My definition of bad guys being , brooding, untrusting, emotionally unavailable, not keen on sharing and having a low rate of keeping permanent relationships. My definition of good guys being the opposite, kind, trusting , wanting a long term commitment and actually sharing their issues with me.
In the long term I have no future with "bad" guys but the kinder, more genuine and less issues they have the less mystery there is and we just have nothing deep to share. I just want someone to connect with that contrasts my own personality.
Is this there something wrong with me or do other people share this?