So a couple months ago I started working at a golf course until I find another full time job. Everyone I work with is either still in their teens or at retirement age so im kind of caught in the middle.
Anyway, I typically would not go out or even allow myself to like anyone younger than I am (23) but the more me and this guy work together and talk, the more I realize that he checks off pretty much all my boxes. I just wait to be able to see him again and talk. I don't plan on making any moves because I don't know if what I'm getting from him is just friendliness or a little more than that.. seems like a little more but with hesitations because I used to say how young everyone is. Plus, he's ONLY 19! Am I crazy for this? Maybe I'm just touch/relationship deprived? I don't have any friends where I live and I haven't had any kind of relationship going on since the end of 2019.
Do you think it's weird for a 23 year old girl to be into a 19 year old guy?
Side notes: I typically don't want anyone younger because they're almost all immature, into drinking heavily, smoking, and partying.. he's not. He has more going for him since he's in school to be a nurse and I've never even been in college. But also, he doesn't have the relationship/adult experience. he's still a dependant and hasn't lived away from his family where I stopped being a dependant at 19, lived with one if my exes for 3 years, and now I'm trying to build an independent life for myself.
Anyway, I typically would not go out or even allow myself to like anyone younger than I am (23) but the more me and this guy work together and talk, the more I realize that he checks off pretty much all my boxes. I just wait to be able to see him again and talk. I don't plan on making any moves because I don't know if what I'm getting from him is just friendliness or a little more than that.. seems like a little more but with hesitations because I used to say how young everyone is. Plus, he's ONLY 19! Am I crazy for this? Maybe I'm just touch/relationship deprived? I don't have any friends where I live and I haven't had any kind of relationship going on since the end of 2019.
Do you think it's weird for a 23 year old girl to be into a 19 year old guy?
Side notes: I typically don't want anyone younger because they're almost all immature, into drinking heavily, smoking, and partying.. he's not. He has more going for him since he's in school to be a nurse and I've never even been in college. But also, he doesn't have the relationship/adult experience. he's still a dependant and hasn't lived away from his family where I stopped being a dependant at 19, lived with one if my exes for 3 years, and now I'm trying to build an independent life for myself.
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Oh, also he just turned 19 like 2 weeks ago. I turn 24 in July
