Oh shit, that's toying with the devil right there, either way you're going to get your testicles fried 😂
I think birthday is probably worse because it's about that specific person and not the couple so they'd probably take it more personally. By the basic rule is DON'T frinkin forget if you value your balls, you got a phone with a calendar in it 🤣🤣🤣00 Reply
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3.4K opinions shared on Relationships topic. I think more women would be upset if I forgot the anniversary than her birthday - though forgetting either one is not going to go over very well. Of course, I'm assuming a serious long-term relationship here. If it's a short-term or more casual thing, then birthday is going to be more important to remember.
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Damn probably anniversary cause thats when we got together! Like how tf dont you remember the day/month/hour/year 🤣 Bt im bad with bdays lmao. My bday is the only one i ever remember
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1K opinions shared on Relationships topic. Birthday is worse. Anniversaries aren’t a very important thing. Some people don’t even keep track of the first time they went on a date with someone or became official.
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I personally don't care for either.
For a lady, both have the same negative outcome; prepare for her friends and family to hate you..
If I had to choose I'd say a ladies birthday is worse to forget...
An anniversary is about both of you... a birthday is all about her...00 Reply 1.7K opinions shared on Relationships topic. If you're married, the anniversary is most important. If you're not married, I don't know what anniversary you would celebrate. That would be hokey.
In both cases, acknowledging a birthday is nice.00 Reply832 opinions shared on Relationships topic. Anniversary in my opinion. You weren't there when they were born so it isn't special to you, but you were there when you first got together with them so remembering the anniversary is part of remembering that the relationship is special.
00 ReplyEither , people forget all the time , those things are remembered by women mostly , ahhh repetition is boring anyway feels like a duty , it’s nicer if it’s remembered spontaneously (like missing someone) .. your kid birthday might be an absolute, beyond that we just human nothing more
00 ReplyI'm terrible with remembering dates of any kind and have forgotten my wife's birthday before. Same goes for our anniversary, probably.
My wife is very cool though and has no issues with me forgetting - she knows how I am.00 Reply- +1 y
Forgetting either one is bad. Your anniversary is about the two of you, so forgetting it says something about your relationship. That's why I chose anniversary.
00 Reply 1.3K opinions shared on Relationships topic. Somebody got in trouble...😉.
The anniversary, you could always say that every day seems like it's a celebration and you just forgot which day was the right one.
Her birthday, yeah, detention for that one, buddy.00 ReplyAnniversary can be forgivable but a birthday? The day you were brought into the world to grace their life. You cannot forget.
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Anniversary should have far more meaning. It’s private and personal to you both. Birthdays are really best for children.
00 Reply 426 opinions shared on Relationships topic. I'd go with birthday but forgetting any one of them is equally bad, worse if you forgot both..
You need to prepare emergency gifts and letters.. maybe a good apology as well.00 Reply3.4K opinions shared on Relationships topic. Forgetting her birthday is WAY worse. There are no 'anniversaries' until you get married. That's stupid.
00 Replyi'm fine with both, tho it disappoints me. (even i don't mind if my friends or parents forget my birthday, unless my men. the feelings will be different bcs tbh he should be the one who know me best)
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Well forgetting a birthday can happen all the time if your in a relationship or not considering everybody has one but an anniversary is a special day that is important to just the two of you which is why its worse to forget it.
00 Reply They both suck but I think anniversary is worse considering it's when the relationship started and If you are gonna remember one let it be the anniversary cause y'all were supposedly both there
00 ReplyI'm surprised to see people care about their birthdays so much lol
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Both can be hurtful, but forgetting your loved ones birthday seems worse.
00 Reply It's like same Doing any crime , at last you will land in jail 😅
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I’d say anniversary. Birthday is birthday. Friends and family know and celebrate birthdays. Forgetting that special day you and your s/o tied the knot is a royal slap in the face.
00 Reply I dont think either of us know what day we started talking tbh XD
Bday i suppose00 Reply478 opinions shared on Relationships topic. I'd say birthday is worse. If my boyfriend forgot about our anniversary because he got really busy or something I'd be like okay but my birthday is unacceptable.
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I can more about mine and her birthday then the aniversary.
I will be more happy to celebrate the day my love had show up in the world so she can meet me and love each other00 Reply Can't a brother just love a sister unrelentlessly without marking the calendar☺️
00 ReplyI don't celebrate my birthday, but I've known friend's girlfriends were upset moreso on their birthday than their anniversary.
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My ex forgot my birthday. I never said anything about it. It came out several days later.
Forbid it if I ever forgot something like her birthday as she would have gone off.00 Reply - +1 y
Forgetting the birthday is way worse, and there's a good chance you'll get dumped 😂😂😂
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Birthday although I'm kinda screwed coz they're the same day.
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Both are equally bad, but in my opinion I would say forgetting the birthday is very hurtful, anniversary I can careless because me and my boyfriend always argue about our anniversary date lol
00 Reply 10.8K opinions shared on Relationships topic. Forgetting the birthday it’s total disrespect and totally unacceptable
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My crush did that to me even though his was soon before mine and i said happy belated when i saw him after... But he couldnt even say happy birthday at all even when he was reminded that my birthday just happened. He just asked something like what did i do? He was either being purposefully spiteful or genuinely forgot bcause he really doesn't give a f about me despite acting like he did.
I don't know I never understood the importance of birthdays and anniversaries and stuff
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Both. That’s why I make sure to remember both and celebrate it together.
00 Reply 321 opinions shared on Relationships topic. Birthday. Anniversary not that important, a lot of people forget
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I would say anniversary because that's a shared thing and is romantic.
00 Reply 2.8K opinions shared on Relationships topic. My girlfriend and I forgot our 3 year 4 month anniversary
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@Aysen Forgetting anniversary with their lover is 500 times worse than forgetting a birthday.
00 Reply My Birthday is hard to forget I get one every 4 years.
00 Reply5.8K opinions shared on Relationships topic. THey are both mortal sins.
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My birthday id be very upset
10 Reply 1.7K opinions shared on Relationships topic. Definitely forgetting a birthday is worse.
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Forgetting their name is worse.
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Both but anniversary would make me feel sadder
00 Reply 849 opinions shared on Relationships topic. Both and if you can't find a very good reason!!!
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It’s hard to say since they’re both pretty bad.
00 Reply 805 opinions shared on Relationships topic. Couldn't care less about anniversaty.
00 Reply1.5K opinions shared on Relationships topic. Birthday. But you are screwed either way.
00 ReplyForgetting their name
00 Reply2.5K opinions shared on Relationships topic. Well shoot put in calendar on phone
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BOTH. It hurts...
00 Reply - Anonymous(30-35)+1 y
Definitely birthday
00 Reply 3.5K opinions shared on Relationships topic. equally bad.
00 Reply- Anonymous(25-29)+1 y
both
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