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I’ve been with a guy for 2 years now. Things are good. Sometimes the good outweighs the bad and other times the bad outweighs the good. He has a lot of growing to do. I recently realized our future plans don’t quite line up. At the same time I realized I’m not willing to change my plans for the next 5 years for him. But I still love him.

I recently started a new job. At this job I met a lot of people and spend a lot of time with my coworkers. Over the past month I’ve developed feelings for one of my coworkers. I haven’t said anything... to anyone. I’ve kept it all to myself. I get butterflies around him and fantasize about silly things. I want to know him more. I get the feeling he also is having feelings for me judging by his actions.

Currently I’ve decided to just keep going into work not saying anything, stay in my relationship and pretend like there’s no crush lingering in the background of my mind. I feel like maybe this will just go away and it’s just a stupid little crush.

What are your thoughts?
Help!

COUNTING CROWS song from the 90s Called ANNA BEGINS

Please answer Your views based only what you can infer from the lyrics of the song. Not From his real life 🙏

{My friend assures me, "It's all or nothing."

I am not worried

I am not overly concerned

My friend implores me, "For one time only,

Make an exception."

I am not worried

Wrap her up in a package of lies

Send her off to a coconut island

I am not worried

I am not overly concerned with the status of my emotions

"Oh, " she says, "you're changing."

But we're always changing

It does not bother me to say this isn't love

Because if you don't want to talk about it then it isn't love

And I guess I'm going to have to live with that

But I'm sure there's something in a shade of gray

Or something in between

And I can always change my name

If that's what you mean

My friend assures me, "It's all or nothing."

But I am not really worried

I am not overly concerned

You try to tell yourself the things you try to tell yourself

To make yourself forget

I am not worrized

"If it's love, " she said, "then we're going to have to

think about the consequences."

She can't stop shaking

I can't stop touching her and

This time when kindness falls like rain

It washes her away and Anna begins to change her mind

"These seconds when I'm shaking leave me shuddering

for days, " she says

And I'm not ready for this sort of thing

But I'm not going to break

And I'm not going to worry about it anymore

I'm not going to bend and I'm not going to break

And I'm not going to worry about it anymore

No no no no no,

It seems like I should say, "As long as this is love"

But it's not all that easy so maybe I should

Snap her up in a butterfly net

Pin her down on a photograph album

I am not worried

I've done this sort of thing before

But then I start to think about the consequences

Because I don't get no sleep in a quiet room And The time when kindness falls like rain

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