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This is our anniversary weekend. The night we are actually celebrating is tomorrow. So technically we don’t have any specific plans tonight. However, this morning, we were discussing what to do after work. To be fair, I did dress up and put on make up thinking we would be going somewhere.

One of his buddy is in town for the weekend. Since we were celebrating our anniversary tomorrow, his friend said maybe to hangout on Friday. He heard nothing from his friend for days so no confirmation. Then in the late after today, his friend confirmed he can hang out tonight.

While I asked him if he thought of what we’re doing after work…he then told me he’s going out with his buddy. However, he said he was pretty annoyed at his friend for being last minute. It gave me no chance to plan something with my own friends. If it bothers me, he said he can just do something with me tonight. He feels bad for leaving me at home with nothing to do last minute. Also, none of my friends are available. At the same time, his friends are always busy so they barely meet up. This one particular friend actually moved to a different state so they barely see. I would feel bad for not letting him go.

Also, my boyfriend and I are currently going through a rough patch. Last month, his actions and words disappointed me (not cheating) a whole lot and made heart sank. Right now, he’s trying to fix things and making things up.

Should I let him go?

In the morning, we were thinking of what to do after work today (Friday). We do have plans tomorrow (Saturday) and it is basically our anniversary weekend. We live together.

Last minute, he told me his buddy is in town, and he was invited to a bar with another dude. He also said his friend did mention to hangout on Friday, but he never confirmed if it was happening. Then literally 30 minutes ago, his friend confirmed to hang out tonight.

My boyfriend told me that he won’t be mad if I’m not okay with it or it bothers me. He’s fine to just do something with me, or even staying home. He was annoyed by his friend for being last minute. I think my boyfriend does want to go, but he feels guilty for last minute leaving me at home with nothing to do. All my friends are busy and got plans as well.

His buddy is rarely in town. I feel bad if he doesn’t go, but it does bother me that he left me alone at home on a Friday night last minute.

What should I do?