What things do women do that turn men so bitter?

Question

There's always at least one comment bad about women in each question and it really makes me wonder 2 things.

1. For guys, what do you want from women that makes you adamant enough to be so unhappy without one and judging all women because you don't have one?

2. For girls, what things have you seen women do, or done yourself, that you think contributes to men becoming so bitter? These can be things that are fair and unfair to you.

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

I don't agree with guys becoming bitter after getting played. I'd say the same thing about girls, too. You should become SMARTER and WISER, but being bitter just makes you a nasty and unpleasant person. It also shows that you're unwilling to deal with your own personal issues. I've had sh*tty experiences with guys and was bitter for a time too, until I allowed myself to learn from my mistakes, become smarter and wiser, and truly be honest with the fact that I wasn't innocent either (i.e. why did I choose that type of guy, why didn't I pay attention to the warning signs and act accordingly, why did I continue to allow this guy in my life after he did x). More guys should do this too then they wouldn't be so bitter.

But anyway, to answer your question, I've seen girls be manipulative and cheat on guys - that kind of behavior can cause men to be bitter. I've known girls who will act as sweet as pie in front of the guys face but play him behind his back with other guys. I've known women who have had a man go out to work so he could take care of them/the family, and let another man run up in the house while he is gone from work.

Some guys, I think most bitter guys, are bitter simply because they can't attract women. They are unattractive, either physically or personality-wise and can't get the women they want, and they become bitter about it. This, I feel less sorry for because there is no good being angry at women because you aren't what we want. Either become the type of guy women want to f***/date or learn to appreciate the type of girls you can pull. I've seen ugly and/or nerdy guys be so bitter towards women but turn right around and reject girls who are in their league for being ugly and/or nerdy. Well if you don't want that type of girl, why do you think it's OK not to improve yourself when you're that type of guy? It's not our fault you aren't cute. That's like a fat nasty girl getting mad at hot guys because they don't want to date her. Well what do you expect?

xzinax2 · Accepted Answer

rejection,making fun of them,seeing them as a stereotype,ignoring them would be the main things.

which is all unfair considering rejection has to happen if you're not into the other person,and while making fun of someone is terrible-guys do it to other guys and it's okay because they don't want guys-unfair,and no one likes to be ignored but not everyone is going to notice you,you're not the eiffel tower.

i do think there is a lack of compassion towards men's feelings but it's really not our fault-we can't just read your feelings,you have to speak up but not whine and actually be productive.

men rarely have any understanding or compassion towards what women feel,and women rarely have compassion or understanding towards what they feel.

ColdFeet · Accepted Answer

You're either a bitter person or your not. Nobody has to do anything bad to send you of on a rant about their entire gender because you're going to perceive everything they do as negative anyway. I think these bitter guys are just pissed because they got the short end of the stick in the dating world and want to point the blame somewhere else rather than accepting their circumstances and getting on with it. They don't even realize that by letting themselves get bitter they're making themselves even less appealing to the opposite sex and wasting energy that could go into improving themselves instead. It's a shame because many of these guys are attractive if they'd only change their outlook on life.

JSmuve · Accepted Answer

I can only speak from my own experiences, but I think bitter guys just want to be loved - to have companionship, and physical and emotional intimacy. And the inability to attain that while seeing other guys easily get what they want drives them to become bitter.

In my opinion, bitter guys aren't really bitter at girls per se. They're more angry at themselves for being too inept to get the girls they want and to feel all the things that they want, but they direct it outwards onto girls. They blame them for their own failures and inability to figure out why they can't get girls.

See, rejection for guys our age and younger is seen as some sort of valuation of our personal worth, and when we believe we don't measure up then we become upset and have to direct it somewhere, which is usually outwards onto other people.

As for me, I'm just like any other guy out there. I want some girl that gives me butterflies that I can be both emotionally and physically intimate with and I want her to feel the same way about me. Perhaps that's asking too much.

Alonso14 · Accepted Answer

All I want from women is companionship, emotional intimacy and physical intimacy, which are all perfectly natural desires. Unfortunately due to modern women no longer valuing men as anything other than fashion accessories or status symbols these things are well beyond the reach of unattractive men.

As for 'judging all women' I merely reflect the disgust women have for me back at them, ultimately if women didn't despise me I would have access to what I want and would no longer need to be bitter.

Anonymous · Answer

Game.

College girls literally can't put up with men who don't have game--who don't do the "aloof, bad boy, disinterested" thing. I thought the whole "you're such a sweet, cute, smart guy, but I'm going to go bang thug now" thing as all garbage coming from exaggerating guys who weigh 300 pounds.

It's not.

Women are truly ruled by their hypergamous instincts, emotions, and most of them simply are not equal to men. They can't be trusted as much, they're not as loyal, they aren't as reasonable, or just decent as men, on the large. Largely (there ARE a few good women out there, I know) women are just children who are old enough to go get drunk at the bar and hook up.

Anonymous · Answer

I don't really think anyone can do something to make a person bitter, it's how that person then chooses to react that makes them bitter. Being bitter is a choice. You can let love harden you, or you can allow your life experiences to make you smarter.

Yes people can be hurtful, both genders are guilty of this. But it's not only women. And ultimately I have seen some people of both genders to some pretty crappy things to other people. But how it turns out for the person depends on how that person lets the crappy thing impact them. You can allow a girl who cheated on you to make you skeptical about the existence of love, or you could just realize she was a crappy girlfriend. It really is that simple. I know it's easier said than done, but in life there are so many things that are out there that hurt us. We need to take those experiences as lessons and not let them define our view of the world.

Anonymous · Answer

My ex hated the nagging and yes I tend to nap sometimes not all the time but sometimes. I nag he should have delt with it if he liked me. If something bothered me and I wanted to talk about it ide push it until he talked to me about it and he hated that. I am not a very easy going person and he hated that because he was and I had trouble letting things go if something bothered me. These are the big reasons why my ex broke up with me he never told me this but based on what happened its a good educated guess.

Anonymous · Answer

Some guys are just bitter because they have been mistreated by women or have just had bad luck with them.

But men have serious problems today that need attention, and they're not getting it because society's focus is exclusively on women's issues. Men's problems are not even acknowledged because it's not politically expedient to do so. Women's issues win elections. The opposite is true of men's. There is a growing sense of resentment toward women as a result.

ColdFeet · Answer

I just read this article earlier and while I take it all with a grain of salt and find it far fetched, only a guy would be able to dig out any nuggets of truth.

kheserthorpe · Answer

Its not just 'what girls do'. Its the dissonance between how girls behave in reality, and how boys are raised -expecting- girls to behave.  THAT creates huge anger.

Prof_Don · Answer

Being rejected without knowing the REAL reason why she rejected you (since most women give a sugar coated BS excuse instead of truth  out of so called "fear")

Anonymous · Answer

women expect us men to be so damn independent, be too mentally strong, have too much going for us in our lives before allowing us to get into a relationship with them

Anonymous · Answer

help all I want is help and equality without the nonsnse of social blahblah standards where we are partner instead of combatig one another

strangerdanger · Answer

When they act crazy lol

CasaNorba · Answer

just being themselves

namismybabe · Answer

beta males do that lol..

Anonymous · Answer

Because they can't get laid. That's really it.

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