Search Results: doing something special for a girl

He says he is joking, but is he? Should I be suspicious?

My boyfriend keeps joking about me having "another boyfriend." We were laying in bed the other night, and he was playing in my hair. He just randomly said "So, did you talk to your other boyfriend today?" I looked at him...

scorpio_tlilly

Xper 5 Age: 32

Shopping & Gifts

Surprising a girl with flowers?

Took her on a few dates. we've kissed, made out, snuggled. There was obviously some mutual attraction. She said she wasn't looking for a relationship at the moment. I was hurt stopped talking to her. Still saw her at work...

brandon8899

Xper 5 Age: 35

Society & Politics

LADIES: You are a cashier and the guy you like buys this ITEM: your reaction?

These 500 dollar GAG sweepstakes pop ups are killing me Okay, anyways...pretend you are a cashier (unless you really are a cashier, then just visualize yourself cashiering...unless, you are cashiering right now, then...

Anonymous

(36-45)

These 500 dollar GAG sweepstakes pop ups are killing me Okay, anyways...pretend you are a cashier (unless you really are a cashier, then just visualize yourself cashiering...unless,

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Dating

Was I just a rebound or maybe something a little more special to her?

saw this girl for a month. She kissed me, made out with me, snuggled with me, held my hand, and spent time alone with me at my apartment. I took her out to dinner a few times and I also took her to a concert-- I paid of...

brandon8899

Xper 5 Age: 35

Flirting

Is vulnerability a turn on for girls?

So last week me and my girlfriend were making out at her place and before we got to the "take it to the bedroom" part she said that she wanted me to do something but was afraid to ask. Being that we're still a few weeks...

Anonymous

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Break Up & Divorce

Do I just move on and forget about her?

I dated a girl who I had been friends with for six months. She is an amazing person and I was/am in love with her. I really thought it was something special. We were close, open and had a lot of good times. We got into...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Relationships

He wanted to take a break again, will he come back?

My ex and I have been on and off for a year and a half now. We dated for 8 months, and toward the end began fighting a lot over trust issues (all his doing). I was wrong for checking up on him, but my gut told me...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Relationships

I'm not happy with my relationship...

I'm somewhat content. Only because I think that the man should take out the girl, pay, and leave her at home, you now plain old school. My boyfriend is like that in his way of thinking too but not doing, because his poor....

Anonymous

(36-45)

Family & Friends

The Pros and Cons to Cross-Gender Friendship between single men and women.

I've been doing a lot of searching and thinking about what it takes to make a truly male-female friendship work, and it's honestly hard to find any advice out there at all. So I realized that I would have to come up with...

Arlen21

Xper 5 Age: 36

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Valentine's Day

My humor is apparently harsh and hurtful. I feel bad.

Cuddle_Muffin

Yoda Age: 95

*****IF you didn't read all this sh*t answer these questions instead: Do you take your relationships very personal? If someone said they predict you and your other half breaking

*****IF you didn't read all this sh*t answer these questions instead: Do you take your relationships very personal? If someone said they predict you and your other half breaking up...would you be furious?*****

Well, this guy I always ask questions about..who is a friend I am barely handling with care according to how much he hates me now, is made at me for pointing out a slight fault...just from my opinion...

Well what happened was...I was hanging out with a bunch of friends today (including him), and we started talking about Valentine's day...and what everyone did with their boyfriends and girlfriends..of course I am single as always..and yesterday I was stuck home due to the fact I was sick with a 101 fever. Anyways, we got far into the convo, and he mentioned he had a girlfriend..I mean I just literally found out so I of course asked him why don't I know of this when I see him everyday..and tell him about of personal crap..anyway he said he likes his relationships closed...and he has been with her for 3 weeks...well I was happy for him..until he told me that he didn't/wasn't doing anything "special" for her on Valentine's day...So, I got into an argument with him..me and a couple of my friends told him to stfu and gtfowtbs..because even if it is only 3 weeks and she lives far from him..he should at least try to make a date or something...it is a day created for some type of appreciation for the ones he likes/loves...he clearly told me that his girlfriend wasn't needy and didn't care for anything...and he said if she didn't want anything he wasn't gonna do what she didn't want. Which is fine, but he didn't step out of the "usual" ..he treats her like a pen pal...I told him to at least make a date with her since he hasn't seen his so called girlfriend in 2 weeks. He told me he will do it when he feels like it..it is fine...I jokingly told him..."you better put in effort before she ups and dumps your far away ass for another dude..., I give it one or 2 more weeks." He turned red and got so mad ...didn't say anything to me for the rest of the day...

Honestly, I shouldn't care about his gf..but I wanted to encourage for effort..I know I don't know this girl and I don't know how she acts..but I know every girl that age who goes out with a guy wants a little bit of appreciation..especially from the guy she calls her boyfriend..he just plan treats her so "blah"...he said he calls her everyday..so what? he said it is only 3 weeks into a relationship..but the met only once since then..he lives away from her..but it is only like a 30 minute drive..I told him if this continues..they will breakup..there is really nothing going on..it is like a bother and sister thing..I have seen this happen too many times before.

(sorry I wrote so much, I'm mad he is offended..I need him in my life...without his help I will not succeed. He is like a brother in a way to me...)

*****IF you didn't read all this sh*t answer these questions instead: Do you take your relationships very personal? If someone said they predict you and your other half breaking up...would you be furious?*****

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Relationships

He is moving abroad, is there any way to make it work?

Hi there, I am a 30 year old girl from Ireland. I have recently started dating a guy (since December). I know it is early days but we are getting on so well. I have previously been in an 8 year relationship that ended...

summerbreeze2012

Xper 5 Age: 45

Flirting

What should my friend do? This guy is always on her mind.

That sad part is that I am aware of what he is doing to me but well I have this problem with a coworker of mine that I ended up really liking his name is Bryan… We have known each other since October 2010 and we first...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Flirting

Is she hinting for me to ask her out?

Ok so I am awful about picking up on the subtle signs that women put out. I always have been, and part of it might be because I am always waiting for clear validation from a woman before I make a move, so I miss the...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Guy's Behavior

Guys, how do you go about "wowing" a girl?

I'm curious as to what the difference is between a guy treating a girl with respect, always picking up the tab or "providing" whenever the situation calls for it, making sure she is comfortable or getting only the best...

sailorgurl1109

Xper 5 Age: 37

Flirting

Unable to find someone. What am I doing wrong?

I couldn't buy a relationship.. I talk to girls, I ask girls out, but I never get further than that. My approach, when I like a girl, is to be around her, make eye contact with her, smile, talk to her, make her laugh, be...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Flirting

What to do after revealing your feelings and being rejected by a 'friend'?

Me and this girl who was a friend went out for a bit after she broke up with her boyfriend but then she realized she wasn't ready for anything so she stopped it. A few months later we start talking again and it seems...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Society & Politics

Sensual, fiery dancing that you can't take your eyes off of. Your experience...?

Whenever you go to the club or a party, there's always a bunch of people grinding who really have no rhythm and skill at all. Which is why they grind because they figure they can just rub up against someone and it will...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Guy's Behavior

Girls, what do you think a man is saying when he says things like these?

I'm reading a book right now about how a girl is starting to date the popular jock in school. I wasn't a jock nor was I a nerd. I was just...me! However, I do realize that high school doesn't end, it gets better but high...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Girl's Behavior

Ever feel like you're not good enough?

This is a question for those who have been always single, single for an extended time, or friends with those like that. Do you ever feel like you are not ever good enough for the opposite gender? Like do you feel like you...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Dating

I have no clue what to do with this guy?

I've been dating a guy on and off for about the last year. When we first met we hit it off right away and he pursued me. It was a first relationship for both of us (age 18) and at times it got a bit dramatic, but we...

siquetumeamaste

Xper 6 Age: 36