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I was on a date tonight. Okay.. technically it was a friendship date. We agreed to meet up and hang out at a coffee shop. At the coffee shop we sat next to each other on a long bench in the center of the area. We connected on a pretty deep level. We wound up chatting for 2 hours.

We were chatting and a preppy, young college couple sat across from us at the bench. Because we were seated at the same bench, I'm pretty sure the entire table could hear our conversation, including this couple.

The guy just continued doing work on his computer with his headphones on. The girl seemed to be doing work on her computer but she kept looking at us while we were talking. I am convinced that she was pretending to have headphones on and was just eavesdropping on on conversation across the bench. We were in close proximity because we at opposite end of the long part of the table rather than the ends.

When we started getting into deeper conversation, all of a sudden the girl across from us stretched out her arms and hugged her boyfriend sitting next to her. She was kind of completely leaning over him on the bench in a kind of possessive or territorial way. We continued our conversation and about an hour later, the eavesdropping girl took her headphones off while we were talking. It was clear she was once again listening even more intently while pretending to work. Suddenly college girl was stretching out her arms again. This time kind of loudly moaning and reaching across the table to hug her boyfriend. Her boyfriend was ignoring her most of the time and just typing. Then she kissed him on the cheek.

What was up with that this eavesdropping girl hanging over her boyfriend in front of us like that? Do girls sometimes get jealous eavesdropping on other dates? I am just wondering if hot college girl thought I was attractive or just insecure about her boyfriend not giving her attention.

Broke up a couple months ago (second break up) over the same issue of her doubting and not knowing her future. She stated she loved me which made it hard, but she didn't see us staying the best for forever (didn't mesh all the time and she didn't think love should take work). She mentioned that she had stuff of mine and I had stuff hers. I tried within the first week to exchange, but it didn't work for her. 4 weeks later she reaches out to exchange and I gave her a day and time but never texted or showed up at my house. She texts one more time to see if I was home, which I wasn't, and stated she would try again later. I decided to just mailed her things back. When she got the package, she said she would drop off my things when she was out my way (stopping by her parents). It has been almost three weeks since I mailed her things back and still nothing... comments would be appreciated.

The relationship was never rocky and we did a lot together. her family and friends liked me, but she would always pull away when things seemed to be moving to the next level of commitment. I did truly love her, but at this point just want my stuff back and move on...