Why do black men and black women hate each other so much?

[Anonymous]

I'm black and it pisses me of to see all these black people dating outside the race. You barely see black couples nowadays. Black men and black women hate each other and don't wanna date their own. I hear it all the time in and see all the hatred they have for one another on the Internet.

I know that every race has a good percentage that do interracial, but it's for a different reason. Black people do interracial because they have in inferiority complex to others races, and wanna bread "non-black" kids. That's the honest truth, even though most of them will deny it.

Every black dating outside their race says the same bullshit..."it's just love, you can't help who you love". Really? If you can't love yourself, how you gonna love someone else? If you hate the opposite sex of your race. Then you clearly hate yourself... just saying!

Aside from all this blacks still complain about this racist society. How are you complain racism and still breed with the people oppressing you? Does that make sense?

[charluka]

Race is a construct that has ruined this world. "Oh, this person's skin is darker than mine, he must be this way." or "Oh, this person's eyes are more slanted than mine, she must be this way."

People need to realize that the color of one's skin has nothing to do with the quality of the person. Who are you to say that they hate each other? So a dark skinned person happened to have a relationship with a light skinned person or this Asian person had a relationship with this Hispanic person.

Dating outside of one's race is not hating your own, it's accepting another based on the person, not their color of their skin.

[IvoirianGirl20]

Lol you really think she's joking. She's NOT.

[charluka]

@IvoirianGirl20
look, im not saying she is joking, im just sharing my opinion.

[IvoirianGirl20]

You cleary sound like you're not taking her statement seriously. I'm African and lemme tell you that finding a Black husband will be very hard for me. Many Black men date outside their race and criticize Black women like we're evil or something

[charluka]

@IvoirianGirl20
Do I have any idea about that? No. I just think that people shouldn't care as much as they do about the color of another's skin in finding a relationship.

[IvoirianGirl20]

Exactly. Don't speak about things you don't know about. And yes it is a problem in the Black community worldwide

[IvoirianGirl20]

Black men date outside their race just to bash Black women. If you can't relate to that, why speak about it?

[Asker]

Charluka you really don't understand because you're not black

[IvoirianGirl20]

Exactly. @Asker Let this fool get lost in his own bla bla land

[roland77]

@IvoirianGirl20 He is actually right. Love sees no color!

[roland77]

I'm not actually hating white women, I just see exotic women as my preference. I don't know why, but I cannot help loving them. Not blindly for sure and my current girlfriend is an African. Don't hate her doing that, she told me really concerning things about black men she has seen there.

For example, they are not open with their emotions towards them (while I have learned to be open to them). She also told me that the majority (her female friends exposed it to her) are into polygamy because it is allowed and for some reason "common". But she is in monogamy like me and so she found it easier to trust me.

[pr3ttybr0wn]

the ones who hate each other and dont want to date each other are maladjusted uncle toms/aunt tomina's lol us normal black people dont have that problem. i really think they have just internalized anti-black sentiments and turn it around on the opposite sex to make themselves feel better about themselves. in short, self hatred. i dont even like hanging around people like that. i only see them on the internet. i think the ones who are like that in real life dont even have black friends

[roland77]

Very true! I love women of any race/skin color but just true women (no trans women) and I prefer exotic.

[kittycat119]

This is exactly why interracial relationships are looked down on and people get hurt for who they love. Because people like this make it seem like if you fall for someone of another race you must hate your own. Exacly what my dad said when i told him i was in love wiyh a black man and he beat me. And if people like you stopped talking like yhis maybe my realtionship would finally be viewed as ok.

[SLT93]

What...

To name but a few;
Jay-Z & Beyonce
Barack & Michelle Obama
Will & Jada Pinkett Smith

www.huffingtonpost.com/.../25-beautiful-couples-who-exemplify-black-love_us_561fac04e4b050c6c4a47012

[IvoirianGirl20]

Ignorance at its best. What about regular Black folks? 😂😂

[Diamonnds]

@IvoirianGirl20 I see a lot of normal black people that are a couples, come to Florida sweet 😂😂 and Blackpeoplemeet. com is filled with black people looking for another black person to date.

[IvoirianGirl20]

@diamonds I hope you realize that they are Black people all over the world 😂😂😃😱

[SLT93]

@IvoirianGirl20 Aren't these regular black folk? What makes them any different?

[IvoirianGirl20]

@SLT93 Culture does

[FallOutBoy2001]

Up here in New England we have more mixed couples (of all races) but it's pretty even among the races. Tons of black couples where I work

[IvoirianGirl20]

@FallOutBoy2001 I just want a Black man. That's all 😄

[phil2]

I think they do what makes them happy. I didn't marry within my race but I am happy to be married to him. It doesn't mean that I hate my race.

[Anonymous]

You're coming off racist (Unintentionally, I hope). I personally like the fact that Black women are dating out of their race and black men dating out of their race. I'm Chinese and I cannot stand Chinese men and some Chinese men can't stand due to the fact that Chinese. It's just a preference. What's the big dealio?🙂

[Jxpxtxr]

Lots of grammatical mistakes and racist remarks in there. Congratulations on the most pointless rant of the day, you've won it 👍🏻

[IvoirianGirl20]

I want a Black husband. I feel like they're more warm and sweet (especially if they're Christian). I dated outside my race once and I'm never doing this again. It's just too complicated with the family and my ex didn't understand my discomfort

[Runfatboyrun808]

Until they beat you after drinking 2 40's.

[IvoirianGirl20]

I was talking about Africans

[IvoirianGirl20]

@Runfatboyrun808

[Runfatboyrun808]

Haha. It was a joke I'm sorry

[IvoirianGirl20]

@Runfatboyrun808 Okay

[IvoirianGirl20]

* @Runfatboyrun808

[roland77]

Or leave you for another woman, because polygamy is far spreaded in Africa.

[Goldie757]

Do they?

I see plenty of black couples of all ages.

[roland77]

Same here in #Krefeld , too.

[Anonymous]

Blacks treat other blacks far worse than any other race treats them. I have seen it first hand.

[Asker]

That's why blacks date outside. They hate their own that hate much

[roland77]

Polygamy and care-less of own children when separated. Constant blames to them, I got this all from my African girlfriend.

[Opinion Owner]

@roland77 dude this post is over a year old

[roland77]

Yeah, I'm good in digging such things up. Sorry!

[eneskocfromeuropean]

Black girls's eyes are sweet so much! I prefer black girl

[Asker]

Are you black?

[roland77]

Same here, I love interracial kisses!

[LadyTerror]

You're the only one who is racist here.

[LadyTerror]

"Every black dating outside their race says the same bullshit..."it's just love, you can't help who you love". Really? If you can't love yourself, how you gonna love someone else?"

Those two aren't even remotely related. Do you even speak English?

[Asker]

You're obviously someone dating outside your race

[LadyTerror]

Yeah I am. Your point?

[IvoirianGirl20]

@LadyTerror She had been making a point since she posted that question

[Asker]

That explains your comment. Are you even black? Because it seems like you don't understand the point I'm trying to make!

[LadyTerror]

Actually I'm mixed but mostly black and even look black. I got what you're trying to say but you clearly have no idea what you're talking about. People don't date other races because they "hate their own race". I've in fact dated guys who are black before and would have no problem doing it again. I just happen to be with a guy who isn't the same race but you're against it even though it doesn't personally affect you in any way.

[IvoirianGirl20]

Uhh good for you. But many people date outside their races just to bash their own lol

[LadyTerror]

Lol your racism is showing anon and you're embarrassing yourself badly

[LadyTerror]

"You must be racially confused like the other mulatto's."

LOL you're so insecure you assumed a person's race and even got that wrong. You're out of arguments so you stick to insult. You need to seek a counselor for your insecurities.

[LadyTerror]

Nah you're just being a pussy. It's easy to offend you.

[LadyTerror]

And you're trying to justify the fact that you're a sensitive pussy.

[IvoirianGirl20]

Girls...

[Asker]

LadyTerror it say in the bible not to mix. So not even God want muts like you

[LadyTerror]

But God doesn't exist so...

[roland77]

@Asker I'm atheist, why should I care about the bible?

[Anonymous]

You are what we call a "racist".