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This is a long story but;
My best friend is a serial dater, which I'm not mad about. As long as he's being safe I support him.
That said after 1 week of dating someone new they always want to meet me because as my friend says "I talk about you a lot so they want to get to know you." To which I say, thats nice but it's been a week, shouldn't they get to know YOU first?
Regardless I try to be a good friend and meet them anyway because I know he wants my opinion.
The real problem comes in when my friend inevitably gets bored or finds some fault with this man no longer than 2-3 months into dating him.
At that point since we did the whole try to get along because your dating my friend thing, almost every time he breaks up with someone, I get harassed by the hearts he's breaking.
I no longer accept friend requests on any platform from the guys he's dating but despite that they still try to message me asking about my friends feelings.
I will readily admit only about 50% of the time do I believe my friend has a legit reason for ending the relationship, so it does make him an asshole and I get them wanting answers more than "it's just not working out"
My question is am I a bad friend for asking that he dates them at least a month before involving me? Is there a better time frame? Or is this a hopeless cause regardless of timing because my friend is great in so many ways but dating isn't one of them?

I used to talk to somebody who would mock me for my religious qualities

Like I always believe the best
I give people the benefit of the doubt
I am willing to question people on things ordinary people don't like assuming a new friend might be a serial killer or another friend is a prostitute
I trust people without thinking they want to use me for sex or are dating multiple people at the same time or are being fake with me or manipulating me or not taking me seriously
I assume a guy is emotionally connected to me - even if all we have is distant contact

She would make fun of me and tell me I'm naive and stupid and idiotic

When I told her a guy was sending death threats

She said I was lying cause I was average looking and not rich and I wasn't important enough for somebody to want to kill me

But Jesus said they wanted to murder him and if you follow him they will want to kill you too

I've had 3 people try to kill me so far