What's worse; forgetting your lover's birthday or your anniversary with them?

[Aysen]

I did not mean to forget that!

My girlfriend wanted me to post this to see what the community would say! I'm curious with the results of this as well if you had to choose one or the other 😂

Lover's birthday!

Your anniversary with them!

[DonkeyDan]

Oh shit, that's toying with the devil right there, either way you're going to get your testicles fried 😂
I think birthday is probably worse because it's about that specific person and not the couple so they'd probably take it more personally. By the basic rule is DON'T frinkin forget if you value your balls, you got a phone with a calendar in it 🤣🤣🤣

[MrOracle]

I think more women would be upset if I forgot the anniversary than her birthday - though forgetting either one is not going to go over very well. Of course, I'm assuming a serious long-term relationship here. If it's a short-term or more casual thing, then birthday is going to be more important to remember.

[DizzyDesii]

Damn probably anniversary cause thats when we got together! Like how tf dont you remember the day/month/hour/year 🤣 Bt im bad with bdays lmao. My bday is the only one i ever remember

[Flower7]

Birthday is worse. Anniversaries aren’t a very important thing. Some people don’t even keep track of the first time they went on a date with someone or became official.

[FriendlyCanadianGuy]

I personally don't care for either.
For a lady, both have the same negative outcome; prepare for her friends and family to hate you..

If I had to choose I'd say a ladies birthday is worse to forget...
An anniversary is about both of you... a birthday is all about her...

[Lliam]

If you're married, the anniversary is most important. If you're not married, I don't know what anniversary you would celebrate. That would be hokey.
In both cases, acknowledging a birthday is nice.

[HighValue]

Anniversary in my opinion. You weren't there when they were born so it isn't special to you, but you were there when you first got together with them so remembering the anniversary is part of remembering that the relationship is special.

[sparkyx_]

Either , people forget all the time , those things are remembered by women mostly , ahhh repetition is boring anyway feels like a duty , it’s nicer if it’s remembered spontaneously (like missing someone) .. your kid birthday might be an absolute, beyond that we just human nothing more

[Zafrica]

I'm terrible with remembering dates of any kind and have forgotten my wife's birthday before. Same goes for our anniversary, probably.

My wife is very cool though and has no issues with me forgetting - she knows how I am.

[AviatorTom]

Forgetting either one is bad. Your anniversary is about the two of you, so forgetting it says something about your relationship. That's why I chose anniversary.

[Andres77]

Somebody got in trouble...😉.
The anniversary, you could always say that every day seems like it's a celebration and you just forgot which day was the right one.
Her birthday, yeah, detention for that one, buddy.

[Loveydove]

Anniversary can be forgivable but a birthday? The day you were brought into the world to grace their life. You cannot forget.

[dustybiker]

Anniversary should have far more meaning. It’s private and personal to you both. Birthdays are really best for children.

[qwert1234]

I'd go with birthday but forgetting any one of them is equally bad, worse if you forgot both..

You need to prepare emergency gifts and letters.. maybe a good apology as well.

[spartan55]

Forgetting her birthday is WAY worse. There are no 'anniversaries' until you get married. That's stupid.

[lilaccc]

i'm fine with both, tho it disappoints me. (even i don't mind if my friends or parents forget my birthday, unless my men. the feelings will be different bcs tbh he should be the one who know me best)

[wearehere2002]

Well forgetting a birthday can happen all the time if your in a relationship or not considering everybody has one but an anniversary is a special day that is important to just the two of you which is why its worse to forget it.

[chriscdi]

They both suck but I think anniversary is worse considering it's when the relationship started and If you are gonna remember one let it be the anniversary cause y'all were supposedly both there

[zaharuh]

I'm surprised to see people care about their birthdays so much lol

[Babybebe15]

Both can be hurtful, but forgetting your loved ones birthday seems worse.

[Vikkrram]

It's like same Doing any crime , at last you will land in jail 😅

[TheBigGuy9]

I’d say anniversary. Birthday is birthday. Friends and family know and celebrate birthdays. Forgetting that special day you and your s/o tied the knot is a royal slap in the face.

[t-8900]

I dont think either of us know what day we started talking tbh XD

Bday i suppose

[Minahh]

I'd say birthday is worse. If my boyfriend forgot about our anniversary because he got really busy or something I'd be like okay but my birthday is unacceptable.