I feel like a horrible person, or that I’m incapable of having a relationship. Help?

[Anonymous]

I’ve been dating this guy for 2 years, and he’s everything a girl should want in a relationship. He’s sweet, caring, does anything I ask, and he’s great in bed. But for some reason I’ve never gotten butterflies, I don’t want his affection, and I see him as more of a friend than anything else. I tell him these things, and it’s like he doesn’t hear me. I know I don’t like him as much as a girl with a boyfriend should. And I’m not sure why this is or what to do about it. Help!

[Petermorgan34]

You got to cut him loose, if you don't your doing both of you a disservice. Maybe you guys just need a break too for you to evaluate your feelings for him also. He could also be the right person but wrong time, ask yourself if its because you want something in life first, or if you guys moved to fast in the beginning. I hope this helped

[lonewolf2233]

You need to sit down with him and have a one on one conversation about what you both want in this realtionship and that's one of the best ways to fix this. Tell him to setup a location somewhere private where the two of you can sit down and talk this out. Make sure to tell him how you feel about him as a friend more or less and not a boyfriend. And your not incapable of having a realtionship maybe the guy isent your fit he might be some other girls fit but not yours. It's better to get this dealt with now then later.

[NightHawk99]

Enjoy the freedom. :)