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A guy I love is my ex boyfriend, we been in long distance relationship for 6 months and I found out later that he been seeing an escort the whole time while we were together and after we meet I don’t know if he still fucking with another girls or not. He spend all his check to an escort to get a revenge on me because he thought that I cheated on him. He even told me that he used to see one white girls so many years since she was 18 and just turn to be a hoe and now she maybe 21-22? and he called her to come to his house and it ended up that she robbed him for $1000 and he even told me if she didn’t rob him and let him hit at the first time or the second time he will make her his girlfriend instead of me and break up with me after that. but when we were together he treated me nice except he talk to another girl.
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A guy who put 100% on me mean that I never met him but not sure when he gonna come see me. When I told him I couldn’t afford my college he send money to pay for it. When I said I want a new phone he sends me money. He asked me what u doing I said I was watching YouTube so he send me $350 to pay for my YouTube premium so I don’t have to watch ads. And he always been like this never change. And he has a son and be with his son all the time so I don’t think he will see an escort and when I told him about my ex he was like “ew”he has a plan to buy me a car too , when he said anything he always keeps it. he has a plan to come to Thailand. And plan to have only me. His son older than me🥲

If you were me , who would you choose?

Background: I’ve been spending time with a new guy for a little over a month now, getting to know each other. When he picked me up for a date, I noticed a custom trinket that he has hanging from his rear view mirror. I looked at it closely and it had a “drive safe” message engraved with a girl’s name and a heart on it. I asked him about it and he said it was from his ex.

I was taken aback because I don’t personally keep gifts from exes, especially something that seems sentimental. He told me a bit about her and that things didn’t necessarily end on a bad note, they just ended up wanting different things but they’re cool with each other. Jokingly I told him that he probably still has feelings for her, then he told me if that were the case, we wouldn’t be seeing each other.

I only ever really hear about issues with women keeping jewelry from exes but out of curiosity for the men, is keeping something like this, a custom gift that you probably look at regularly, a big deal? Or this probably means nothing?