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Met a girl on a flight home and felt a deep, instant connection (verbal and nonverbal). Began talking over a few days. Confirmed there was a strong mutual interest. However, she was leaving in two days on a trip out of the country and upon returning would immediately start her senior year of college up in the Bay Area. I am five years out of college and working near LA. She wants to stay in touch, but is afraid of dating long-distance and getting too far in when we are geographically distant and busy with school/work.

Since I don’t want to pass up the connection we had, what is the best way to stay in touch? Contact her every month or so to keep a friendly relationship alive? Try to meet up in the Bay Area (I drive/fly there a few times a year) or when she is on break at home near LA? Drop communication entirely and accept that if it’s meant to be, our paths would cross in the future?

Most importantly, I want both of us to be able to live our lives and pursue our personal goals without making an unreasonable sacrifice to get to know each other better. I would prefer to develop a relationship in-person. We both acknowledge the possibility that we may not even live in close proximity once she graduates in 9 months. Also, I am currently dating other people in close proximity, but have not felt the same spark with anyone else.

my apology -
I want to apologise for upsetting you! I was wrong trying to pressure you when you’re not ready instead of taking it slow and casual like you wanted, it was immature of me and it won’t happen ever again! I understand the timing isn’t right for you to commit until your nursing degree is done and of course work is a priority!! I understand I probably did the whole thing every other guy did, but you're so cute and nerdy like me it's hard not to lol! I have had a great time hanging out with you and it's been so much fun. Have a lovely time at Yarmouth! I bet you can’t wait, what you planning to do there, I’m guessing at least a few 2p machines? X

this was her message she has feelings for me and we have kissed a few times -

I'm sorry but I don't see this working atm and I can see your message being a recurring thing which I Don't tolerate very well I thought it to be childish. Working is something i that i need to do and is a priority at the end of the day. To get to my house from Greenwich will take at least 1 hour and half, driving would make things easier and tbh I don't want a relationship that only entails seeing someone once a month. That's not something I want being totally honest. So im sorry but I can't take this any further definitely not this moment in time. This is the whole reason I've been single for two and a half years because things are difficult and other people don't understand that x