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Search Results: paying for a date
The REAL Reason Why Chivalry is Dead
"You need to open the door for her. Not because she can't, but because she shouldn't have to." This is the kind of thing I've heard quite a bit from people who hold more traditional romantic values (either that, or they...
geonator
Yoda Age: 32 Why do people fuss/complain/argue about who pays on a date so much?
I have never understood why this topic is so debated. To me it's pretty simple: if I'm asking a guy out then that automatically shows that I have an interest in him and so payment isn't even something that passes through...
Yads_Is_Back
Guru Age: 29 Would you date someone who is only home on the weekends?
Im a truck driver and I make ok money 52K/year but I am only home on the weekends during the week I sleep in my truck. All of the jobs in my home town are low paying service sector jobs where I’d be lucky to make 10/hr....
Anonymous
(36-45) 
Can someone explain to me why do people date?
As a really introverted woman, I've never really understood why people date. I generally get bored, I always have things I'd rather do, and unless you're going to marry the guy and he's going to start paying for things...
Anonymous
(36-45) Men should NOT have to pay for everything in a relationship!
Introduction: Wow. I have not written one of these in a long time! Hope everyone is keeping well, despite the current world affairs! The reason why I am writing this myTake is because of what I see on social media. Even...
fashionguy17
Guru Age: 35 A female player... loves friends with benefits and distance... can I can change? What can I do for a real relationship where it is equally slow/fast?
I am in my 40s, just out of a divorce and was just told by a guy that I am a player. I also just realized that I have always been since my teens. Other than a committed 16 year marriage, I never had a relationship...
surfnfun
Xper 3 Age: 54 What’s wrong with her?
My ex ex ex, let’s call her C. I dated her about 9 years ago. We didn’t workout but it seems like she can’t get me out of her head lol. She destroyed one of my relationships (my girlfriend at the time was dumb enough to...
Anonymous
(30-35) Would guys like me make a good date for some?
So I’m not saying I have it all or anything like that but I’m decent guy wen it comes to how I take care of myself. What I’m getting at is I have had a couple fake friends that I always use to give money to if they asked...
Anonymous
(25-29) The Failure of the Modern Female
The Failure of the Modern Female How Far We've Came A woman in the 1950's was much different than one of today. Back then most women were homemakers. A homemaker is a person who takes of the responsibility of running...
WowwGirl
Guru Age: 37 Working as a home health aide during the Covid 19 Pandemic
Wednesday, April 15th. 2020. I assist your mom in cooking her favorite meals because she has frequent falls in the kitchen. I reassure you that your father’s physical therapy is helping, and I can see the improvements...
Anonymous
(25-29) The Failures of Modern Men
The Failures of Modern Men. What Happened to the Men of Today? We live in a overly feminized world today. Where feelings matter more than facts. Where agreeableness is excepted and assertiveness is criticized. The...
WowwGirl
Guru Age: 37 Girls, what would you think if a guy bought you a nice gift on a first date?
Like along with paying for dinner he bought you a nice bracelet or expensive flowers
Anonymous
(25-29) Guys, To the guys, does this happen to you when you’re dating?
Guys, I met a lady like no other girls before, whom I just click so well with... Chemistry is undeniable, and our humor, intellect, emotions, and even physical aspects are at the same level. I end up face timing her 3-4...
Anonymous
(30-35) Should I give him another chance?
I started seeing my boyfriend 7 months ago. Hed just broken up with his ex. I feel hard for him but i dont think the feeling was mutual at the time. I dressed to the 9s and would capture looks and compliments from...
Anonymous
(25-29) Thinking of sending an anonymous letter to my ex that I dumped 8 months ago. Don’t want to talk, but I’m concerned about her during this crisis?
I dated a girl from Jan to Aug last year. She treated me well and vice versa. But she had some very serious issues I was not equipped to deal with. She was both physically and sexually abused growing up by a POS family...
Anonymous
(36-45) Who should pay when going out on dates in a relationship?
i don’t mind treating my man to dinner. how do guys feel about paying every single time? Or do you want ur partner to pay?
Anonymous
(25-29) Who should pay the bill in a relationship?
Should the guy pay? Should the girl pay? Should they split? I've been with my girlfriend for over a year and it's still awkward when the bill comes at a restaurant. I do feel like it's the gentleman thing to do to...
steveg14
Xper 4 Age: 31 My Take on How Payment Should Be Done on a First Date
Two things to consider as you read this: 1) This has no reference to how much money you make or spend. (An inexpensive date can be even more valuable than a very expensive one.) 2) I have approached men, but I do...
Anonymous
(25-29) Girls, I pay for everything I do with my girlfriend and she has yet to find a new job... should I just break up with her?
I'm trying to get my own place and I can't keep paying for every date, meal, present, and trip on my own. I swear that I'm not trying to sound like I'm a cheapskate or anything but it feels like she's not even looking for...
Anonymous
(30-35) What's the worst thing that he/she can do on your first date?
For me it's asking questions like:your paying RIGHT?
DanaeAdam5
Yoda Age: 25 