Why do black men hate black women?

[Iceseeyou25]

I read the comments of a few black red pill channel and majority of the black men prefer white women/ don't like black women. It's basically them bragging about how little resources and protection they'd give their black girlfriends/ women are wrothless and only good for sex. I'd see the black men write that no one wants black women but then when black women date outside of their race, they are suddenly evil and working with the white man to destroy black men.

I can give countless examples. So many that it's not even funny. It's disturbing and scary. I don't know where all this hate is coming from.

[White_King2000]

From talking with black men it seems to be more an issue of culture and how good black men are treated in a relationship with white women compared to black women. I suggest treat your men better.

https://www.youtube.com/embed/LZ_IaibrH6Q

[bookiebool]

So what about good black women? You don’t say fuck a whole race just because you had a few experiences. We all need to learn to have better discernment and cut people off as soon as they start disrespecting us. We all have room to treat each other better. All I’ve ever dated was black men and they’ve tested me I fucked up ways differently do I say I hate black men? No
Now I just know
What not
To looolk for in the next and if they happened to be asain etc etc then so be it

[White_King2000]

@bookiebool there's a lot of broken families out there of all colors and kids with deadbeat dads but a disproportionate amount of them do seem to be among African Americans.

[bookiebool]

I agree and the question now is why do you think this is?

[White_King2000]

@bookiebool drugs, unemployment, crime, poverty, lack of moral male role models for youn black boys and girls. It seems unbelievable that African Americans were doing better under segregation in thd 40s and 50s than 2000.
I think its a vicious circle that needs to be broken.

[bookiebool]

Interesting.

[White_King2000]

@bookiebool fathers are very important in young children's development

[jasco]

I feel like today, a lot of black women ( not all of you) today aren't respecting each other and other races in general. I could careless if you dated someone outside of your race, however when dealing with politics or anything else i feel like you guys should take things with a hint of salt and some respectfulness. But i don't see that, i see a lot of overly angry black people. I see black women becoming single mothers and treating there kids like shit. I see some black women threatening to stab there bfs over stupid shit. I see a lot of things that black women are at fault for. Of course single mother hood is both the dad and moms fault regardless. I just feel like black women need to work on themselves, they need to start acting mature, they need to better themselves as women in general and i feel like you are kinda losing that to other women in other races because you aren't as attractive enough and i guess some of y'all just aren't trying anymore either

[Iceseeyou25]

Why are rappers killing each other? ↗

[Cherokeehp]

Dude. In the most polite way possible, shut the fuck up. I don’t pay much attention to most people on this site, but you seem to pop up constantly asking questions about people or making comments criticizing black women for simply existing. In the past I’ve tried answering your questions constructively, but it seems as if you lack the ability to comprehend and retain information.

[jasco]

In the most polite way possible, shut the fuck you big dumbass. 2nd I have the right to say what tf I wanna say, 3rd that's my personal opinion on why black men no longer want black women as much as they do everyone else and I feel like if black women realize there faults then maybe life would be better for them, it certainly isn't due to systemic racism that black women are working out and keep themselves fit, anyone can go to the gym right so how come there are so many obese black people? I dont have a problem with black people in general I just have a problem with the stupid ones like you

[bookiebool]

No we all need to work on ourselves. If you as a black man took the time to literally shut up like the prior comment said and be more observant. Listen beteeen the lines even your comment is the mentality that would ruin a nation. All black people are suffering from traumas. And I can say every black women I know has suffered abuse by the hands of a family member
Their close friends, the father of their children. Our own mothers have been raped and been taught to never speak on. Be honest and say we as a peoeole don’t respect each other. In the laws of nature, it’s duality so yes we BoTh have much work to do. Black men and black women. You as a black men should focus on how to be a better leader, a better father, the tone of your voice could completely calm your women if you understood we are meant to compliment. Each other

[Cherokeehp]

You do have right to say whatever you want to say, but you’re honestly just making yourself look stupid. There are literally tons of black women who are fit and healthy. Black people are more likely to be obese because our families have passed down recipes from slave times. Slaves were typically only given the worst parts of the animals. They would have to eat intestines and nasty stuff like that, and so to make it test better it they’d season the hell out of it and fry it up. They passed these recipes on to their children which is why a lot of black foods are so unhealthy. And on top of that, not everyone has access to a gym. Not all neighborhoods have gyms. But on top of that, black people are statistically more likely to live in poverty, so if you’re broke you probably don’t have the extra money living around for a gym membership. Sure, it takes work to solve these problems; but other people are literally just as shitty. So many black men disrespect black women, when they’re not perfect themselves. Y’all look the biggest hypocrites and clowns.

[jasco]

Man I never said I didn't have my damn problems and guess you dont need to go to the gym to look fit, do home work outs, 2nd yea you right people do pass things on to other people but at the end of the day its your choice rather or not you wanna cook it like that, nothing wrong with experimenting

[Cherokeehp]

Some black women do try new things. But it’s more
likely that adults that adults eat were they were taught to eat and cook as children. Black foods are typically delicious, but the high fat, sugar, and salt levels are literally addictive. There’s been tons of studies that prove that they’re addictive and it’s hard for people to start a new diet. But fortunately as of lately lots of black people are making shifts towards healthier diets. More people are turning to plant based diets. More people are discovering new physical activities like yoga and stuff. Y’all are so quick to rip black women to shreds. We could rip y’all to shreds just as easily. And it’s sad how we fight for black men for y’all to completely discredit it and still treat black women like shit. Black women started black lives matter because they wanted to protect young black men. Black women been out here protesting and fighting for black men.

[jasco]

Well then it is what it is so hey lots of black men simply just dont wanna be bothered and as late I can't say I disagree with them, sometimes we just be better off left to our own devices, eventually things will settle out and well black men as you say may start being more respectful to you or maybe not who knows but as I can see, I simply have no reason to wanna date y'all because the majority of what I see of black women is bad but I can't say all of you are bad and ik a good bit of y'all are in fact trying to be better in life and for the ones that are, I salute you and I wish you the best of luck

[Cherokeehp]

What makes us so bad?

[jasco]

Not all of you are bad, but I just feel like a lot of you are just turning into a bitch and not the good kind, y'all get into this prideful stands that says I can do anything I wanna do and I dont need yo help and that's a good attitude to have however when your having that attitude with your boyfriend/spouse, or when someone's trying to help you, or give there thoughts about something rather its black or white telling you and you disagree with it, you instantly get mad and start throwing insults. You all aren't like that but the ones that I have seen are usually the ones that are YouTube, tv and personal experience to a extent and because of that, I have a negative image a good bit of y'all black people in general and to me I feel like if those people got help from there own instead of getting shot, robbed, ignored and many other things. I feel like people no longer care about each and I feel like everyone is just getting heated over everything

[Cherokeehp]

What are you? As in your race?

[jasco]

I am a Martian from mars

[Cherokeehp]

Was that supposed to be cute? Funny? Witty?

[jasco]

Neither simply because I know what you was trying to do and I simply didn't wanna fall into that trap that everyone else uses because they either dont have a argument or are stupid. The what race are you card. Yes I am black and yes I have problems I know that and I am working on them but from what I can other black people aren't

[Cherokeehp]

Do you know every single other black person?

[jasco]

Nope nor do I want to, nor did I say every single black person was like that. I said the ones that I saw and the ones that i hear are like that. I can't speak for every black person nor can BLM speak for everyone black person and neither can you. I will however judge the ones that are at fault for whatever they did

[Cherokeehp]

You just said you won’t judge every black person, but before that you made sweeping generalizations about black women. How can you not see your own hypocrisy?

[jasco]

I never said all black women tho, I said the ones that I have seen were like that

[Cherokeehp]

But you realize black men have created a lot of the problems that make black women so hard to deal with. You mentioned single motherhood, and you’ve admitted that you’re aware that it takes two to make a child, and yet you only criticize the mothers and not the fathers that abandon their children.

[jasco]

I actually do criticize the men as well but this was a take about women so I made it about black women, men are just as at fault for leaving there kids as women are and I feel like we need to fix that. The man shouldn't leave his children and the women should learn not to bring there baggage into there kids lives

[jasco]

Both are fault for everything going, like I said it takes to make, raise and help a child

[Cherokeehp]

So do you just not like black people in general?

[jasco]

I don't know anymore honestly who knows, I do like my family and a few friends so other then that I guess not I don't know

[Cherokeehp]

So you’re a coon?

[jasco]

Nope

[Cherokeehp]

Are you sure? Also do you have a black mother? Is she included in your dislike for black women?

[Yads_Is_Back]

Possibly because they also hate their own selves? 🤔If he’s gonna go after a woman who does her hair like a white woman, tries to act like a white woman, tries to do what white women do... well... why not just go for the white woman?

[Anonymous]

So most black guys look at white girls as trophies and treat them really bad. I hate the fact that most blacks guys in my area all think they are gangster want a bes.

[User2300]

What pink anon said is very true. A lot of black guys see white women or women of other races as trophies. Having hangout with a lot of black guys from sports they openly say this.

This is a huge generalisation so it doesn't apply to every black guy.

[iFarted]

That's not true... they probably just hate the ones who have hella attitude.. I see more black men with black women than any other women.

[bookiebool]

What women do you know who doesn’t have an attitude? And why don’t we speak more on the root of the problem. A lot of us suffer form mental emotional issues and many don’t but when I’ve seen a women who
Has such an attitude she’s been violated in more ways than one can count and expected to keep a smile on her face. We should take more time to
Truly understand each other.

[Iceseeyou25]

@bookiebool I sent a following request. Let's talk

[bookiebool]

@iceseeyou25 I don’t know how this things works lmao message me

[Don-__-Don]

Ngl, some of those red pill videos are full of bullshit and it seems like you have been watching the bad ones.

[Don-__-Don]

Personally never seen a single black man who hates black women.
Litteraly, not a single one.

[bookiebool]

That’s your experience. If you take a psychology class you’ll be able to read between the lines in how certain men talk about their own mothers and sisters and very specific in how they speak about black women.

[Don-__-Don]

@bookiebool
I majores in psychology in uni and I stay pshychology for fun.

Of course that's my experience, every opnion I give out is based on my own personal "schema". Thats what everyone does.

Also, why tf would I would I want to know how certain men talk about their own mothers? That's usless information.

[Don-__-Don]

majored*
study*
I wish turning off auto correct was an option.

[bookiebool]

Okay.

[93_n_on]

Not all black men hate black women, at least i don't. Dating a different race doesn't mean the guy hates black women though

[bookiebool]

She’s speaking on the comments that black men make on YouTube / Instagram etc where they clearly say vile things specially about black women. There’s a difference beteeen silently saying let me try something. Different then wishing horrible things on a all black women because of an experience you had.

[Anonymous]

This is one of the rare cases I've seen of a black person talking about black problems and not blaming it on whites.

[Iceseeyou25]

Really? I'm looking within the black community...

[Opinion Owner]

You do know what I'm referring to, right?

[bookiebool]

Because they hate themselves too! They hate their mothers and sisters too

[RolandCuthbert]

Why do you hate "Black" men?

[Iceseeyou25]

Roland, you knew me for years. Do you think I hate black men

[RolandCuthbert]

You are speaking universally about "Black" men.

I have already been highly critical of some "Black" men. We have liberal "Black" men here. . . we have trump supporting "Black" men here. What do they have in common? Their hatred for "Black" women. I have taken on all comers, when it comes to "Black" women.

But you still post threads castigating the good with the bad.

I asked you to stop. But you keep doing it.

[Iceseeyou25]

Oh

Sorry

[Coolmanxl]

This really sad 😠 Black women very kind hearted

[Ripper_E]

That's not black men. Those are just idiots.

[mrArcher]

Do they? That's a new perspective.