Search Results: how to know if he just wants a hook up

Help! What do I do about this?

I've been with my boyfriend for a few weeks and weve had a great time, and I REALLY like him. He recently told me he's actually bisexual and has hooked up with guys also. He said he can't have an emotional connection with...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Flirting

Is it appropriate to ask your crush if she wants to hook up?

I like her a lot but don’t know if too forward

Anonymous

(25-29)

Dating

Why I he acting like this with me PLEASE HELP 😞😞😞?

He says He got attached to me and that he stoped talking to other girls because of me and that He’s afraid to lose me and that I’m really special to him and that he would marry me one day even though we aren’t official...

Ariana1997

Xper 2 Age: 28

Guy's Behavior

Why does my ex get mad about hooking up if he initiates it?

Okay so long story short me and my ex broke up (it was his decision) and he is currently in a new relationship. I’m still single but still in love with him. Okay so fast forward we starting talking again 9 months after...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Relationships

Why does he keep changing what he says PLEASE HELP 😞😞😞?

Selena21

Xper 4 Age: 28

Guy's Behavior

What will a man pass up sex for?

All he does is text me because he wants to f**k me. He knows I am working so I tell him he can when we have time. I give him a day and follow through. We are not boyfriend and girlfriend. Just F**k buddies. He always...

Anonymous

(45 Plus)

Guy's Behavior

What does it mean when a guy "doesn't want to just hook up" with you?

I went home after the bars with one of my guy friends. We've made out a few times, and I went to his frat formal with him. We've never had sex though. This time after the bars, things started getting hot and heavy. But he...

Anonymous

(18-24)

Guy's Behavior

Did he ghost me?

Ok, so I have known this guy for about a year now. We first started dating, but went separate ways when we both wanted different things; he did not want anything serious. Then he contacted me again after some months and...

Anonymous

(18-24)

Dating

Pretend I'm sending this too you to say I'm not interested in dating anymore, how does it come across?

Ok. I'm just gonna leave this here. I'm done and I know it's what you want too, I'm glad you got what you wanted from me. Honest, swear to God. I haven't hooked up with a guy since my last relationship which was 5 years...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Guy's Behavior

Why is he all of a sudden busy? did he lose interest?

Was dating this guy for 7 months. He was constantly available. We hooked up and everything and i still would hear from him. I was more likely the one to be unavailable most of the time. The communication was on and off....

Anonymous

(25-29)

Dating

Im single at 23.. is something wrong with me? Why am I getting bad luck trying to date?

Guys will tell me im hot, cute, pretty, beautiful etc, i will try to get to know guys and ask them about their interests and where they are in life also, we will exchange numbers or social media then i end up right away...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Guy's Behavior

Do you think a man's jealous necessarily means he likes a girl?

I am crazy about a guy named Jake. We hook up but Jake told me he does not want a girlfriend. Although I know Jake is attracted to me- he often acts disinterested and aloof towards me. The other night at the bar, Jake...

Elise888888

Xper 4 Age: 43

Guy's Behavior

Do you think his jealous behavior means he likes me?

I am crazy about a guy named Jake. We hook up but Jake said he does not want a girlfriend. Although I know Jake is attracted to me- he often acts disinterested and aloof towards me. The other night at the bar, a hot guy...

Sarah6h8888666

Xper 1 Age: 44

Break Up & Divorce

How do I effectively move on and forget him?

After two years I have finally decided it’s time to move on. I can’t do it anymore. We have both disrespected each other in the past but his disrespect is so consistent and blatant now. We’ve been broken up for over a...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Dating

Friends with benefits with my bestfriend?

Couple weeks back me and my best friend spend the night together ( nothing sexual happened we were just kissing, talking and cuddling) and we kissed a few times after that and somehow agreed for it to be normal between...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Dating

Why is he keeping me a secret?

I have been seeing this guy now close to 3 months and we live about 1 1/2 hrs away from eachother but he has been making the effort to come see me each week. We talk everyday sometimes all day even as we work. He is in...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Guy's Behavior

Why does he agree to hook up but not text back?

So I’ve been seeing a guy who I’ve hooked up with hasn’t been talking to me much lately. We went days without talking just recently and we spoke again this day Friday. I asked to meet up so we can hook up Saturday and he...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Guy's Behavior

Weird situation my younger sister was in. Can anyone give insight on this man’s behavior?

My sister goes to a gym. There’s a coach who clearly has some level of attraction to her based on the fact that he is always hanging around her and seems to know and be very in tuned with her gym schedule. Instead of...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Relationships

Am I to blame for how he treats me now and can it be fixed?

Brief summary of our past - Two years ago, he was the one interested, I was not. A friend convinced me to go out with him. I almost cancelled when he told me we would have to uber because his car was in the shop (turned...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Break Up & Divorce

Why does my ex keep contacting me even though he insists we’re over?

My ex and I broke up just over a month ago. He broke up with me mid-fight and rather impulsively. We’ve had our issues and have both hurt each other equally (although no cheating was involved). His biggest hurt right...

Anonymous

(30-35)