always looking for a handout from some man; whether it be the government or other black men.

I'm an ESL teacher in South Korea. I literally help kids almost daily; Monday through Friday. I also help my coworkers daily as well. But I don't own little niggas from West Philly jack sh*t. Especially the self-pitying, George Floyd, BLM-dickhead kinds who want to wallow in victimhood and still talk about slavery in 2022.

[MCheetah]

@BlueScorpio
TL;DR: You mad that niggas ain't giving you and other black women free sh*t. And then complain when successful black men escape the hood because they don't come back and give hood rats their Cinderella story so they can be the next Nicki Minaj or Cardi B.

I'm an individual and because of a black woman, have no concept of "family" and never grew up in a "community." I don't owe random lower class dark-skinned people sh*t. You DAMN RIGHT about that. I look after people who help me. Not "people who kinda look like me, but never gave a damn about me."

[hahahmm]

@mcheetah She's toast. This thread reminds me of Mustang vs Lust in Full Metal Alchemist. ha ha ha

[BlueScorpio]

Free shit? I have a job, what could I possibly need from you or other black men? This isn't about coming back to give black women a Cinderella story, it's about caring for your people and wanting to see them do better. How can you complain about the short coming of the black community, put it on the shoulders of black women then say you don't care?

[hahahmm]

@BlueScorpio When a black man who is successful tells the "black community" how to be successful he's called an uncle tom, oreo, sell out and so on. You need to go preach to the losers who need help before you even think about the people who can provide help. Not that those who can provide help are obligated to give it away to random people who just happen to share the same skin color.

[JDavid25]

@hahahmm "She's toast. This thread reminds me of Mustang vs Lust in Full Metal Alchemist. ha ha ha" 😂😂😂 👍👉..

[MCheetah]

@BlueScorpio
Like, I said they're not "my people." I'm into that tribalist BS, so stop trying to put it on me and other successful individual black men. If they were "my people," then I would've grown up with an actual family, in an actual community. You know; the thing you said black men aren't good at building, and black women also aren't good at maintaining. I don't owe anyone sh*t based on same melanin levels, but I'll tell you how to fix the black community here and now.

1. Have self respect at all times.
2. Stop sleeping with everything that moves without protection (a condom, not a gun).
3. Stop shooting and killing each other.
4. Stop committing crimes, then justifying them by saying "I'm just tryin' to survive."
5. Stop worshipping and deifying criminals, especially George Floyd. Or Scarface. Or Cardi B.
6. Stop being slaves and Useful Idiots to woke culture and victimhood.
7. Stop being slaves to old crusty white men who use you as props to get richer, like Joe Biden and most Democratic politicians.
8. Stop blaming "whitey" for all your problems. You nor your parents ever had to deal with pre-civil rights discriminations or slavery.
9. Go to college. Or at least, learn a trade.
10. Learn how to think for yourselves instead of parroting what leftists have told you "what black is" for generations now.

There. Have I done enough, or do you want me to drop dollar bills from a helicopter over Detroit?

[MCheetah]

RE: "But what are you doing to help black people? 'Your' people?" (My Ten Tips to Help "The Black Community") ↗

[letuswaltzforthedead]

Yeah, the main thing I have an issue with is the bad role models kids have or the lack of good ones that exist. I've seen a bunch of foster care and adoptees in families thinking that they have to "act black" or be more black but then look up to people like Cardi B.
Even in stories and books, there isn't much. In most entertainments, they just add some annoying characters in the name of "diversity" and being woke and the same characters just end up being half-arsed.
Honestly, its worrying seeing the "guidance" that my generation and generation alpha is receiving from certain people.

[Aerolyn]

I kinda think as similar as you when you say you don't think of yourself as black or American.

Like, I know I'm black and American, but in my case I NEVER make it such of a big deal like some people do.

Not that if it's a problem with me that someone else does, I'm just saying that's not something I do or want to do.

I just say "I'm Donta" and leave it at that.

[Fuentes]

I really think the chick writing that ish is the same troll I bodied numerous times and cries and screams and only writes post to have a manic tantrum melt down once you respond.

[MCheetah]

I think it's someone else, as that female in question is Hispanic (possibly Dominican).
Her account went inactive today (possibly quit GAG or got suspended) anyway.

[Fuentes]

Oh damn lol u right I checked her profile she got that mad about the picture she posted she deleted her GaG account. I really don't understand how telling someone to take care of themselves and do more self maintenence to improve their look is offensive lol

[coverboyoutlawbrady]

ARE YOU KIDDING? Black men are the world's foremost genocide targets;black women suffer racism and sexism, but save transgender black women, who in the USA have the highest hate-crime murder rate, they aren't marked for extinction by murderous white supremacists.

[CallmeTheKnight]

They're gonna be more accepting as long as we make ourselves look stupid or black women continue to make themselves look ignorant.
For example, Meg The Stallion in She Hulk.

[BlckGrl]

Why didn't you post what you really said? People are always creating narratives so it can seem like they have won 😭

[BlckGrl]

You cleaned up your response a great ton, you want to seem like a victim it's not gonna work.

[Berethor]

She sure sounds smart and extremely right, you had a very civil conversation with her. :)

[BlckGrl]

Thats not what he actually said.

[Ritadutta]

Leftwing/communist societies tend to be more accepting of foreign men. Right-wing societies tend to be more accepting of foreign women.

[Stoner710]

Females because no one cares about men

[Anatoly]

To my on prospective I think their is noting wrong with that.

[JesseJayNeak]

You don’t see black men twerking

[BlckGrl]

You sure do see them shooting up their neighborhoods 🤐 but yes twerking is worse

[MCheetah]

@BlckGrl
Ah! So YOU'RE the anon author, huh?

[BlckGrl]

Yes. Why didn't you post what you said?

[MCheetah]

@BlckGrl
People can already go see what I said by following the link.

It's pretty obvious you hate yourself and/or your ethnicity. But it doesn't help you to attack others just because you hate who you are. That's what I'd also tell 19 year old me.

[BlckGrl]

You didn't post the things you actually said you cleaned it up greatly and only posted my second response to make it seem like you won

[MCheetah]

@BlckGrl
'K. Bye now.

[BlueScorpio]

No they just put those women in their rap videos lol how do think twerking got so popular? Can we please stop pretending that men don't put half naked women in their videos for no reason? And can we stop lacting lije non black women aren't shaking ass either?

https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=vj70ToWij84