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My boyfriend never had a good relationship with his parents and basically wants nothing to do with them. It was his birthday yesterday and he turned 17. His mom kept calling me a girl, she/her & my deadname/given name. I found that disrespectful. But I acted nice since it was my boyfriend's birthday. When he went to go to the washroom, she told me "I would like to call you by your given name, it's so beautiful & since you're pregnant, of course your a female" yet I have a transgender friend I know who works with her at a restaurant and she calls him; his preference name. Another thing is let's say someone name was Ken but they rather be called Kennedy (since I don't want to give out his name). His mom kept saying "Ken" when he would prefer "Kennedy" and she object to the idea of calling him that. Which he would fight with her all the way to the place in the car. His dad doesn't like it either but he at least calls me Damien. I may be pregnant but I don't ever consider myself a mother to it since that a female term for a women. I consider myself a caregiver instead or a parent or a father. My boyfriend will say you are " a motherly father ". But since I haven't had surgery (from not being old enough to afford it) and my parents are against abortion. I'm being mature, keeping the baby and holding off on my transition. Putting the baby needs over mine is what I say. But I don't see how that makes me a girl when I've seen trans man have babies since they want their own and still consider themselves a male. Everyone has their own opinion, and I never planned on having a child, maybe adoption when I was older. But even being pregnant I consider myself a male, just my body isn't until further notice. I wear binders still until it going to make my chest sore. Then I'll have to start wearing sports bras, not actually bras. But I'm going to wear male clothes throughout this time. His mom just doesn't help with her opinions, which I find mean since she's full-on Christian.

I hate being called sweetie, especially when women do it
i feel so sexualized.. I feel like an object
sweetie is not a compliment.. I know women think it is
but it isn’t..
Stop the sweetie calling.. I’m definitely protesting..
and when I protest I’m gonna dress up as something really sweet like a jar of honey..
because thatll definitely stop the sweetie calling..

women stop sweetie calling
I’m not sweet
I’m not your sweetie

I swear I get nervous when large groups of women follow me home telling me how sweet I am
stop.

i dont feel bad when guys call me sweet
I guess becaus they’re guys and I’m not uncomfortable when they say it

I deserved to walk down the street dressed as a jar of honey without some lady looking at me and calling me sweet
like she’s has some sweet tooth or something

I’m not feeding your sweet tooth!!!

When I go outside dressed as a bag of skittles
mom not dressing for you!!!
I’m dressing for me!!!

How would you like it if you got called sweet sweet all the time?
by a large group of women
you wouldn’t like it would you

I've even had my sugar pouch touched before