Why do black men hate black women so much?

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I know that I'm not the ideal black women because I'm physically weak and I don't protest but I can't help but notice that black women, especially dark skinned women are expected to be insanely strong and have high pain tolerance all the time. Why don't block women deserve love or protection? But we're still expected to protect everyone else.

A white women doesn't need a job, she can be needy and dependent, she's valued because she's a person and black women never get to be considered that. I've been dating one black guy and he basically said that the only reason he liked me was because one day he planned on quiting his job to live off of me and at the time I couldn't afford to take care of him yet, but then again other races of women aren't expected to be strong or take on the world on their shoulders. Why can't black women be seen as humen beings? Could you imagine people only loving you because of how much pain you can take and how they don't have to worry because they're just going to sit back and watch you struggle?

Another girl was hit in the face with a skateboard.

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

That’s horrible and heartbreaking to watch. As a father of daughters, I know my girls wouldn’t need or seek validation from guys like that. And I think that’s the point. Single parent households, placing a low value on education, and not having access to better education are problems here. At the root of this is racial injustice. Black women do have a lot on their shoulders and they cannot do it all alone.

I have helped fund a west side Chicago private school that is a beacon of hope and safety in a downtrodden community. They have mostly black and some latinx pupils. They do well, get into colleges, etc. Besides that and voting, I don’t know what else I can do to help. For you personally, perhaps it’s simply to advise you to take your education as far as you possibly can. Wherever people value education, you will find better people generally. That, and don’t you dare allow a man to ever treat you the way the guy you dated did. Value yourself and other people will have no choice to but to do as well.

0oGreyo0 · Accepted Answer

Stop being dumb the people who hit her in the head with skate board are the people doing drive buses. I don't know why black women realized they live in the hood all of sudden. WHO DA FUCK YOU THINK IS SHOOTING BLACK PEOPLE. it's the THUG MEN.(the police and latinos as well)

Black women love thug black men.
You don't date the smart black men. So they date biracial and none black women because those women have common sense. Black women don't date
Dave chapplee
Mike colter
Terry crews
Donald glover
Kobe bryant
Neil deGrasse Tyson
bryon allen

Same with Megan the stallion she loves THUG Black men she basically said this.

So the nerdy black men or the average black guy you didn't give a chances cuz he's lame is not going to save you or feel bad for you because you pick the bad ones.

modelUN242 · Accepted Answer

Please drop this black man, he's stupid and a leech. You should know that some black people have some strong traditional values when it comes to relationships. I watched a lot of Steve Harvey and he gives excellent advice for women, old-fashioned advice. I think the question is too harsh, I think there are many good black men who see black women as their future wives. There are black men who don't want be with white women and prefer their own race, they exist. It's okay to be feminine as a black woman, and if you need to cry, cry. Please don't put too much pressure on yourself. Check out   She gives great advice on guys you need to watch out for, how to love yourself, etc.

Natashakir72 · Accepted Answer

I kinda wish it was true because my black x boyfriend would not have left me for his current black girlfriend:-(

Punkbuster107 · Answer

Any girl experiencing this type of crap needs to find better friends and a better community.

Moreover, those guys need some solid father figures to kicks their asses into shape. This kind of crap is the result of insufficient parenting if you ask me. What poor excuse for parents let those boys grow up without teaching them how to respect a woman? It’s a disgrace.

Reaperbot666 · Answer

-few of my black male friends. have said they typically don't date black females. because they are more likely to have angry issues or crazy attitude issues.
-partly because black females have had to deal with. the crap black males did them them over the generations.
-and white females are typically more submissive and less crazy.

from what I have been told at least.

Kenneth14621 · Answer

Dude. Sick stuff like this happens to people all the time. I have had stuff like this happen to me. Life is tough. You have to toughen up to make it. I had the entire football team dog pile me when I was in middle school for missing a tackle. Certain things are not supposed to happen. But they do. The prison system is filled to overflowing with people who did stuff they "weren't supposed to do". It is inevitable. Something that is not supposed to happen will happen to you in your life. It is how you respond to it that makes you successful or not. Because it is going to happen to everyone. And the people who give up on there dreams when it happens. Are the ones that will be unsuccessful. Sad to say that is why they say you have to toughen up.

_SOARER · Answer

I love black women. They literally raised me. From kindergarten to 5th grade all my teachers were black women.

They deserve all the privileges women have ❤

The problem stems from the popular culture which teaches men to view women as objects. We need men to fulfill their roles as protectors and providers of their own women. It's a shame.

I agree many black women, or especially black women are objectified. We need to rebuild the family

jkm1864 · Answer

I'm pretty sure it has something to do with how they were raised in fatherless homes and the ass whippings they got all came from a woman.

Don-_-Don · Answer

I wouldn't say that I hate black women. But I would be absolutely lying if I told you that 90% of my interactions with black women have been good.

Dinklex3 · Answer

I've recieved nothing but love from black men.  You just have to surround yourself with the right people.

OddBeMe · Answer

They’re obviously assholes. Not sure if that’s the trend for black guys tho. We have a tendency to think what we see is the trend, instead of listening to researchers. But I do wonder if religion is to blame. It preaches male superiority and lots of other bullshit.

Thatsamazing · Answer

A lot of men, Black and otherwise, are childish assholes. A lot of men, aren't.  Pick the latter. That is all.

cloud9vortex1234 · Answer

You're not obligated to take care of that loser because he quit his job. The idea he even told you that shows how scummy he really is. The guy is using you and has no shame in telling you.

apollo3000 · Answer

That's a core question in the whole 'black lives matter' thing. It isn't really the whites that have any issues (some black women I know are hands-down fabulous, moral, dignified, hard working and capable).

asshole_ · Answer

People hate people, who disagree with each other It's all about learning how to tolerate, differences

Anonymous · Answer

Because, i know it sounds harsh, but they're ghetto, hardly feminine and don't take care of themselves. The actor Terrance Howard, who is black himself, said it.

jshm2 · Answer

Really? What are you basing such a false assertion on?

venomhbk1313 · Answer

Because they are possessive just like the Iranian in Hindu men and Mexicans

Anonymous · Answer

Date a non black guy then.

Browneye57 · Answer

They don't. You peeps are your own worst enemy.

mrgspoter · Answer

No idea men hate women a lot in outher places

Anonymous · Answer

blm marxism propaganda.

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