Black men, on average don't even want black women as girlfriends or wives. We are always seen as the strong ones and the protectors. But we rarely get love or protection in return. When it comes to racism, black men are the only ones who get attention. I just feel like as a black girl I'm just hated for being alive. I even heard black men say that if they had to be reborn and couldn't be a black man they'd rather be a very light skinned black women or white so hopefully men would protect them. You can say that I'm making this shit up but I'm not.