We get it. All women are sluts. All women are golddiggers. All women are liars. All women are abusers. All women are cheaters. All women are manipulative, narcisstic cunts. But is it really fair to generalize and blame an entire gender for these traits? It's not like men are innocent themselves. We can be just as promiscuous, narcisstic, abusive, and manipulative as women. Why the double standards? I'm just getting tired of hearing men complain about women whether it'll be in public or on the internet. Why can't you just move on and let it go like women who've been abused and cheated on? Men like this are just as annoying as feminists.
Why are men bitter? Man beats me. My best guess is, men are socialized as traditionalists. But slowly modern society in the 1st world is becoming more equal and women are more educated. Women don’t “need” men to be providers. And while men complain about this gender expectation, in return men would get sexual reciprocity and loyalty from women. This gender dynamic has shifted away from traditional norms. A lot more women are feminists and less likely to do traditional housework. But if you’re a man, what do you do? Men these days are bitter because they don’t know where they fit into this social landscape. Not enough people are being honest - plenty of women are still traditional. Not every woman is modern and you need to find a woman that suits your specific needs. There is no pressure from society to adhere to gender roles, which men don’t quite understand is freeing for THEM.
100% AGREE HOLY SHITTT FINALLY SOMEONE SAID IT. I find whiny crybaby men worse than extreme feminists. Like fuck, anyone can be a shitty person; doesn’t matter what their gender is. Tired of pathetic dudes bitching about women when honestlyy they’re no better. We’re both capable of being trash, because we are all human, get over it
I hope you are a guy lol but preach. The reason they do that is bc they've been hurt by whatever type of person they're slamming and generalizing us. Clearly we're not all the same but bc they ran into some bad apples we are to them. Its sad but also a great psychological case
Very well written actually... That's true that people generalise so early and forget about other possibilities... and that hurts some hight thinking people like you and me (some others as well...) But what is that we can do? I wish if people even though having different choices could at least appreciate each other rather than proving that mine is right and yours is wrong!
Men are fed up The best thing to do when you’re fed up is just leave it all alone If you’re tired of women Ignore them completely , anytime you hear a woman talk put headphones in
Anytime you’re about to read a woman’s Post, don’t... just keep pushing on It really helps
Some people, both men and women, like to make generalization about people, because they have had bad experiences before and now they want to protect themselves. It's safer to assume all other people are shit so they don't have to put themselves out there anymore. And sadly that seems to be happening more and more.
The complaints really come because people of different moral and political views get together when they shouldn't. That list of traits you made about women really applies to ones with liberal morals. Most of those traits could be applied to liberal men too.
For all those men who think this... they need to just start dating other men.
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It's the same reversed. A lot of women feel "all guys are the same" as well. I know not all women are these things, but a lot are, at least one of these things, or at least outward appearances suggest it (you have to take the time to get to know them, which a lot of people don't, they just jump to conclusions). With the exception of "slut", I don't believe any woman is a slut.
People on this website are bitter in general. Don't let GAG serve as an accurate assessment of what's really in the dating world. It's not by any means and I feel as if half of this community doesn't even go outside.
You'll find the men who believe these things also believe other men are to blame for a wide variety of issues. In short, everything is someone else's fault.
I guess they had bad previous experiences. But i agree with you, the double standards and the generalizing thing are nonsense.
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Oh please. There is no double standard here. Men have just started returning the same behavior feminism has dealt us for the last 30 years. Woman's bitterness and disrespect toward men is the reason for the anger men feel toward women. How about a little honesty here, "dude"? (I strongly suspect you are a female posing as a male here at GAG).
Thank you someone finally said it. Humans are shitheads, and asshole behaviour isn’t reserved for one gender. These types of men see the world in a bizarro way.
Jesus don’t have to be like that there are men that have been hurt in their life so bad that they can’t find a spot in their heart to trust anyone else
Some people can be amazing, some can be trashy. Race, gender, sexual orientation, or social status has nothing to do with it. It's what's within that makes them good or bad. In other words, both genders possess the potential for good and bad.
This is generalizing by a ton. Some guys can be like this, but not all. Not all women are those things. Again, some can be, but definitely not all. You can't complain about men gerneralizing while generalizing yourself.
I know you were here last year saying the exact opposite. I do get what your saying tho. But the reality is that there's still a lot of bad mouth people on here still.
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