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1. 90% of the questions and answers are generalizations. They don't specify a type a person, a specific scenario, or even enough details to give an accurate analysis. Also, they are phrased as if all or most of a gender is the same, which is far from the truth. If people were giving honest answers it would almost always be "it depends."

2. Most of the answers you get will not be from your targeted type of mate. For example, say you want a new age girl but instead you get an opinion from a cheerleader. Or you want advice about approaching a good looking girl but instead get advice from an ugly girl. You are getting irrelevant advice without knowing it.

3. The polls on this site aren't even an accurate representation of the people on this site, much less the general population. For example, say you ask if guys like giving girls flowers. Guys that like giving girls flowers are more likely to click the question and answer yes while guys that don't will ignore the question, making the poll results inaccurate and irrelevant.

4. Most of the people on this site are posers. They exaggerate their self-worth, pretend to speak for all of their gender, pretend to know things they don't, or are a completely fake profile to begin with. People don't want to hang out with them so they come on here and answer questions to feel important and pass time. Not exactly the person you want advice from.

5. The people that run the site can remove or promote anything they want which makes the site fundamentally biased. This tends to attract certain types of people while repelling other types. Instead of giving an accurate representation of the general population, you end up with an echo chamber of people that repeat and validate their same beliefs back to each other.

If you're a 35 year old ex party girl with a cell phone full of ex-boyfriends and hook-ups; you dress half naked and you have a nasty attitude - CHANCES ARE YOU'RE NOT GOING TO GET THE GOOD 28 YEAR OLD STABLE CHRISTIAN BOY.

Same goes for guys, I notice these days people have forgotten that dating leagues do exist. Once you pass a certain point there are lots of people who simply DONT WANT YOU. accept it.