Search Results: guys and long term relationships

Guys; why would you not want to sleep with your girlfriend?

My boyfriend and I have dated for about a year and a half and I’m his first long term girlfriend. he has always been shy and not as interested in the sexual side of stuff, but I am more into it and need it more than he...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Picking bad boys over good ones?

I don't go for "bad" guys over "good" guys, but I just don't connect as well or am attracted to "good" ones. My definition of bad guys being , brooding, untrusting, emotionally unavailable, not keen on sharing and...

Anonymous

(18-24)

Why do guys tend to put less effort after they win our hearts?

I've been dating this man for about 7 months now and we made it official on valentines day of this year. i know it is a normal thing in a relationship to like lose that spark we had and getting used to each other and...

Anonymous

(18-24)

How do I address my social retardation?

I am a 27 year old guy from the southern United States. I turn 28 later this year, and I have never had a real girlfriend before, especially nothing serious or long-term. In addition, I am lacking friends. Almost everyday...

Almost_Incel

Xper 2 Age: 31

Why do you think this guy Nick unblocked me?

(Sorry, second time i'm asking) The guy I was crazy about Nick, blocked me on his phone 7 years ago. He has kept me blocked since then. He was dating some other chick. (They aren't together anymore and broke up years...

KerryJulia78fd

Xper 3 Age: 39

Why do you think he unblocked me?

The guy I was crazy about Nick, blocked me on his phone 7 years ago. He has kept me blocked since then. He was dating some other chick. (They aren't together anymore and broke up years ago). Nick and I had ended things on...

KerryJulia78fd

Xper 3 Age: 39

Flirting

How should a guy initiate contact with a girl he meets immediately after getting her number?

Part III in a series. Part II was this question here. This doesn't apply to me, but someone asked me and I didn't know what to tell him. How should a guy initiate contact with a girl he met on the street and got the...

MCheetah

Editor Age: 39

Girls, What type of guys would you have a short term relationship with?

I mean anything from a couple of days to 4 or 5 months. when looking at a dating profile, talking to a guy or texting him, what does make you say to yourself "ok that's a decent guy who happens to not be looking for a...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Guys, Speak w/a guy on hinge, 33. Found out he interacts &follows lot of pornstars on Twitter and Ig with thirsty comments and hard content. Red flag?

if he asks me out should I try or this will lead to disappointment? I am looking for a long term relationship not casual sex

Anonymous

(36-45)

Is it just me or do women create an impossible dating situation for men? How do guys find a girl to marry? I genuinely don’t understand?

Let me give an example I see. Young Women really don’t go for the guys who show the most interest in them. Guys who show the most interest are seen as “creepy, clingy, desperate, or a fuck boy.” So instead women go for...

Gangactivities911

Xper 5 Age: 30

Is it worth it dating someone you might not be compatible with?

I'm very much into this guy and it's the first time that it's probably reciprocated... He's funny, witty, sweet, charismatic; as I said, I'm very attracted to him and had a big crush on him for the longest time. But I...

Anonymous

(18-24)

I'm very much into this guy and it's the first time that it's probably reciprocated... He's funny, witty, sweet, charismatic; as I said, I'm very attracted to him and had a big crush

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How to Get Back In To The Dating Scene After The End Of A Long-Term Relationship?

I'm 23 (turning 24 in July) and I've been single for a little bit now. I know I'm quite young but I was previously in a relationship with a guy for almost 4 years. My previous relationship ended August last year so about...

NotYourCinderella

Xper 4 Age: 27

I’m kind of talking to this guy but I’m depressed and just want to focus on me? Should I ghost him?

This is a person I was talking to around September 2021-December 2021. We’re gonna call him Guy A. Basically the main reason why we stopped talking is because he was just so toxic towards me and mean. I was asking the guy...

Walamagicc

Xper 6 Age: 25

If a 25 year old guy and a 40 year old woman are compatible maturity wise/life goal wife could a relationship work out long term?

Anonymous

(45 Plus)

Break Up & Divorce

What is your take on falling in love with someone shortly after a breakup?

I’m curious to hear opinions on this. It seems like a lot of people believe that you need months to yourself after a breakup to heal or move on, but personally, I do not think that is true for everyone. Both my sister and...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Why is getting someone interested in a relationship so difficult?

Guys will talk to me a lot in the beginning, ask me out, text me, but nothing ever seems to solidify. I’m disappointed and unsure of what to do. I’m very attractive physically, have a modeling contract, I work out...

Anonymous

(30-35)

What do you confess you have done wrong to other people in dating? How do you move forward now?

I often find myself getting angry and blaming modern women for lots of unfair crap over the years. Being a hetero man I can say without a doubt I’ve had more harm done to me than I’ve done to others. However when I am...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Do you want a boyfriend who is?

• Do you want a boyfriend who... 1. Do not care about your feelings (affect you) but care a lot for the feelings of other girls? 2. Choose his friends (girls) than you as a girlfriend? 3. Stop calling you,...

12100794

Xper 7 Age: 31