I'm curious as to what the difference is between a guy treating a girl with respect, always picking up the tab or "providing" whenever the situation calls for it, making sure she is comfortable or getting only the best the situation can offer on his behalf, in the sense that all of those factors and more conclude he is looking into how it might be long term, or if it's just a temporary thing.
I understand that you can't expect to know someone within a month and know if you want to be with them or not...but if there is a certain chemistry, and you both are in a comfort zone...even if one person is more of a doer without initiating conversations related to the current relationship status, how do guys go about "wowing" a girl because they want her to stick around, or moreso just do things to keep a good thing going until something better comes around?
How a girl can sense if a guy just isn't one to do all the sweet talking he's ever done and make a girl think he's into her that way, but is rather one to act upon things to make her feel special? I know there are people (i'm one of them) ,who don't exactly go all out spilling their guts and feelings and trying to sweet talk the other person , at the same time I guess I can't expect it from the guy. It would be nice to understand why he only makes actions happen and doesn't waste his time on talking about them. How do guys hope to have their actions properly interpreted if they aren't asked about them and don't generally take it upon themselves to explain them?
And if a girl were to ask you about your current "status" would it seem too sudden or do some of you actually wait for the girl to say something to see that maybe your 'doing" was recognized by her.
You guys obviously don't want to feel like you're tied down, or after one date and then the 2nd time around hear the girl talking future, but within a certain timeframe...where would deciding factors take place? and do you guys like it when the girl works with you or do you try to wait and see if you can get the girl to play the role of conversation?
I understand that you can't expect to know someone within a month and know if you want to be with them or not...but if there is a certain chemistry, and you both are in a comfort zone...even if one person is more of a doer without initiating conversations related to the current relationship status, how do guys go about "wowing" a girl because they want her to stick around, or moreso just do things to keep a good thing going until something better comes around?
How a girl can sense if a guy just isn't one to do all the sweet talking he's ever done and make a girl think he's into her that way, but is rather one to act upon things to make her feel special? I know there are people (i'm one of them) ,who don't exactly go all out spilling their guts and feelings and trying to sweet talk the other person , at the same time I guess I can't expect it from the guy. It would be nice to understand why he only makes actions happen and doesn't waste his time on talking about them. How do guys hope to have their actions properly interpreted if they aren't asked about them and don't generally take it upon themselves to explain them?
And if a girl were to ask you about your current "status" would it seem too sudden or do some of you actually wait for the girl to say something to see that maybe your 'doing" was recognized by her.
You guys obviously don't want to feel like you're tied down, or after one date and then the 2nd time around hear the girl talking future, but within a certain timeframe...where would deciding factors take place? and do you guys like it when the girl works with you or do you try to wait and see if you can get the girl to play the role of conversation?
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