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Most women seem to think they aren't picky/entitled, but almost every woman I've spoken to (besides a few realistic ones on here, like @JosyJosy, @DizzyDesii, etc;) SAY things that contradict that. They'll ask for Tony-freaking-Stark and then think they're not asking for perfection. And honestly, it gets annoying AF, especially when they complain about "being single," but reject 99.9% of the quality male population. They'll also do all of this while literally bringing nothing to the table other than having a vagina (not "giving up the vagina," just HAVING one). And then when some men like myself call out these entitlements, like the infamous "you can change weight, but you can't change height" counter-argument, they'll huff and puff, but never address said argument or see their demands as "unrealistic" and unfair.

By unrealistic standards; I mean:
- 6'0" to 6'4", minimum height.
- Ego brimming out the ass; enough confidence to wrestle a bear and 100% believe you'll win.
- Earns way more money than her, no matter who she is or what she does for a living.
- Immaculate gym body that requires at least 15 hours a week of exercise.
- Always put her needs first, but without coming off like a simp/beta, somehow.
- Buys her whatever she wants.

Realistic standards would be:
- Any height that isn't significantly shorter than her.
- Isn't too insecure or has realistic flaws.
- Has a job and can pay his own bills.
- Is relatively healthy, even if not in athletic shape, and at least weighs more than her.
- No history of abuse, cheating, crime, or STD's.
- Treats her well and respects her without disrespecting himself.

It seems like most women under 30-35 want the first set, and will only "settle" for the second set when they're too old.

But what do you think?

women don't care who bring home the bacon lettuce tomato cheese as long as you treat them right and listen and understand them... sike!; its all theater, they do care in fact the care to a prejudice on who they are seen with (hence why you see or respect without question tall dude/ short girl relationships and question the challenge Tall girl short dude relationships. yeah how many relationships do you honestly see like that) by a certain point you gain a sixth sense for it and relate/ realize that the sexes relate to another through socially acceptable needs and bond over it. Relationships are just another form of communication and you display what you want people to think of you using your partner. however this is more at the mans expense and he has to have more corporeal/ collateral to even get up to Bat (women tie their self respect to just how much more the man has then her the don't allow men to do this/ it is short lived). So it is no surprise that a lot of Men get frustrated when they invest into a woman only to find out that it is truly a man or trans-woman; the problem is obvious that consent and knowledge play a huge role in the anger and frustration that a lot of men feel. This robs the men of choice, power, right to make a decision based on confidence and takes the sexuality out of ambiguity adding fear. And women couldn't care less/ think its funny when a man end up in this conundrum; and they force there hand. On a woman's hand this is not a trivial factor and dose-not affect/effect so much. I however how come up with some options to discuss and want your vote or suggestion. Which idea do you think would convey this idea heavier to the opposite sex?

Recently I've been trying to tell people that I don't drive and I'm unable to date people. I've been rejecting people because of it. Also when a women comes up to me giving me all sorts of signals then I tell her with kindness and respect that I'm flattered... but I'm not interested and I don't drive. I had guys come up to me to tell me to try again with confidence but I also had other guys came up to me and told me that I'm undateable since I have with no license or car and it's a huge deal breaker to all woman out there. Ugh... I wish people just listen... That's all.

Also I got nobody to teach me how to drive at the moment and it's a possibility that I won't be able drive to do to my medical histories.