I am asking because I was just rejected by my crush for some girl in my math class who is thick but fit with a bubbly butt and thick hips and thighs. And another guy I liked last year didn't find me attractive. I have a sister who is 14 and 3 years my junior with a bigger butt, boobs, and hips than me and she isn't fat or chubby at all. People have commented on that and it makes me feel bad, like if something is wrong with me.
The past 10 months I have made it my goal to gain wieght and exercise because before I was skinnier but with more fat as in flabby skinny. I couldn't do sit ups without someone holding my feet down and couldnt even do one push up. Now I take care of myself and I went from 102 pounds to 114 pounds. I am 5'2 by the way. But for some reason my breasts got smaller and my whole body seemed to have gotten leaner. I suppose the saying that muscle weighs more that fat is true. I have a more sculpted figure now but sadly my butt isn't big. Its just a now perky but still small butt. I was told its because no one can drastically change one's shape. A lot of it is due to genetics and body structure. Sure you can improve it but there is only so much you can do because gaining muscle and good fat isn't necessarily deposited where you want it. I now love my scuplted legs and arms. But my butt just got perkier and my hips and waist ratio are the same. I lost breast fat. I went from a 34 C to a 32 B.
Does it really matter? Sorry if this is all over the place. I am a crying mess over this rejection and and the fact that i never had a boyfriend.
Does having a small ass & B cup boobs really a deal breaker? According to my parents, siblings, and friends, I am a sweetheart and have a pretty face.. So i know it isn't my personality thats throwing guys off. So I don't know what else could it be except my lack of curves depsite my wieght gain and increase of muscle through lots of training.
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First you seem to be a really nice girl.. You shouldn't let someone's rejection of you taint your self image. You should not have to alter your self to get a guy.
Second, let me tell you something, the right guy is going to love you as you are, and isn't going to care how big your (pardon the vulgarity) tits or ass are.
I am a breast and ass man, but I didn't marry my wife for those features. I married her because I fell hopelessly in love with her.1
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