Personally im the complete opposite to my usual self. Generally, around people, im quite confident, try to be witty and have a good laugh, and can be comfortable in other womens company.
However, when I have a crush I am quite shy, I dont know how to approach them and start a conversation, as to me, that persons first impression is more important than most.
Experience has obviously shown me that these. people. are human too and as equally approachable, and having gotten to know previous crushes that turns out had one on me, but thought I wasn't interested because I was different with them is a bit of a kicker. But doesn't change my mindset at the start :-(
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I personally get nervous my hands get sweaty and heart feels like its bout to beat out of my chest but I also get really happy around her and just the thought of her brings a smile to my face. I'm usually shy but around her I'm most comfortable
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There was only one girl that happened to me with and that was in high school. I stuttered a lot and kind of just froze sometimes, avoided eye contact with her, etc. When I finally asked her out, it was a shit show. I couldn't say what I rehearsed over and over in my head and it ended up was like a 5 second "I like you... do you want to go out with me?" but it was terrible delivery and I got rejected hard. It never happens to me anymore and even when I like a girl, I seem to be able to talk to them just fine now. I think something broke in me that day.
It really depends how hard I am crushing for the girl. Usually I am more goofy/laid back - try to make her laugh, compliment her, flirt with her and find any excuse to hang out with her. I'll also find ways to touch her - like hug her, grab her arm or something an really just show a genuine interest in them - ask about them, listen, be attentive. All that.
Extremely shy and nervous, tend to ramble on about pointless stuff or do something stupid to keep their attention.
It's not a surprise I'm terrible at dating.I'll be a nervous wreck pretending to be extra confident while trying to make a good impression.
I usually get a little more active and nervous, joke more, or get quieter and watch and listen, to see more of what she is like. Sometimes my voice will be slightly higher. I find it a little embarrassing that I don't have better control of myself.
I act kind and try to make her feel special (and hope she doesn't already have a boyfriend). I wouldn't say I'm nervous or confident, just relaxed. Normally I come off as aloof, but around a girl I like or a girlfriend I'm more caring.
I get excited and antsy and silly and I flirt with her. I'm pretty confident cause I just get really animated but I wear my heart on my sleeve.
\Maybe in the past I was nervous and shy but not since I turned maybe 20.It kinda depends, usually I’m pretty cool and funny but with the current girl I like I’m totally shutting down and I’m super nervous for some reason lol. Its weird.
Just act normal. I ask questions and engage about them. and their passions
Nervous, stuttering inability to speak. Im terrible untill im comfortable
Depends on the guy.. i would be like confident funny and like really helpful
Exactly the same as I act around anyone else, maybe more kind
Will be nervous caring n try to impress her n also observe her all beauty assets
Shy
Ignore her
Try not to act dumbInitially shy, then confident!!!
being macho and responsible
I don't act any different to how I act everyday
i just tell her
Sometimes shy, sometimes showing off a lot
Throw dirt at her. Kick her feet and chins.
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