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I find it to be very flirty, especially if I took extra time with my makeup and outfit that day
When out with my guy buds who are pretty good looking guys, women yell out pretty racy remarks, "Ay papi!" or "He can have this all night!" the other women who hear ooing and giggling

I do feel there is a line though, cat calling very raunchy stuff like, "my dick is so hard babe," or "Id sit on his face," (commonly heard in my city lol,) is a bit too overboard. Touching any part of a person as well.
It seems everything men do is taken as being sexually aggressive when his intentions are just to express a strong romantic interest.
Personally, its a bit uptight to be offended by someone directly expressing how sexy or beautiful they see you as.

I have cat called at men, and have been cat called frequently commuting in our busy urban areas. Men, or gay women, will even sit next to you on the city train just to tell you how pretty you are and if youd be interested in going out sometime. Its flattering.

I do not see the point in making a man's advances at me more difficult by giving him attitude for complimenting my body. I do not understand how we are taught to be confident and beautiful, but when people compliment us its a bad thing?

So I find it flirty!

I find the person tends to say things that come across as arrogant and it is towards my family members and some friends. Yes, I am the one who asks for the advice but it’s the delivery that gets to me. You can’t change a man and I don’t want to expect this from a person. I know I’m not perfect but after a while, it gets frustrating.

So today a Caucasian friend of mine was asking me if I could possibly set him up with any of my Asian girlfriends and then tells me that he's going through a "yellow fever" phase. I usually let these remarks slide but I was a bit offput in the way he said it that I called him out on it and said, "just as I'm not yellow, you're not white... last time I checked, you're skin tone dosen't resemble the colour of printer paper!"

So just out of curiosity, do you prefer coloured terms such as, "black/white/yellow..." or prefer someone actually stating your race, such as "African/Caucasian/Asian..."?

A lot of African American's with their natural (fro type hair) often remark that they have their hair touched without their consent and find it offensive and intrusive of their personal space. On the flip side I've heard comments to the affect of what's the big deal, its just hair. I personally think in general people don't allow people to just touch them in anyway without their consent, so to me, hair falls in that category.

So do you think its wrong to touch someone's hair without them giving you permission or is it or should it be, no big deal?