Search Results: marriage and feelings

As in, can you dislike something, but still think people should be allowed to do it in a free society?

For example, on my end; I VEHEMENTLY dislike fake lesbians who con and screw over (simp) men, aka 'bisexuals.' But people should be allowed to have that choice in a free society, even if I find it disgusting and treacherous to men (and open lesbians) who get swindled by lesbians who act "straight" when they need some money from you. Or to the gay men who don't like being called "gay" even though they're clearly into dick. They're mind-screwing women who think they're with heterosexual men, but are actually dating gay men "who don't like labels." I really dislike both of these kinds of dishonest gay people. But I wouldn't try to make their lifestyles illegal or anything.

Same exact views on polyamory/open relationships, and transgenders. You can be trans or be an adulterer; I just don't personally agree with it. I would fully vote for laws that allow such freedoms (that didn't interfere with other people's rights), and vote against laws that tried to suppress such freedoms, but I personally don't agree with these lifestyle choices.

The same also would apply to marijuana. I can't STAND stoner culture and think it's one of the biggest signs of a loser in society, but if smoking and alcohol are free in society (which are just as bad as pot), why shouldn't marijuana also be legal?

So I am referring to things like this. Think about hot-button issues like abortion, gay marriage, etc. Can you separate your personal feelings on something from whether or not people should be allowed to be/have them or not?

At first I'm from Asia in Muslim country, I mean totally different culture. I meet a girl about 3 years ago. I'm in holiday and she traveled there. we start talking, because both don't have a time, accept to spend a time for better relationships with specific marriage goal. I never want a child cause of higher risk of genetic issues, she asked for support that's all. (I'm 36 and she has 24 and please consider it the traditional way for marriage have a lots of cost even she denied to have a wedding ceremony it's very good and unusual).

Considered we never said we are falling in love but we like each other.
At the first month I feeling she hide something, I don't try to ask about 2 years but try to understand and support her after 2 years it's clear for me why she ask support.
It's not common to be homeless here, the family is very important to us.
The only reason of she asked for support cause she has a very hard life since she is a kid (bad atmosphere، addicted father and mother take care of all 3child) till right now.

when I asked 3years ago about going for official tradition she refused after all I understand the most of the issues are commercial and she has a poor family. She is very nice to me and I seen that she trying to be a better partner and it's important for us.

She denied to have a meeting for therapy or any kind of help (she doesn't believe such a way just wanted to talking but we can't figure out yet and I very tired)

for starting our life she start working at 2jobs and I only have a 2 hours sleep per day for 1 and half year.