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Yes, ghosting is wrong and the easy way out yadda yadda. But I spoke with a guy from a dating app around a year ago. we went out once and things seemed okay so far. The second time we met up, he was a little tipsy and talked about his ex. He said that she used him for money, how she used to strip and he just came across as resentful towards women. So he asked me out for Valentine’s Day & I just didn’t give him a solid answer. He texts me about a week after or so asking why I don’t message him anymore and I said the phone works both ways. He asked maybe a few weeks after if I wanted to hang out and I said no. If he wasn’t so immature and bitter then I would have been direct from the beginning or actually given him a shot.

So my boyfriend often says to me that her females friends want him but when i want him to not talk about his female friends like that, he calls me incesure and immature. By the way i am 20 and he is 35 and so it annoys him when guys around my age talk to me because of school/work. But I dont have any guy friend because he does not want me to have any. I only talk to guys when i have to. By the way he also often calls me and girls around my age immature and get angry when my bestfriend tells him that he should date a woman around his age then, instead of giirls who are 10+years younger than him. I am also done with him but i am afraid of breaking up with him since he often tells me that guys around my age are immature and only want sex but my (female) bestfriend wants me to get a younger boyfriend around my age and she also has a boyfriend around her age and both of them are together since middle school. I am also a little childish and hyperactive according to my boyfriend just because i want to do things that require a little energy such as going for walk , just going out to move my body , which annoys my boyfriend so much since he get exhausted very fast due to his age i guess. Maybe i am childish a little bit since i get happy for little things and laugh and get excited with my bestfriend for stupid things lol which also annoys my boyfriend since he does not understand why i laugh at stupid things.