Search Results: signs of emotional abuse

me and my boyfriend have been together a year or so and tbh things have been edgy and very toxic, only recently we've spoke and had a deep discussion about having more communication and sharing chores of the house and talking about being open about our feelings... After this conversation things have changed for the better. BUT and I mean But... does this really now make up for the times he has called me names, been too possessive, not supportive and lazing about letting me do everything, not letting me go out with friends and being extremely rude and just angry towards me for the past year. (emotional abuse I'd call this.) when we sat down and spoke he could not admit he was wrong easily, it took an hour or so before he understood how shit he's been treating me over the time and his behaviour has somewhat changed for the better; but I'm worried he may fall back into bad habits of taking me for granted or just going back to being lazy and uncooperative. It's hard to explain but our tenancy of the house we are in runs out in October and I'm not sure if I want to sign for another twelve months to live with him or if I should go back to my parents. I know I'm not a saint but I have been faithful and loyal to only him I've been giving him my all and I always have admitted and apologised if I'd done anything out of line myself. It's not till now after communication properly (that's without him sitting in silence and trying to pin guilt or blame on me.) he has changed but has he or will things go back to being the same after I sign another twelve months of my life away?

I'm gathering more opinions on this topic for someone to help them! My words aren't doing the trick.. I need them to visually see other people's opinions! I want your total honesty on what you think about this situation.. Please!

The girl's opinion plus some background
info (this was sent to another friend first then screenshotted and sent to me- she knows I'm using this also!)
https://imgur.com/a/VUvZO

The guy's counteragument (screenshotted from the girl then sent directly to me.. The blue is the guy talking and the purple is the girl's response to what he said) https://imgur.com/a/NT9x9

Basically, the girl met the guy about a year ago and at the time he was dating this other chick.. Things went super bad and they broke up and the guy was super depressed every day and nearly killed himself more than once but the girl had developed a crush on him and decided to stick by him and help him out. Then they started dating and were all happy until the girl started to feel a bit used by the guy. The girl has actually gained about 6 pounds and is overeating from stress.
The main issue, from what I can tell, is that the guy is taking advantage of this girl's kindness and making her feel powerless.. Belittled. They've argued and each time she somehow always ends up as the guilty one due to him manipulating her and making her feel guilty and hypocritical etc.

An important note is that all of this is online!

Sorry for all the reading 😅 But please take the time! This is a pretty serious issue unfortunately :/

More info on emotional abuse here!
https://www.healthyplace.com/abuse/emotional-psychological-abuse/emotional-abuse-definitions-signs-symptoms-examples/

A good example picture for a more visual display!