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I'm a straight single man but I don't really ever check girls out, flirt with them, or ask them out. I just always avoided love for most of my life. (21) however my first relationship happened at 18 and ended 2.5 years later. I didn't really want to ask her out (not because I didn't like her or want her but because as I was saying, I just don't like to be the one to approach women) I'm still single 6 months later while she dated someone less than 2 months after dumping me (family says she probably had this guy behind my back for awhile but I have no proof for that I give her the benefit of the doubt) I just don't know why but whenever I even consider it, I freeze up and quickly have to think of something else instead of continuing. My family thinks I'm weird and the other night my brother's friends and I were downstairs (its an apartment where they live downstairs and we live upstairs) one girl says you don't if I use the bathroom while you are in here and before I could respond the other friend said he's gay so it's fine. I replied with "No, I'm not gay. I'm straight" They were surprised for some reason. I don't dress like it or talk about men. I have only talked about females and how I want a girlfriend. So I had to explain to them my situation. Its just been on my mind nonstop that people think I'm gay or weird because I don't flirt or hit on girls and I don't make moves to ask them out and that im good friends with tons of girls but won't date them. I just don't like being rejected and I feel like it could and most likely will end with that result.(I've been working on building my self esteem up higher and confidence but rejection hurts the self esteem in a way that's hard to really avoid. You can't quite avoid being told "If you were the last man on earth, I'd be a lesbian" or "You're not my type" the last one sounds nice but when you hear it from 80% of the attempts you've tried in the past it makes you wonder if you are anyone's type at all)

I’ve on a dating site. I send messages and I see that the girl has checked out my profile but absolutely nothing happens!!!

My profile is verified. In real life I see many girls look at me.

Like at least I’m in shape, but I get ugly out of shape girls liking me and so many old women checking out my profile. Wtf?

Honestly everything about being a girl is better than being a man. The female version of me would have so many matches and attention even if I was only average. I hate liking and sending messages to many girls just to validate them, look at my profile and just feel embarrassed! Are you girls just all deep down rude? Like I’ll send a normal/non creepy message/compliment and nothing.

I’ve paid money to be able to do more things. But nothing works.

Unless someone can convince me otherwise on #1...

1.) I don't donate to such causes as AIDS, cancer and malaria research. Who are we to stop Mother Nature from keeping our populations in check? I'd rather donate to help people living in poverty, to help end human trafficking, and to help protect endangered species of animals and their ecosystems. I don't have anything against people donating to cure malaria - I don't claim to have all the answers... But don't say that I don't like to donate to good causes.

2.) Between saving the lives of my own family (including my 4-year-old nephew's) and being able to end puppy and rodent mills, I'd choose the latter. Why would I NOT want to put an end to something that causes immeasurable and prolonged suffering to ANY lifeforms - something that's worse than killing them? My family wouldn't feel a thing. Plus, we all rot in the ground anyway, right? And they're Christian... So if you're Christian too, they go to Heaven, right?

3.) Murderers, child molesters, rapists in general, drug dealers... I think humanity in general is the scum of the earth, so I'm not really one to judge people for any *specific* offense (s). If men who hit their girlfriends/wives are trash, women who hit their boyfriends/husbands are trash. If you believe molesters in prison should be raped every day that they're incarcerated, you're no better: if they're not serving a life sentence, that achieves nothing but making them even MORE f*cked up by the time they're released BACK into the general public - and committing the act of rape, no matter who it's against, desensitizes other inmates to it and makes THEM more violent as well... And all that just for your desire for petty revenge to be fulfilled?