To give a premise, I used to be this same type of guy between the ages of about 16-21ish years old. When I was 21 years old, I worked at McDonald's at the time, and a co-worker of mine was an 18 year old guy, and he called me out on my sexism, and bitterness. I was used to women calling me out on this, but to hear it from an 18 year old high school male student really did make me realize how much of a fool I was. From that day on, I worked on improving my attitude, and I grew out of that negative, and bitter attitude quickly. Maybe women are still being too picky, and superficial, but there is just as many superficial men, even if they aren't quite as picky. Maybe women are dating guys who treat them like crap because the men manipulated them when they first began dating? I started seeing things a different way. After all, the only reason straight women tend to get laid easier than straight men is because men are usually so desperate to have sex with anything in the first place.
From experience, the reason why I was bitter (and I suppose catty) towards the entire female sex is because I was angry at the fact I couldn't get laid, and I wanted to get laid. I blamed girls because they were being too picky, and rejected me countless times. There were also several times I would see the same girls who turned me down date men who treated them worse than I ever would be, so this would just escalate my bitterness more. I don't think my experience is unique, and they are often the same reasons so many men are bitter about not being able to get laid.
With that being said, none of it justifies their anger. I would say it's not necessarily their fault, but just because it's not their fault, doesn't automatically mean it's the fault of women.
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for the same reason women that are often betrayed or abused by men get bitter towards men. negative experiences build negative prejudice.
Apparently, they feel like women are obligated to be attracted to them.
They want someone to blame besides themselves 🤷♀️
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The often vicious rejections were difficult.
What pissed me off the most was that after she rejected a decent man, who had honourable intentions, the female would throw herself crotch first at a worthless POS because she thought that he was ‘exciting’.
It is not possible to observe this self-destructive female behaviour for years without forming an unflattering opinion of female cognitive process.
I set out looking for someone to love and to make my wife.
The female population crushed that naive fantasy of me.
It is difficult to express how much pain is inside of me.
Last year I saw a female experience the pimp hand of her ‘exciting’ bad boy.
I could have intervened. I could have sent him to the ER, or the morgue, with one strike. Serious students of karate can do that.
I kept on walking.
Why should I care? She picked him. Let her experience what comes of her choices.
Women in my age range come sniffing around often, especially when I do security at weddings, or black-tie events.
When the were 20 they would have told me to FOAD. Why should I be interested now?
Why should I be their golden parachute, to escape the consequences of their self-destructive choices?
I go home, snuggle with my cats and want to die.I think it could be due to insecurities. Simply because insecure people tend to tear others down in order to keep themselves from recognizing and dealing with their own issues. Making someone else the issue seems to be a go to way to cover up insecurities in general.
Insecurities can make people do screwed up shit in general. Trying to ignore them and cover them up can very much cause a person to never find their true self. Living without knowing and being your true self isn't a life worth living. So you end up making a bad life worse by not facing your insecurities and fixing them.I think they lack energy and focus in getting a woman. There are many women out there looking for a good guy, be one and find her. This will take effort so get off your ass and invest in yourself and get out there. There are short ugly poor guys that are shy and still getting a girlfriend... but they actually try hard or at least do something positive.
Get in shape or better shape, buy some good clothes, have a direction in life and better yourself by honing in on a good job opportunity or start your own company, even lawn service. Have some hobbies, even just hiking, river rafting, something other than video games. Do something outside. Stop jerking off, it drains you of sexual energy. Try going to a bar. Take dance lessons 🤢, but do something to better yourself. Get your ass in gear and get some. Make it a goal, a mission. Earn that pussy. Once you have it, you got it... just keep at it. In short, be a man.Not going to address the main part of the question because so many other people have correctly responded.
"They should be mad at themselves not women. Not our fault you aren't appealing to us."
You seem big on assigning blame, not unlike the very people you're asking about. Then again, the internet is big on assigning blame.
I would say in most cases, and we're talking about 90% or more, NO ONE is to blame when someone is rejected. I've never blamed a woman for rejecting me, and I've never blamed a woman when I rejected her. Nor have I blamed myself. It simply is a case that someone doesn't meet the other person's desires, and that's nobody's fault.Wouldn't really call myself catty. But then again i will got 10 cats if i don't get laid in the next 20 years lmao.
I think it's simply blocking or avoiding to meet a guy based on preassuptions. They don't have a job currently so they are a low life, they play video games so they sit on the couch all day. All I'm saying is stop coming to harsh conclusions and at least text a guy to see what he's really like
It is probobly not just not getting laid that makes some guys bitter I haven't gotten laid and I don't hate women. Maybe they got sucked into some incel website/cult and think all women are whores even though average number of sexual partners have been going down or that men are screwed by divorce even though divorce rates have been going down rapidly from 50% to 39%
Most guys are softies that depend on the opposite sex to feel like they have a reason to live
I'm on the other side of the spectrum
All I care about in my life are my own selfish needs & desires & suprisingly many catty females have taken notice in me & tried to get my attention
Woman can't be trusted... people in general but you get my pointEasy for you to say. You're a woman. You don't know what it's like to have to try and appease you, to get you to even notice us. It's very easy for the privileged to blame those who have to do all the work, ie men.
Because they feel it is your "duty" to have sex with them. You are supposed to take one for the team and date an incel. The funny thing is, if you did they would immediately turn into a jerk and start bragging about how awesome they are with women.
They have probably gotten their hopes up with girls in the past, only to have been let down. Nobody likes rejection so rather than moving on and accepting defeat or even trying to improve themselves they blame it on all women.
The question is: "should men get laid without marriage?" My opinion is: "i don't think so..." unless he wants to pay a hoe for her services...
I never looked at women as sex dolls, cause anyone can get sex in a way or another but yo get real love ia something veey hard alao to earn the trust of someone!legalize prostitution and the problem goes away. Everyone gets laid and nothing changes. We're already paying for the shit either way. At least you dont have to BS to get to the only part you care about.
Why do you care? I do get laid and still you ladies are a PITA more than often... ( Fucking be careful when you push that fucking vibe in my butthole FFS !!!)
Same can be asked of feminist towards men... Their personal traumas has more to do with them than the other gender.
Naw, those are just incels. Me I never had a chance with women and im not mad about it, im just kinda sad tbh
Same goes for women, to be fair 😂 Turning a woman down that wants to have sex with you can turn really dark, lol
i think a lot of women have very high standerds when it comes to men i can care less what a girl looks like but a lot of girls want the guy that has a flat tummy and huge member i dont get why looks even mater i blame hollywood and social media
Ego... men can't stand to be turned down... some take it personal and don't understand that women have preferences unlike some men who just want a hole that's wet...
wtf i got this dad bod because you bitches said it was hot. now i'm called tubby and can't work it off because i can't get laid
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