Okay so long story short me and my ex broke up (it was his decision) and he is currently in a new relationship. I’m still single but still in love with him. Okay so fast forward we starting talking again 9 months after the breakup and couldn’t resist hooking up. And before you judge me he was always the one to start off the sexual talks, not me but I just go along with it because I have missed him. However, I noticed every time we hook up he get mad and blames me for us hooking up, when he is always the one rubbing on my body touching me etc first. Why does he get mad if he’s always talking about kissing me and touching me etc. he said he kind of felt guilty, and I asked if it’s about his girlfriend and he said no. I’ve asked to be just friends and cut the sexual stuff off but he doesn’t want that. But he gets mad when we get too intimate like cuddling etc. I’m confused does he want to hook up or not. He talks about sex with me a lot over the phone but in person he’s different or flips it around to make it look like it’s me who starting off those convo or initiates the sex. To be honest he’s not the best in bed so why would he accuse me of using him for sex when in reality he only came back for sex. It’s hard to tell if he’s in love with his new girl or if he still has feeling for me. I know we can’t be together so I don’t take the hookups seriously, so I’m wondering why he gets mad about something he wants to do with me if he doesn’t feel guilty about his girlfriend?
Why does my ex get mad about hooking up if he initiates it?
