Black men, on average don't even want black women as girlfriends or wives. We are always seen as the strong ones and the protectors. But we rarely get love or protection in return. When it comes to racism, black men are the only ones who get attention. I just feel like as a black girl I'm just hated for being alive. I even heard black men say that if they had to be reborn and couldn't be a black man they'd rather be a very light skinned black women or white so hopefully men would protect them. You can say that I'm making this shit up but I'm not.
In general, black people are considered to be the lowest class even though that really shouldn't be true. However, some black men look at black women and think a struggle wive, becuase of the whole " a black girl will be your ride or die" wife. All that on top of self-hate. I'm really sorry you feel this why but tbh I think maybe try finding a community with other black women
@EyesOfGod I think when it comes to serious dating men aren't checking for black women. Maybe for a quick one night stand but not for àctural relationships ( it's depressing because I keep seeing men say that they'd never consider dating someone darker. At least that's what I'm seeing
Because I've seen dark skinned girls have tons of options when it comes to dating. Like they're inbox is overflowing with men trying to get with them. But I feel like In a way it's just for sexual purposes and only few would really be dating material.. ( sighs)
@Tea-Spaghetti No one said it is we just aren't mentioning that at the moment... Besides with the weird trend going on a lot of younger girls want to be with Asian men and I personally know a decent amount of them that did before that but Asian men ( or at least the ones I've seen) prefer to date Asian women
Well me personally I like having options not just Asian women all the time but American doesn't really celebrate almost anything having to do with us (Asian men) so the encouragement to really go out there and be yourself is limited. Whatever I don't even care most of the time I just fed up when some people act like they're the only one going through hard times ! News Flash! Everyone goes through hardship even white people!
I don't find white women attractive, that dosen't mean i am against white women. But i hold the belifes of Dr. martin luther king junior. I have never judged a person by their race, color, creed, or religion. So i judge individuals by the content of their character. I think that is what is right and i would never judge you without knowing you. I belive and support the human race. i have a darker skinned se Asian daughter and i only want the best for her. I hope you don
Joe biden , richard Nixon, ronald regan, LBJ obama, is the reason why black men hate black women.
And why black women hate black women.
Chinede people hate anybody that's not them. They love the whites Same with arabs Indians Certain hispanic communitys Whites well their are our polar opposite but some white like you and others tolerate you as a sex toy I only hate democrat black women y'all can. Go to hell.
I'll start with part one. The white liberal is gonna prop up its women like a trace would. The white liberal is the kkk this us facts. Ever wonder why colorism is all community's the closer to white the better.
So dark skin people the polar opposite of white are affected by that. The defeatist mindset of the men put white/light on a pedestal. Lowkey wanna wash their black away. Whit women to them become a symbol of status. I made it I am live through my kids
Kodiak black- "don't like dark skin" YG- light skin daughters comment Glock nine- "black baby comment" Nick cannon- comments on white women.
These type of black men would rather turn on their women to deflect their own pain.
Black women hate black women. 1st for the same self pain black men go through. 2. For having to change their hair to match the white female. 3. Light skin black women are treated better by non- black and blacks 4. Black women also live through their bi-racial kids like black me do. 5. lightskin black women adopt a liberal white female. Because they get the praise they become stuck up and tries to put down the darker ones when attention not on them.
It's the liberals. They control the media they show black women to be whores, mean, and force black, women to become. men. ever notice black women who come from 2 parent homes are wel adjusted and date better men
No race of women on the planet rules their men. Even white women who try to take over white men still bow to them. So once you break up the traditional family unit you can do whatever you want to them. He'll their own men will trash them so we can too.
Lets talk The political. That picture you have up there is From a democrat tight. A democrat drew a little black girl vs a grown white men. I told you they want black women to be the men. Why do you think about black lives matter they are on the front lines? Look it up. They own bet. They own essence ebony magazine madamnorie.
The black love meant black power ended 70sish year's ago. That's when black women took over the community. Yeah misogynist existed but not at they higher amounts of today..
Black women think democrats are their friend because they reward them sometimes. But they put a bi-racial or light skin girl and call it representation. I have nothing against bi-racial or light skin. I watched girlfriends growing up and zendaya zazie beetz and hallie berry are attractive to me. But it's deliberate.
Same goes for Chinese and all them other races who hate blacks middle eastern.
When a man is not in the house women and children are east prey.
Yes black women do make you feel worthless some of it justifiable most not. Black women are taught to think nerdy men are lame geeks, etc And get mad when the white women poach these men. These men become jaded with black PEOPLE and leave the community.
We are the only race that don't praise our scholar class we praise the warrior class (thugs) and entertainment class athletes singers dancers rappers etc.
The genius class or the blue color family man class is the leader on the community and should be forced to stay and bribed to stay because they know how to use their God given gifts.
Also I'm a dark skin men so the colonist effects me different in 2 ways I can either hate my self or be over praised like a light skin women.
Hey a lot of Chinese people don't love the whites don't give yourself so much credit. Many Middle Eastern and Native American people much more impressive than European whitey white people often times the world is vast and complex
The world has gone crazier than ever. Black woman are judged to fast and bc they are different some people can't accept it. I always say, you can't judge anyone by how they look, but see what beauty they have in their soul... whether the individual is any color of skin, we are still thesame. I think black women are intelligent, smart and beautiful. God created beautiful human beings, not junk.
i like da black girls. dunno. 2 many participation trophies at school or sumfin, maybe. i dunno, i like amazon queen sitting next 2 me on da throne and she can handle her shit when im sick or when the ladies are trying 2 jump on me or whatever
The world no China yes, China is the only place where McDonald’s can get away with putting out a no Black people allowed signIn front of the restaurant. The west holds black women in hire regard the most respect black women is of course Michelle Obama, I personally can’t stand her I prefer Condalizza rice and Candice Owens myself
@Tea-Spaghetti there is Racist behavior in every country yes, The Chinese are the only ones that can get away with it and nobody says anything do you really think that if McDonald’s in England said they don’t want Black people in the restaurant that they would get away with it? China is the only one that can do this without Ramifications if you want a country that still has Jim Crowe laws looked toward China. Trust me I’m pretty sure I know way more about China than you do
China never enslaved black people so Jim Crowe laws is kind of not appropriate comparison. In fact I’m 15th century China sent exploration ship to East Africa and developed good relations.
I've seen your posts in the past you sometimes don't even string your sentences together coherently when you have the time. Is it because of your stoning habit or something? Why? Must be a Washington thing.
@Tea-Spaghetti I’ve been to i’ve been to sol there was never a sigh that said no black allowed same with Tokyo Moscow I’ve never been to PolandThey cannot get away with this behavior. And just because the ming dynasty said people to Africa does it mean that they’re not doing atrocities to blacks and Turks now. The reality is Dr. Sun yet sen should have never given power to yushikii we wouldn’t be dealing with a communist China had that been the case, Hell the Qing dynasty would be less problematic than the communist party. I have no issue with the Chinese some of the people I work with are from Hong Kong what does CCPis doing there is a human rights violation My coworkers would literally be killed if they went back Hong Kong because they’ve spoken out against the communist government. Also I never compared to China to enslaving black. I am comparing the laws they have now to Jim Crowe. By not allowing Black people into McDonald’s they are acting like the Jim Crow South and CCP is a corrupt organization that needs to fall it’s that simple and frankly we shouldn’t have anything to do with any communist nation. But now the United States is in rich them selves out the facts of and enslaved Chinese workers and Turks. Do you want to try again to defend the CCP
China is big just because one incident somewhere is bad that doesn’t mean the entire country is the same way you are just brainwashed and biased by western media and can’t think for yourself saying foreign governments are bad just because your media tells you to think that almost no original thought. I’ve heard plenty of racist incidents in many countries not just China, it happens in America, Mexico, Sweden, UK, Italy, South Africa it happens everywhere. You are just specifically biased and brainwashed against China without China’s manufacturing America could not maintain its quality of life. Chinese people were turned to as the source of cheap labor after slavery was abolished and now black people want to spit on Chinese people too. I’m done dealing with you stoner Washington weeb.
I won't take anymore of your biased brainwashed criticisms of China anymore just because one incident was plastered all over western media you think you know everything there is to know about China now and Chinese people you are biased and brainwashed and I won't stand for your ignorance anymore.
I’m not saying China doesn’t have racist people but you are unfairly singling our China when there are many countries in the world with this behavior you just don’t hear about it.
@Tea-Spaghetti the person who taught me the history of China was Chinese she grew up in Peking she was born in 1979 she lived under the CCP. Her father ways killed in the tenement Square massacre and she wasn’t allowed to talk about her fathers death otherwise she would be killed by the CCP. This isn’t brainwashed stuff I’m saying it’s facts. Not to mention the BBC showed the Turks being forced into train cars they mentioned how they were being castrated and put into re-education camps because for practicing there religion. I’m sure there are individual racist everywhere But again McDonald’s would be shut down in western cultures if they put up a sign saying no blacks allowed. That law wasn’t made up by the individual McDonald’s restaurant owners it was created by the CCP. The reason why I single out China is because there the only one who can get away with open racism toward black people. Business don’t do anything without consulting with the CCP trust me my dad was working with the Chinese to get there nuclear program he met with many head members of the CCP. I’ve heard a few things on the news the rest are personal accounts from That’s X Chinese patriots. I don’t have issue with Chinese people my issue is with the communist government. You try going to China and saying fuck shin jing ping you’ll be arrested right away, Try saying fuck Trump in the United States you’ll be held as a hero this is the difference between China and the west. by the way japan and Korean are part of the east there not doing anything close to the atrocities China is committing now I don’t give me World War II era history we’re talking 2020
You are wrong to think discrimination is not a thing in South Korea or Japan especially South Korea discrimination against blacks (and whites) is still very much a thing www.google.com/.../view.php%3fud=20200320000695 www.japantimes.co.jp/.../ And just to add insult to injury here’s some examples of racism in Western countries newseu.cgtn.com/.../index.html www.opendemocracy.net/.../ You are truly blind if you think China is the only country in the entire world that allows racist behaviors. You are simply brainwashed and anti China even though you’re a japanophile which draws a ton of influence from traditional Chinese culture. Which goes counter to your weird beliefs about libertarianism because that thinking would not survive in Japan
And who cares if China doesn’t follow America’s example? You think just cause Americans hate their leaders every country in the world has to hate their leaders? That’s such a bullshit way of thinking I can’t even believe you even bother to use it.
North Korea does atrocities too but no you only want to attack China even though something much worse is happening right next door I only hate China. That’s your logic right there you’re truly despicable.
CCP does not operate every McDonalds in the country that’s a ridiculous way of thinking. That McDonalds was acting individually not representative of the entire country and in fact they apologized and took the sign down too see here www.google.com/.../world-asia-china-52274326
You are truly just ignorant and uninformed you stoner dude in Washington state I think mixed white/black that was adopted and hates Washington government and loved red states and libertarianism and also japanophile. You’re entire belief system is shoddy and self contradicting and here you wanting to spit on China you’re the reason why so many Chinese in China don’t want to completely copy America because it’s filled with so much nonsensical crap people.
@Tea-Spaghetti message me and will actually have a debate on what Chyna is doing and whether it is a good thing or a bad thing believe it or not I know a lot about China I know how terrible the Chinese government is and yes I do love Japan
As far as I've heard, the complaint seems to be that black women, at least in America, are loud, aggressive, entitled, and generally difficult to deal with. In my own country I've seen one or two black women for whom this is true. But I've also seen black women who are the opposite. If I dated a black woman, she'd have to be a member of the latter group.
Three of my last 5 new female clients are black. They were all bathed, on-time and paid (if it wasn't an exchange). They were all kind, responsive to my questions, and I had no problem with any of them. Those guys are missing out!
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Because the internalization of the beliefs, values and worldviews inherent in white supremacy leads to self-hatred and self-racism. I suppose we should thank colonialism and contemporary social media for propagating eurocentric beauty standards and negative stereotypes about black people
They don't. They just hate negative, angry, moody, ill-mannered, entitled, ratchet, borderline-feminist women who blame all their problems on men/whitey/Trump/"systemic racism," etc. The world loves classy black women with manners and an average level of intelligence.
@lanadelrey25 Yeah, look how much people love Oprah, Beyonce, and Michelle Obama. And I'd argue Beyonce is even all that "classy." And I'd argue Michelle Obama even being a black "woman." (Too bad they killed Joan Rivers for that one.)
Yup, anywhere you look a ethnicity will hate itself or other people, get over it. The world doesn't hate black people. When I was a little girl i thought I was ugly as shit too
@Iceseeyou25 Literally any race or ethnicity can be insecure. They literally are blackwashing roles in Hollywood right now and telling white men on a daily basis that they're trash for existing just because SOME of their ancient descendants MIGHT have done bad things. You really can't play the "black women have in bad" card in 2020. That's just YOUR Insecurity you're projecting onto the world right now. Which is ironic, since black women usually tend to be the most proud/overconfident demographic out there.
I don't even like to play race politics and it makes me feel gross even thinking about it, but seriously; white men have it WAY worse right now in social treatment, especially if they're straight or redheaded.
And that "defenseless black woman" video is a bad example to use, considering it's edited and a large chunk is cut out, and she was dogging them before the edited part. If anything, she only gets sympathy for being a woman. No one would've gave one sh*t if that was a male of ANY race they did that to.
@iceseeyou25 Everyone has problems. The thing is, you're projecting your problems onto all black women, which isn't right. It's the same thing that feminists do when they project all their personal problems onto all women, as a whole. You think there haven't been times I wish I wasn't black?
The TL;DR is, most of the world sucks. Most PEOPLE suck. And that transcends race, sexuality, and gender. That's why you gotta learn to appreciate the nice ones, reject the a-holes, and realize 99% of your negative feelings come from words spoken by flawed people in a f*cked up society. As in, they don't matter. Just please don't place your own issues onto "black women" or other demographics like that, cause it's not fair.
The world doesn't "hate black women", grow up and gain some confidence. If you even so much as think the words "hate" and "black", you will get blasted, fired, beaten, and/or cussed out. But not vice versa.
This is a great question. As a black woman, I don’t even know the answer. We’ve always been the least respected and protected... black women go through so much.
Where is it stated that black men don't want black women? I don't know about anyone else, but I really like black women, light skin or dark skinned. It's just a matter of whether or not I'm attracted to her.
If world hated black people them they are supposed to live in Mars or moon. Only saying no to black people for a certain reason doesn't mean they hate them.
I personally like Black women and i dont see why black men dont like to have black wives too. I mean interracial relationships are fine but stop judging on looks guyss!!!
@Tea-Spaghetti - Of course. And you can bet she never bothers to do the work to become very high value. So she will never have a chance at the really high value guys. Too many women think if they just show up with their vagina they're golden. FAIL.
Yeah like Zoey Saldana, even though she is pretty, she always plays an angry temperamental character it gets old. I like Sasheer Zamata personally Zoey is too angry all the time turns me off
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