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This guy and I met at a bar, we hit it off and started dating exclusively after 3weeks. We continue to have disagreements and never really made it official as in boyfriend/girlfriend. I can tell he is interested since he always wants to see me, introduced me to all his friends and has talked to his parents about me.

In my past I usually become girlfriend within a month, so I’m trying to make it work and let it be built naturally. We both are having a lot happen in our careers and he says, “We’ll see how it goes and let’s let it happen naturally.”

The 4months have been a roller coaster... we are good and then he either starts talking about a future and how it would be with us and I start feeling hopeless that he just keeps saying the same thing. I’ve expressed me being scared that this won’t lead to anything serious and he says we can’t be thinking negative and have to just let things fall into place.

2days ago, we were both drinking, (he’s on vacation) and we were texting and we had an argument. I got in my feelings and he was frustrated and we are now going to have a talk when he gets back.

Any advice? I like him and we keep putting effort in different aspects of our ways with eachother, but what now?