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Search Results: do past rejections matter
Consistently pursuing guy is now silent. What's up with that?
coworker has shown interest for few mos (maybe even since last yr). I'm generally standoffish/shy so we only got to talk in past couple months. in the past (almost a year ago?) he asked me out 2x. once over email for...
Anonymous
(45 Plus) How can I move on?
My ex told me last week that he is no longer in love with me, 2 days before that he told me that I could possibly win him back, then boom! He no longer loves me. Our relationship has been a roller coaster and I never felt...
Anonymous
(30-35) Is It Actually Racist To Have Racial Preferences In Dating?
Anything spoken today regarding race inevitably sparks controversy, it being a very sensitive topic, one cannot but help notice the trend of racial selectiveness or rather in this case exclusion of certain ethnicities...
Chief16
Editor Age: 33 Being Physically Attractive Won't Make You Immune to Bad Things
No one is immune to bad things happening to them. It doesn't matter how attractive or unattractive you are. It won't make you immune to creeps and stalkers. If you're attractive, more people will pay more attention to...
Anonymous
(30-35) Future Boyfriend, This One Is For You
So, we must've been together for longer than a few months if you're reading this- because I've finally decided to show you that part of myself which is safely locked away in a chest. I must really care about you since I'm...
crazy_eyes
Xper 6 Age: 28 How to not be so intimidated by attractive guys?
I'm a 21 yr old female and just got out of a 2 year relationship. I eventually want to get back into the dating world but don't know how. I find myself attractive but I struggle with my confidence. I have had a hard time...
Anonymous
(30-35) I miss opportunities to get with girls, how can I gain confidence?
Throughout my life I had interest in girls. But i was always scared to talk to them. I had interest in one girl and she had interest in me but i couldn't get past the first step to talk to her. I didn't even talk to her...
Anonymous
(25-29) How are American guys so cool about rejection, in clubs or even otherwise in life?
I've seen guys in clubs where they get decline by the chicks for grinding or even otherwise in life when the girl they like turns them down and when I asked a few guys about it they say Oh I'm not worried! OR that doesn't...
Ameya
Xper 7 Age: 39 26, never had a boyfriend. Do my previous experience of rejection prevent me from it?
unconsciously I mean? I've had some guys show interest but they never sustained it enough for me to consider it seriously. Sometimes I would tell myself that it is just a matter of meeting the right person but then...
Anonymous
(36-45) Met someone. How to open/loosen up and ask her out?
I met her at my friends bday party. I had trouble opening up and making conversation. I'm afraid she thought I was boring or not interested. I recently went through a painful rejection with someone else where there were...
KMatthewI33
Xper 4 Age: 42 A Reflection of Who I Am and What I Wish People Knew About Me
They need you right now, but when they don't, they'll cast you out, like a leper! You see, their morals, their code, it's a bad joke. Dropped at the first sign of trouble. They're only as good as the world allows them to...
JRICHARDS1996
Editor Age: 30 Guy at work walks away seeing me come?
I like a guy at work and he knows and has already rejected me. After rejection I behaved as if it didn't matter and was as happy as ever, talking to everyone else and avoiding him completely. After a month things are...
Anonymous
(45 Plus) I'm a good looking guy. Women often come on to me but once they start to see who I am, on the inside, they push away. Why?
I always receive comments about my good looks. People are always wondering why I have never had a girlfriend and some are even starting to question if I'm gay. The problem is every time I put myself out there for a woman,...
Anonymous
(30-35) To Orlando, from Paris: Be Strong, Stay Strong
The hammer strikes again, and my heart bleeds. After San Bernardino, after Boston. After Paris, struck twice, on the other side of the Atlantic. After Brussels. Further south, after those countries we sometimes struggle...
Aetumn
Xper 6 Age: 35 The Joys & Pains Of Crushing: 7 Types and Helpful Advice 🙇🏽💭❓
Everyday on GaG, since the day I've joined, there has been at least one question about a crush, and rightfully so, as these are arguably some of the most difficult to answer. This is proven by the fact that they never get...
justbanANNAz
Editor Age: 31 Guys, does it really matter if a girl doesn't have a nice big bubble butt and wide hips?
I am asking because I was just rejected by my crush for some girl in my math class who is thick but fit with a bubbly butt and thick hips and thighs. And another guy I liked last year didn't find me attractive. I have a...
Grungenoreos
Xper 5 Age: 27 Do you have a rejection limit? Or would you continue to approach with confidence no matter how many times you got rejected?
When I approached girls, I was confident and looked at it as a numbers game cause I thought the more number of girls I'd approach, the more I'll finally find one who will like me or be attracted to me. I've approached...
MyUsernameRules
Yoda Age: 38 The Four Noble Truths: A Guide to Help "Nice Guys" Even the Dating Field
Self proclaimed "nice guys" and 30 year old single losers take heed. This guide is for your benefit. I composed it after weeks of soul searching, research, and analytical thinking in order to benefit you. There are a lot...
JRICHARDS1996
Editor Age: 30 Why is it so difficult for me to 'fit in'?
I'm just really going through a rough time here. I always try to be a genuine guy peope would want around, someone girls would love to know, have my opinion matter to someone. I live in a pretty shitty town with my...
Anonymous
(30-35) Your Typical Story about a Not So Typical Friendzoning
If you're looking for a bit of a read, look no further. Feedback is very much welcomed! It just pisses me right the fuck off that I am on the complete opposite side of the planet... And I'm still feeling this torture. The...
IronPhantom17
Xper 4 Age: 32 