I'm a black female and I'm dating a white man. there has been nothing but drama and sh*t starting for no reason just because we are an interracial relationship. they have tried to get my number in front of him, and yesterday some random black guy seen us together and gave my boyfriend the finger. they are relentless. why do they hate to see black women date white men?
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I don't really know, but I've read a bit about what is _said_ in discussion forums about it ...
My impression is that some black men seeing a black woman with a white man think she has decided to forego _all_ black men. Like she's given up on them and thinks they're not good enough. When I see a white girl with a black guy, I don't assume she's decided all white guys are worthless bums and she won't date them.
I'm not saying this is reasonable or even true, but that's what seemed to be coming up on forums where I was reading about arguments around this.
I'd guess maybe its just less common so they haven't had to deal with it as much. White guys have had to get over it.
Asian guys are the ones who should be really pissed. Apparently they are the group most likely to be single in America. More Asian women are cohabitation with white guys then Asian ones, but Asian male - non Asian female relationships are rare.1